Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video we're gonna be
talking about the foolproof formula to flirting and look who's flirting right
behind me. Prime example.
Flirting; there is a formula. There is something that you can memorize
and it will help you in terms of when you're interacting with a girl.
Here's the quick formula for all those who always complain that I talk too much and
don't get right to the point, basically you got to make sure that you're doing
verbal flirting, nonverbal flirting and then what I like to call intention.
I'm gonna start with the one that most people don't think about. Most people
don't do which is why I talk about it at length on my channel but I know that you
don't watch every single video so I have to repeat myself sometimes and we're
talking about that third one which is intention. What is intention? It's
very easy what are your intentions? What are your intentions when you're talking
to a girl? Think about that so that's about moving the interaction forward.
Hold on, gotta get an ant off the lens. There we go. It's about moving the interaction
forward. You don't just flirt with a goal to flirt and then say okay bye see
you later. No, the purpose of flirting is to be able to move the interaction
forward. That means that you are going to see her at another time. You are going to
make a date with her. You are going to continue seeing her after the initial
meet-and-greet wherever that may be. It's about continuing to spend time with her.
That is why you flirt. Everything is a means to an end you have to be
goal-oriented here and the reason why I'm acting so systematic about this
process is because a lot of guys forget that because they don't want the
rejection. They're afraid of getting rejected by the girl which is why they
don't have the intention behind the flirting and then you have wonderful
nonverbal flirting. Nonverbal flirting is my favorite and the reason why is
because it's so easy and it gets so much done.
Nonverbal flirting is the actual body space between you and the girl.
How far away is she from you? Do you guys have a very big gap between you and her,
it's gonna make it difficult to connect with her so you want to make sure that your
body is physically close to hers when you first meet her, when you're
talking to her in conversation. Obviously not like inches away unless you are at
some sort of club or a loud environment and then it calls for it but
otherwise you want to eventually get to the point where you guys are at least a
foot and a half away and no more than that. Other nonverbal
ways of flirting are eye contact. I mentioned that on maybe 33% of the
videos that I have out on the YouTube channel. Eye contact is a great way to
connect with a girl. It's really a great way to connect with anybody. Giving
someone intense eye contact and that's nonverbal. Because you're not
saying anything, you're doing something with your body. Looking at her in the eye
and again, recapping a little bit, looking her in the eye, getting close to her
in conversation and also breaking the touch barrier. In fact there's a secret
spot on a girl's body that drives her wild. I'm gonna put a video down in the
comment below. Maybe you've seen the video already where I tell you that
secret spot and tell you exactly how to take advantage of that spot so it is
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too Find Your Pack. And now we move to verbal flirting to really tie everything
together because of course you're going to be speaking to a girl, you're going to be
talking to her, words are going to be coming out of your mouth.
What are you gonna be saying to her? What is an example of verbal flirting? Teasing
her, calling her nicknames, disagreeing with her playfully because that's what
flirting is all about. Everything is very playful and that's what I want you to do
when you're with a girl. What's it like when you're a
five-year-old again? Five-year-olds are playing, they're teasing, they're
having fun. Try to really harness that energy. I know that sounds
completely ridiculous and maybe even a little silly to you. But that's what
flirting is. It's going back and reverting to this kind of childlike
innocence and then harnessing that into the idea of showing interest with a girl.
One of my favorite things to tease a girl on it. Just calling her a nerd and
for any reason whatsoever just calling her a nerd and calling her out on
something and then in terms of disagreeing an example would be like if
she likes something or if she's from somewhere to say no you're not, no, no
that's not true, that's not true. Because then it gets her going to validation
mode it's like yes it is, yeah it is and then you guys are just kind of
playfully teasing and fighting each other. Again sounds a little
counterintuitive but it does work.
I made a quick pit stop and we're going to try what is known as durian which
is apparently a very polarizing fruit. Some people love it, a lot of people hate it and
you're not allowed to bring it anywhere because it smells pretty intense.
Alright here we go.
It's not bad. Yeah I give dating advice and fruit advice. How to
eat fruit.
I don't think you want to pick up girls with durian.
How do you throw this all together? It's like okay we got this
nonverbal type of flirting, we got some verbal flirting in there and then
there's intention in there. How does this all work together? Here's
one example; imagine you're talking to a girl for a while and you look her dead
in the eye and you just say you are such a dork.
And you say this while you're close to her like. This is a great
example of what flirting looks like when you tie all of it together and it can be
very powerful. Another example of this could be looking her in the eyes while your
body is close to hers and you say to her there is something very interesting
about you. We should hang out sometime and that is an example of intention.
You can't forget that with all the lovely flirting and conversation it
always ends up in spending more time together in that moment whether you guys
continue to hang out after you initially meet or getting her number and grabbing
and date with her and letting her know that. I think a lot of guys they end
up not being very clear about what they want and this actually hurts them. This
is not being mysterious by the way. This is being confusing and women aren't
attracted to guys who are confusing. They're attracted to guys that really go after
what they want and know what they want. This is all talked about by the way in
my program Hooked and shame on you if you've not checked it out yet. I talk
about all these different examples of building this tension between you and
the girl which is flirting and then being dominant and going for her number
or going for spending more time with her. Continuing the interaction. I call that
dominance and that's all in my program called Hooked. Link in the description
down below. I know that you guys want to learn a lot about flirting but I don't
know if this is something that has helped you. Is this beginner stuff? Is
this easy, are you guys doing this, are you flirting? Do you need more help in
this area. Write a comment down below, let's communicate with each other and
don't forget down below I can help you out with a free video called Chick Crack
with the topics of conversation that women love to talk about. We can help
you with conversation and then you can inject
some of these little flirting techniques that I gave you. Get that, write a
comment down below and I'll see you tomorrow with more good stuff.