Hey, Tripp Kramer here from trippadvice.com.
We're gonna be talking about how you
can respond to a loaded question.
Now you're going to be going out, you're
gonna be meeting girls and you're also
going to be getting into relationships.
And you're going to come to a point
where the girl that you're with, the
girl that you're meeting is going to be
asking you a loaded question. A
loaded question is basically a question
that doesn't have a correct answer. It's
like any way you answer, you're not
going to be giving her the right one and
they're also questions that bring up
bigger types of topics. I have some
examples here that I'm gonna show you.
Ones that come up fairly frequently. These
are the top ones I would say in terms of
what kinds of questions you're going to
hear from the girl. Don't fast forward
this video. I do have a line that you can
use word for word that is going to help
you respond to any of these loaded
questions. We gotta go through these so you
can really understand what's going on.
Then i'll give you the line that you
can use and help you understand how you
can use this to respond properly to
these loaded questions. Here's the first
example:
"Do I look fat in this?" Now you may have
heard this, maybe you even have
experienced this before when you're with
a girl, you're on a date or you're
getting ready to go on a date and she
tries on her clothes and she says "Do I
look fat in this?" If you haven't gotten this, I
promise you,
very high chance that you will get this
question. Another one is "Do you think
that girl is prettier than me?"
There's a lot of different variations of
that. A girl might say "Do you think my
friends are pretty?" 'Do you think my
friends are prettier than me?" She'll point
to a girl and she'll say "Do you think that girl's prettier than
me?"
What a tough question to answer, right?"
What a tough question to answer.
This is another one we're going to be
dealing with. Then there's this. This happens
when you first meet a girl. She might say
"How old are you?" Now in some way she
might be asking you this because she
truly wants to know how old you are but
she also might be asking you with a
smirk on her face like "How old are you?"
She's wondering if you're younger or
older. She's not necessarily asking
because she wants to know your age but
she's almost teasing
you a little bit like "How old are you?"
Another common one is "How many girls
have you slept with?" This conversation
comes up maybe in the first interaction,
maybe after a few dates. The girl is going
to want to know how many girls have you
slept with.
She might ask that and this is a tough
one because there's no real right answer.
You know, what's the right number to say?
Is it one? What if it's 10?
What if it's 30? What if it's a hundred?
At this point there's no real
answer.
That's going to make her be like "Oh ok
well that's that's a good number." But it
all depends.
This is another loaded question.
Now I want to give you my line that you
can say and we're going to attack each
and every one of these with this line
and i can give you an idea of how the
conversation was going to go. But the
line you say to her after she asks you
a question similar to those or maybe
another question you encounter that
seems like it's a loaded question like
it's a very personal question or
something that can't lead to a great
answer.
They're going to say this, you'll say "Why
are you asking me this question?"
That's going to be your response now.
Something very important here. When
you're saying this to her,
I don't want you to say it as a joke.
I don't want you to say with a little smirk on
your face.
I don't want you to say it as if you're
being playful.
I want you to respond in the way that
you're serious, you're more curious, you're
gonna have a curious look on your face.
You're gonna say "Why are you asking me this
question?" Like you want to know. You're
not going to say it in a mean way either.
It's gonna be semi neutral. You're not
going to like "Why you ask me this
question?" Because then it's just going to
escalate. You're going to sound defensive.
I want you to stay it with a curiosity in
your tone. "Why are you asking me this
question?" And this is going to stop her
in her tracks because she's going to be
a little bit caught off-guard. She's
probably expecting someone to say the
answer or get defensive.
But you're going to be just asking her why
she wants to know this question because
there's always a deeper meaning behind one
of these loaded questions. I wouldn't
take it at face value if she's asking
you "Do I look fat in this?" which is
really saying is she just wants
reassurance from you that she still
feels beautiful in your eyes. You let
her know that she is beautiful and when
you ask her "Why are you asking me this
question?" she might start to
have a conversation with you on a very
mature level about what she's really
trying to say.
Think about that in terms of all
these different questions.
Same here when she asks "Do you think that
girl is prettier than me?" Well maybe you've
been looking at that girl which you
should not do if you're on a date. But if
she's asking this
she just wants reassurance that you
think that she's beautiful and you
answer you say "You know how beautiful i
think you are."
That's how I want you to respond and
hopefully it's true. You're going to let
her know that she still is beautiful to
you. Now when she asks you how old are you, I
think it's good for you to know why
she's asking you that. If she just wants to
know how old you are, which she'll probably
end up just saying that, that's fine. But
maybe you did something that made her
think one way or the other. So why are
you asking me this question? Most likely
she's going to say "Well I'm just curious."
And then just be honest with her. But you
say it in a very confident tone. If
you're much younger and you're hitting
on an older girl, or you're much older
and hitting on a younger girl, be
confident in your age.
Just tell her straight up and then ask her.
Say "You know what, I'm 27. How old are you?"
But you still ask her "Why are you asking me
this question?" How many girls have you
slept with? This is a big one.
A girl's gonna ask you "How many girls have
you slept with?" I want you to say "Why are
you asking me this question?" Now you're
going to find yourself in a lot of
different situations with girls. You're
going to have trouble continuing
conversation. You might even have some
trouble getting her interested when
she's asking you questions like these
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I want you to learn more about the
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write in the comments below another
loaded question so if you have another
loaded question that girls ask you
write that down below in the comments
and I'll be there to help you out in
terms of how to answer it.
Thanks a lot. I'll see you in the next
video.