Tripp here from TrippAdvice.com.
Today, we're talking about how to approach a girl who is sitting down.
Now I know I've gotten this question a lot, how are you supposed to approach a girl who's
sitting?
When are you supposed to sit down?
Are you supposed to sit down?
What are you supposed to say?
Don't worry, I got all those answers for you right here.
In this video, what you're going to do is you're going to see one of my students doing
an approach.
He's going to girl who's sitting down.
I'm going to break down for you exactly what he's doing right and what he's doing wrong.
You can learn exactly how to approach a girl who is sitting down.
If you want to take conversation to the next level, and you want to learn what to say to
them after you do some approach when they're sitting, I want you to check out my brand
new podcast, it’s called How To Talk To Girls.
I'm putting on episodes every single week so you can learn exactly what to say to girls,
how to keep a conversation going, how to talk to girls who you meet at the bar, during the
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Of course, you guys might be thinking, I want to see you approach Tripp, I want to see you
do it. Where are you?
Where are your approaches?
No problem.
Check out my video, which is me on National Geographic TV, doing approaches.
You can see me do all kinds of fun approaches talking to girls on the street.
Check that out.
I'll put that link also in the description box right below this video.
More importantly, what I'm trying to get through to you is that if you want to learn and maximize
your learning and get better at learning how to approach girls, what you have to do is
you have to learn the mistakes that some of my students are making.
Some of the things that they're doing right.
This is going to maximize your learning.
You're going to learn so much better when you see what they're doing right and what
they're doing wrong.
Don't worry because I'm going to pinpoint all of these for you.
You're going to see every little nuance of what they're doing right and what they're
doing wrong.
Let’s check out that approach.
It's coming up right here right now.
Right now I'm going to show you one of my students doing an approach with a girl who
is sitting.
I know a lot of guys might be out during the day.
Or they might be at a bar somewhere, they might see a girl who is sitting down.
What I want to show you here is exactly how to approach a girl who is sitting, what are
you supposed to do, what are you supposed to said.
I'm going to show you an example from one of my students who does a really great job
opening up conversation out of nowhere with a girl who is sitting down.
Just bear with me in the beginning.
That camera is a little bit shaky, but then it evens out.
Let's start it right now.
Hi.
That's a really cool bracelet.
Where did you get that?
This one?
Yeah. Festival, in Belgium.
Festival, in Belgium. Great opener right there.
He saw that she had a cool bracelet.
He opened up and said, hey, that's a cool bracelet.
Where did you get that?
Easy way to start conversation and approach a girl.
He was able to see really clearly too that she was wearing a bracelet because she was
just sitting down.
He could see that and one easy thing to comment on.
Now watch as he continues.
Belgium.
I’ve never been there.
That was an interesting place.
Yeah?
Yeah, have you been there?
I come from Belgium.
He starts talking about where she's from, Belgium and he just invites himself to sit
down.
This is a little bit of a bold move.
Now it's obvious that the reason why he even came to go talk to her was to hit on her,
which isn't the end of the world.
But it takes a little bit away from the authenticity
of him actually being interested in the bracelet.
Again, while it worked out, and the conversation does flow nicely, I would have liked it if
he waited maybe about 30 more seconds or so to actually sit down, but he did it so smoothly.
You can see he kept looking at her, he kept eye contact and then went right down to sit
down, and continue conversation with her.
That's the way I want you to do it when you see a girl who's sitting.
Continue conversation.
You don't have to ask if you can sit down, just do it while keeping conversation flowing
as you're sitting and remaining with solid eye contact.
You’re from Belgium?
Yeah. No way.
You don't look like you're from Belgium.
What do I look from?
You’re more look from Italy.
Here he's just playing around.
He's teasing her a little bit.
He's having fun with her like, oh, you don’t look you’re from Belgium.
You look from Italy.
Just kind of joking around.
One thing I wanted to point out that he does really well here is his body language.
See how he just leans back.
That's a great way to sit down, look very confident and comfortable.
Very, very relaxed.
He's not very tense.
See how he does that.
I want you to do that too.
When you do a sit down approach like this, if you do one where a girl is sitting down
on the grass, just lean back a little bit and be comfortable.
Again, look at how much she's smiling.
Look how excited he is and happy is to talk to her.
That is going to lower her guard a little bit and make her way more comfortable to talk
to him.
No.
I like Italy.
You got a red hair.
Yeah, but that’s fake.
No way, it doesn't look fake to me.
A little bit of an awkward touch there.
I know that he did that because we were practicing that and having him get better at and do a
little bit more touching.
I wouldn't have touched a girl right there.
But you know, it was a good try.
Again, he just felt it because she seemed really comfortable with him in the conversation
the past 30 - 45 seconds.
Either way, this is a solid approach.
This is exactly how I want you to approach a girl who's sitting down.
Just go for it.
Within about 30 seconds to a minute you go for this, sit down, be relaxed when you do
it.
From there, you can continue conversation and make it flow based on what you guys are
talking about.
If you want to learn more about how to continue conversation, and how to get conversation
flowing after you do an approach like this, I want you to check out my podcast, it's called
How To Talk To Girls.
That's on iTunes.
You can go and start listening now.
There's a link in the description below.
You're going to learn how to keep a conversation going, how to get girls interested in you
through conversation, and exactly what to say to them when you get past the opener.
I'll teach you about some openers and done for you templates that you can use in terms
of conversation.
You're going to more importantly learn how to keep the conversation flowing and what
to say in conversation.
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There you go, you learn how to approach a girl who is sitting.
I'll see you on the next video.