...what did the KKK do?! that is not, look, we'll go around in circles...did you say
what did the KKK do?!?! no what did they do it would agree with what he did then now
I should shut up because I'm white so I should shut up I shouldn't be able to
talk about black issues because I'm white that was just funny that was just
funny there's a funny moment gonna get a little bit hot in today's interview
between Tommy Lauren and Trevor Noah let me ask you first in college football how
many points do you think it's worth if you're playing at home you have the
home-field advantage your crowd is there you're familiar with the field it's
about two and a half points and the NFL it's about two point seven points now
when you're talking about social interaction a home-field advantage like
if you go on someone's show like Trevor Noah his daily show where he has the
entire crowd at his side it's worth much much more you're at a significant
disadvantage if you're coming into that environment where everyone's against you
especially if you hold views different than the other person and the crowd I'm
gonna talk to you more at the end of the video about why that is but both of
these two are very talented number one and number two they have so much
experience think of how many times these people have had these heightened stress
types of situations or the other person is against them all the time and that's
why I picked out this video to break it down my name is Baron cruise this is the
charisma matrix and here on this channel I teach you the social skills you need
to get what you want out of life I want you to improve socially so you can feel
comfortable when you're out in public enjoy yourself and succeed and strive so
I'm gonna break down all the social maneuvers that they do that you may not
notice just when you're watching intuitively it may just look like a
heated conversation but I'm gonna point out all the strategic things that they
do so you can recognize these they recognize these in your life so if
somebody tries to pull one on you you can spot it and handle it like a pro all
right let's jump in and watch how this thing
so one thing I want to say is with Comedy Central they will only allow you
to play super short clips so I'm gonna really have to chop this up but I'll put
a card up here you can click up here in the right corner if you want to see the
whole interview just as it plays through if you wanted more context you consider
yourself a conservative I do okay I mean I'm a millennial so I don't really like
labels but yes I'm conservative in thought sorry my brain you just gave him
labels to say you don't like labels but anyway that was funny that was just
funny was a funny moment alright that was well done by Trevor Noah so he
caught her by saying she's a millennial so she doesn't like labels cuz being a
millennial is a label as well and then if she tried to defend herself saying no
that this and this and this and this and this what did he do he didn't get into
it like no you said you're a little enniaa Matt's giving yourself a label
now he would be defending his position so it's actually a better move for him
to do what he did all he did was no it's just funny I know I know and she's
digging herself a deeper getting on and I listen it's just funny it's just funny
kind of like I know you're an idiot you know you called yourself a millennium
saying a millennial saying you did not want a label you gave yourself a Labor
it's just funny it's just funny how many times did he say that here I saw five
fallen officers because of it that's not fair that's true shooter said point
blank shooter said he's doing this because of black lives matter alright
catch that there you can tell that Trevor Noah was on the fence of
something he was gonna say he didn't have that great of a retort and she
sensed it and just talked right over him and you know a lot of people get talked
over a lot and it's a big problem in their life and I actually have a video
right here you can click on to teach you what to do if somebody talks over you
but in this instance this is a very nuanced way that she addressed it
because if you act like you're a hundred percent sure and what you're saying and
you're talking loudly and you're making strong eye contact the chance of
somebody trying to talk over you is much less than when you don't seem sure of
yourself and I want to I want you to watch this back and notice
how Trevor no it does not seem sure of himself with this and she just bulldozes
right over said point-blank shooter said he's doing this because of black lives
matter yes and there are many things you can say I mean if you go outside you can
say anything about doing something because of you cannot deny that the man
had mental issues as well and he was in a tough place just you notice his whole
tone of voice is different and more unsure when he is not unsure wouldn't he
is less sure about the point that he's making and everyone's like that because
you say the thing doesn't mean it's what it stands for but it's kind of a read
like at a poker game or you know someone's real hand if they're not even
giving the nonverbals that they're sure of something well they're probably not
there's probably a reason for it all right because you're the same person
you're the same person who argued on your show that just because Donald Trump
has supporters from the KKK doesn't mean he's in the KKK so there's that
home-field advantage right any point that they make and there's a pause you
got the crowd behind you and that's tough as the person who is at the not
the home field the visitor I should say it's tough when you get laughs and
applause because you can never get any momentum and you begin to anticipate
negative reactions from the person in the crowd which means you really just
have to maintain your own state which means you have to be very competent in
yourself and what you're saying and did you know that a black man is eighteen
point five times more likely to shoot a police officer than a police officer is
to shoot a black man those are statistical ways to talk about you think
so so let me ask you this time okay did you catch it right there that's the
ultimate home-field advantage when they can go and cut out segments if they
don't want you to see did you notice they cut from one to the other because
clearly he I don't know what he said but clearly it must have not been positive
for him so that really is that that also enables him to be much more loose
because he has or his company whatever Comedy Central has final approval I'm
not sure what the industry term is but to cut out the parts that they want and
leave the parts in but when you're the guest if you mess up not only are they
not gonna cut that out they're gonna focus that and feature that in
the ads leading up to it so that's another way that the home-field
advantage or Trevor Noah can play much more loose because he knows that even if
he makes a crazy mistake or something goes wrong they can simply cut it out if
you watch it again way to shoot a police officer than a
police officer is to shoot a black man those are statistics normal ways to talk
about it here's the thing so so if you think so so true diversity is diversity
of thought diversity of color I don't see color I go up for Hillary Clinton a
few times you don't you don't see color so what do you do at a traffic light
that's I actually think that makes him look worse because once again it's just
a layup anytime that you can misinterpret something that's just so
lowbrow like that's third-grade humor done in a bad way but he's got
home-field advantage right so he knows he's gonna get a laugh and if he doesn't
they can put a laugh track in in the back to make it seem like something but
it's pretty clear when you're having a racial discussion you say you don't see
color that you're referring to you don't you're not affected by the color of
someone's skin and he says what do you see at a traffic light just to lay up
just too lowbrow I just think that I mean what do you
think about that there's anyone who heard that it was like oh god are
happening so when not now becomes the narrative and you're starting to loot
burn and riot what did the KKK do that is not look we'll go around in circles
did you say what of the KKK did you see that's another one of those like that's
kind of his thing I just think that's dumb I just think that that's too
lowbrow like once again she's clearly asking what actions did they take where
she's drawing those cook those commonalities and those correlations and
he's like what do you mean you don't know what they did well you don't see
color can you see a traffic light she's not good his first meant right to do it
I don't agree with what he did so because I don't agree with what he did
then now I should shut up because I'm white so I should shut up I shouldn't be
able to talk about black issues cuz I'm white go on boy no one brought up whites
at all I never said that I don't see color I
that's what the argument is there's the old throwback the robot humor but you
know once again like these these are kind of just lowbrow like I don't think
Trevor Noah is very oppressive very impressive right here he's taken all
these super lay up cracks that are just so lowball once again it's just low
intelligence humor I I it's it's it's not impressive to me and then I started
to see that was gonna be our nominee and I said it's him or Hillary a lot of
Americans were in that position yeah and then I got closer to the campaign and I
started seeing some of the things he was saying and I started seeing the effect
he was having on people the things that he was saying they were touching people
and making it was touching people all right that was poor on her on her part I
feel because she had kept it together so well like no emotion just kind of
laughing whenever he was saying things that were funny you know not showing
that she's mad or angry but then to kind of give that low blow about Hillary
could use somebody touching her throwing back to the old Bill Clinton stuff it
just to end especially to end the interview like that it just it was a
departure from congruence you know what I mean like her whole image and
arguments were congruent until that and then once again maybe he'll maybe she
was sucked into his low third grade kind of humor throughout the the interview
who knows what was cut out but I feel like that was definitely not a point in
her favor to do that she could have ended a lot more elegantly now I want to
talk to you about ben shapiro and bill maher those guys really went at it but
before i do i want to ask you when you're out do you feel uncomfortable do
you feel like you're not sure how to go up and make a good impression with
people maybe you do some time you don't some time you feel like there's some
randomness that can really zap your competence and if you feel that way or
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if you're coming from this video go through 5 things that will get you up to
speed on that now bill maher is also very liberal and ben shapiro is very
conservative and these guys really I went at it and I break down that video
it's a really interesting one if you haven't seen that you can touch or click
up here to go to it I'll talk to you in that video because they have more guts
than the Liberals the rules don't go on conservative shows they don't come on
this show sometimes