What's good, cuppies?!
It's Maleea~
and I'm Jae~
And we are back doing a follow-up to our previous video: Our Life Update
We felt like there were a lot of questions and so we wanted to answer those and make sure that we're all on the same page.
And this video will be for people who didn't watch our live.
Or who couldn't watch our live.
So okay let's just get into the questions and
if you have any more questions feel free to comment them below and we'll probably just answer them individually!
Okay so the first question is: How do you feel about moving?
Well, okay, we both have very different feelings, right? Sort of different feelings..
Me, I'm very excited to go back home even though home is crazy, it's still home.
But I will miss Korea. You know, it has been my home for the past four years.
And for me, I've been living in Korea for 25 years. It's kind of big deal.
I'm pretty nervous because my English is not that great.
*Maleea side eye* I went to America like three times
but it's different like between living and just like visiting. So I don't know what's gonna happen.
I don't think I'm ready./ You don't think you're ready?/ Like mentally I'm ready -
but you know.. physically and financially.
Well then that that ties right into our next question is: Where are you moving to?
We're moving back to my hometown, Cincinnati, Ohio.
A lot of people were like "Oh, you should come to California!" and California sounds great but
we kind of have to go where I know that I can study. And we need to go somewhere where
it's financially viable to do so, right? Like, I'm not going to be working while I study and
Jae, if he is working at that time, he's not going to be working like a salary job.
So we need to be somewhere where it's a little bit on the cheaper side so that we can live comfortably.
Next question is: When are you moving? We only have two days left in Korea.
I guess when you guys watch this video we will either be leaving or already left? I'm not sure...
When this video is up, we are gonna be on the plane and then the next video will be [us] in America.
So the next question is: Will you two work? And the answer is yes sorta?
So when we first go back to America, our work is going to be Youtube. So that's what
we'll be doing until I study. So, when I start studying, I won't be working and if I
do it'll be something on campus or related to my degree versus just you know having a separate job.
and by that time jay might be able to work but depending on how youtube goes he could just
continue with that he edits all the videos that is a full-time job.
And since my visa is still being processed,
I can't really work. So before that, Youtube is the main income source. Mainly.
Next one: What will Maleea study? Well, I got my bachelor's in psychology so I
will be going back to further study psychology and I'll be doing Industrial Organization Psychology.
Which is kind of like business psych and it's a master's program. My program will be-
I think it's like a year and a half- two years? So not that long~
Someone also asked if I had considered studying in
a different country and yes, but right now I think it's really not possible.
While that sounds great, if we really think about it I don't think I can go. I'm an American I know a lot of places are
withholding American passport holders from coming in, considering how poorly America was [is] dealing with
COVID so that's one thing. The second thing is while yes we could do Youtube in a different country..
What about Jae? Like.. what can what else can he do, you know?
he has a possibility to work when he gets his visa in America
but if we go somewhere else... what can he do? Seriously?
Like no it's not all about me, it's about us.
And we plan to travel later. So I don't really want to spoil the experience
of being in a different country, you know? We're gonna take our time later and do everything in as many countries as we can.
Okay next question: Will you make videos about the process of moving back?
Duh~
Like we said, the next video is gonna be our journey
to America IF everything goes as planned.
(or not as planned too frfr)
So yeah and then after that we're gonna shoot a lot./ It's gonna be everything.
Every aspect so don't worry about that.
Next: Any plans to return to Korea in the future?
We think that after I study, we're probably going to travel. So maybe one or two years of traveling.
And then at that point we can decide, right?/ But I don't think so
Because the reason why we're gonna we're gonna go to America is you're gonna study and
after world travel, you're gonna get a job in America. So the answer is no... for now.
Next one: Has jay ever been to America? Yeah, three times. Just for a trip.
With my friend one time. With Maleea two times. So I went to LA, Las Vegas and Cincinnati twice for
your [Mlaeea's] graduation. And just family visiting around Christmas time. And then we went to
New York two times and Chicago so that's all-/ We went to New York one time?/ New Year.
That's all../ You went to New York with somebody else? Another girl?
No, no...
Okay, one time.. hahaha
So yeah that's all my experience about America./ You're about to be fully immersed when you get there.
Next one: How does Jae feel about being away from his family?
I'm really- So I have two older brothers and one mom, no father.
So.. my mom... So next question is "what does his family think", I think I can combine these questions and answer.
So my mom is really sad about me moving and I'm really sad because she's sad and
I'm the youngest. I have two older brothers and I'm the best son. She loves me so she feels really
strong and she's always worried like what am I gonna do in America because I don't know.
But I had a secure job in Korea and I kind of like gave up for moving, all of the reason that we made
She can't force me but she talked to me a lot like "Oh why don't you stay? You had
that job, good job." what can I do? We already decided to move. So that's why I'm really
sorry because I can't be with her and she's getting old. And she doesn't have [my] father [around].
We said goodbye and we took a taxi after saying goodbye and I cried
like so hard.. it was like-
But the taxi driver was trying to talk to Jae... and he's like "Oh you're moving?"
"YES ):"- Literally...
And with the luggage, I was carrying all the luggage in the backseat like
It's not funny but... it's funny./ I'm seriously- I cried so hard.
So I have a question bonus question:
Does your mom feel remorse towards me? Like, does she feel like I'm taking you away from her?
I don't think she thinks like that way like 100% but maybe like... 20%?
Because it is true, kind of. If there's no you I'm not gonna go to America.
But she likes you.
I can tell that she doesn't feel angry towards me, still. So I mean that's a good thing. I feel like other Korean moms
especially like... it's one thing to like take her son away from her but to move him to a
different country they would be so mad./ Even if it's a Korean daughter-in-law, they would think that way.
Some moms. But my mom doesn't feel that way./ She seems very understanding.
How do you think adjusting in America will be? I'm not that conservative Korean-Korean, I know some
American cultures but it's gonna be hard because I've been living in here 25 years.
I love Korean food. I have a lot of, not a lot, but some Korean friends and I have family back here so it's
gonna be hard but I was thinking Korean food would be the hardest part but I was but
nowadays I'm meeting my friends to say goodbye and [I'm] saying goodbye to my family. They really like me...
*duh*
I don't know, I'm not that great person but people call me like
"Oh like, I miss you." "You know we gotta meet before you leave" and I'm like flattered
and now I feel "Oh it's gonna be hard", but loneliness will be the hardest.
If I can do it, you can do it./ Yeah, you did it for four years./ Yeah, I did it.
Wow, so many my question./ Yeah, your time to shine~
Next question: What's up with Jae's glow up?
What's up with that?
Since we've announced that I was working for air force in Korea. Republic of Korea air force,
not America. We couldn't really do anything like we can't grow your hair longer, it should be short.
And you can't grow beard. You can't do piercing. You can't do tattoo. So after I quit, I did it all.
That's it./ That's it~
Next question: Do we feel more secure as a married couple rather than dating?
And we're moving right now.. Ready, on the count of three, yes or no. Three two one...
No/Yes.
I feel like, let's hear me out, I don't feel more secure because I always felt secure with our relationship.
Okay so what are you- what are you gonna say?/ No, my point was about the relationship, the marriage
because of course we're secure. I'm not gonna leave and she's not gonna leave yeah we're stuck.
Even if we weren't married.../ So before, we were married officially but we didn't have a wedding
so I don't really feel- I didn't really feel like "Oh, we are a married couple" like we are a
married couple but we just didn't have a wedding. But now we're like moving as a family..
That's all... yeah yeah/ So we have the same reasoning but different answers?/ Oh yeahhh
Interesting... oh speaking of the wedding! Someone asked when the wedding will be.
We don't have a time, no date set right now because COVID is still still going we can't really make
a plan for that but maybe in a couple of years? Not next year but maybe the year after.
Next one...
Baby...
Everyone's favorite question, right?/ Sorry to tell you but I don't think we're gonna have baby
within three years. Because since Maleea is gonna study and we're gonna take world travel
If we have a baby, then I gotta have a baby while I'm studying which might be okay but
having a baby while we're traveling..../ No I don't think that's a good idea.. no.
Next question is about collabs~ Will we be doing any collabs in the future?
Maybe we can do collabs with other Youtubers!
Yeah, I mean why not? We can but I think it's kind of hard since
all of us live in very different states. We'd have to make quite the trip.
I could've contacted Jin and Juice and but since they're having a baby and she's pregnant again so..
Due to COVID, it's not really safe./ Yeah, I don't think we can really meet them for safety reasons.
And the next question is: How can we support? So how can you guys support us~
Well, first and foremost, as we always say in every video... like, comment and subscribe. But we understand
that maybe not every video warrants a comment? You know, like sometimes you just don't have anything
to say. We get that so you don't have to but something that is really important that like
if any of you are interested in becoming Youtubers you would know that watch time is really important.
So watching the whole video is really important and you know I know it's.... some people just don't
want to watch the whole video I get that but if you really want to help that is one thing that will really help us.
You could also donate if you really wanted to... you really don't have to
but if you want to you can! Someone asked if I have Cash App. I do, it's just my personal Cash App like-
I don't know, I kind of feel weird saying like "I'm gonna leave my Cash App below" like I don't
know but we do have Cash App and we do PayPal. PayPal is ours so if you're interested you
definitely can donate but there's other ways that you can support us without giving your own money.
You can also support us by using our Amazon links! So whenever you're going shopping on Amazon, just use our link!
Next one is Patreon. We don't currently have Patreon because we had [it, but]
We were working [long distance]. She was in Seoul and I was in other city. We didn't really
have time to do Patreon, we couldn't make another content for Patreon and the reason why we made
Patreon was we were planning to do work travel. But we cancelled- well, we didn't cancel.. the corona
cancelled it but we are planning to open Patreon next year. So if you are interested-
You can check it out when it comes. We'll give you more updates on that when it does come! so don't worry about it right now.
Okay! So those were all the questions that we saw and we added
a few in there so that we could give a little bit more context about what's happening, so yeah~
Like, comment, subscribe~
I won't do that every video, don't worry...
Okay so thanks for watching! We're so thankful that you guys are supporting us!
And I didn't say this earlier, but when we posted the [previous] video,
we weren't expecting it to be popular and we were actually expecting a lot of negative comments.
But you guys were so nice! I was like wow thank you... you know it was a hard decision
for us to make so we're glad that you heard us out before saying something.
So we really appreciate it.
So, make sure you're subscribed because we will be posting the next video of us
and our journey to America very soon.
We really appreciate it. Every support, every comment.
We read every comment./ Literally, every single one.
All right, see you in the next video!