Hey there, fellas.
Kay and Beardy here from Mantelligence.
Today, we’re showing you 5 things to give up if you want to be successful with women.
Because when you think about it, giving up something to gain something isn’t a new
concept.
Oh, how so?
Well Beardy, you wouldn’t drink soda after a workout would you?
Of course not.
It’d immediately make me feel like garbage after I’m already feeling good from the
exercise.
Precisely.
And THAT’S why, dear viewers, we’ll be talking about the 5 habits you need to give
up if you want to be successful with women.
They’ll only hold you back.
And dismissing these horrible habits will have, not only a positive impact on your life
and wellbeing, but will also make a girl crazy for you.
That’s right!
And don’t forget, guys.
You know by now that we always have a bonus at the end of the video.
So make sure you watch ‘till the end for a surprisingly easy habit that you NEED to
start doing today in order to become successful not only with women, but with everything else
too.
For now, let’s dive into the 5 habits you need to relinquish, especially if you want
women to like you.
5 Self Center Fever
There was a time back in the day when I wasn’t
as awesome as I am now.
Oh stop it, Beardy.
But seriously..
I used to be so inexperienced with dating that whenever I had the chance to actually
have a conversation with a girl..
I talked about myself non-stop.
Little did I know that the harder I tried to tell these women how amazing I was, the
farther I got from impressing them.
The lesson here?
Once you’re talking to her, stop selling yourself.
She’s already talking to you, which means she’s at least interested in you.
She’ll ask the questions she wants to know, which means you don’t have to provide the
answers unless she asks.
And you know what doing that accomplishes?
It makes you seem more mysterious, and women love a man who’s a puzzle they need to figure
out.
So don’t undo all your hard work by focusing only on yourself.
Instead, take the chance to get to know her, like REALLY know her.
Ask her questions and pay attention to her answers.
Because it turns out that asking questions and actively listening are one of the habits
women love.
Doing so makes them (and everyone really) feel like you care about getting to know them
as a person.
So in the end, get out of the habit of focusing on yourself.
Your anxiety does that enough for you when you’re trying to fall asleep at night.
4. Adventure Aversion
Okay..
So, when you think of adventure, what comes to mind?
Do you picture yourself climbing a mountain?
How about jumping out of a plane?
Fighting a Grizzly Bear?
Those are pretty adventurous.
But you don’t have to do something absolutely nuts to get a girls attention and be considered
“adventurous.”
That’s because when it comes to dealing with women, being adventurous can simply mean
being open to doing new things.
You see, one of the unattractive things that guys don’t know they do is become predictable.
And predictability is booorrrring!
So give up your predictable habits and live an interesting life.
Stop piling up fast food bags in your car and try that new Indian place that opened
up.
Check out the Art Museum since you’ve never been.
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3. Lying Lad
Remember when we were all a little younger
and A LOT more naive?
Like way back when you’d hear the story of Pinnochio before bedtime?
No, I don’t..
Hah!
Nice try, Beardy!
Anyway, I clearly remember my mom telling me that story every night before I go to sleep.
It turns out, my mom was actually setting me up for success by reading me that story.
She was essentially teaching me not to lie.
As I grew older, I still told lies here and there for a time.
But I quickly learned that the success rate for getting away with a lie is much lower
than the success rate of simply being honest, no matter the occasion.
That’s right, guys.
Telling the truth, no matter how hard it is, will ALWAYS make you look good, even if you
were in the wrong.
I saved myself from getting fired from my last job by telling the truth in a specific
instance.
But not only does telling the truth save you from getting fired, it’s how you make any
girl fall in love with you.
You don’t like being lied to, do you?
So why would you lie to someone you want to like you?
By the way, in case you need more than honesty to make girls chase you, you might wanna check
out a separate video we made discussing just that.
Hey, I know you guys are already itching to shop for a new Vincero watch since we mentioned
it, but hang on just a little bit longer because
we have 2 more items on our list of things to give up plus the #1 habit you DO need to
adapt if you want to be successful with women.
So stay tuned.
For now, let’s finish up the last two items on our list.
2. Comparison Catastrophe
If you want to be successful with women (or
life in general), this one right here is SUPER important.
One of the habits of successful men is constant self-improvement.
And one of the key words in that is “self.”
Simply put, successful men focus on themselves, NOT other people.
They don’t care what the haters say about them because negativity negates success.
The only thing that matters to successful guys is how they can be better than they were
yesterday.
So break the bad habit of comparing yourself to others.
Those thoughts only make you feel worse about yourself.
There’s always going to be someone who’s better looking than you, or better at sports
than you, or better at Call of Duty than you.
You have your own strengths so focus on them instead of the bad.
In my case, I’m a cartoon so my strength is that I always look good.
You sure about that, Beardy?
Seriously though, guys.
You’re the only one that should matter.
Break the habit of worrying about what other people are doing better than you.
1. Cling Bling
The final habit that you need to break, which
can also be one of the reasons girls think you are unattractive is a BIG one.
And if you’ve never had it happen to you, it can be VERY hard to see how it feels when
you do it to someone else.
We’ve all done it though…
Been too clingy with a girl we REALLY like.
We’ve all scared off at least one.
So stop that and keep your emotions in check.
Oh, come on, Beardy.
It’s not as easy as that when emotions are running high.
Yeah, you’re right.
Being too clingy is one of the most challenging bad habits to break.
Yep.
But one of the best ways to break it is to keep your distance in the early days of a
potential relationship.
What do you mean, Kay?
Well, we’ve told you viewers that texting is absolutely critical in getting a girl to
like you.
But in the first couple weeks, stay busy and FORCE yourself to avoid texting her all day.
When you’re getting to know someone, even through text, it can be overwhelmingly exciting,
and after a couple of days, you can sometimes find yourself prematurely writing your wedding
vows.
However, if you break the habit of constant contact, it gives you time to focus on your
own life, which is much more important than the future life you’ll destroy if you move
too fast.
Remember our last item?
Where we said not to worry about what other people are doing and focus more on yourself.
If you want to be successful with women, keeping your excited mind occupied with your own stuff
is the most successful way to avoid scaring them off.
Hey, you’ve made it to the last part of the video.
Thanks for sticking with us.
Now that you know the things you should give up,
it’s now time for us to tell you the #1 habit you should practice if you want to be
successful with women.
And it’s simple: Follow the Golden Rule.
Or treat others the way you want to be treated.
In other words, be more kind.
It may sound cheesy, but love really does make the world go ‘round.
And the more positivity you spread, The more likely it is that people (especially
women) will like you.
After all, nobody likes a Negative Ned.
So get in the habit of seeing the good in the world.
There’s lots of it, but we can always use a little more.
Do you know any other things that should be given up if you want to be successful with
women?
Let us know in the comments section.
There you have it, the 5 habits to give up plus the one thing you should start doing
if you want to be successful with women.
Check out our other videos like this one where we walk you through how to make girls chase
you.
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Thank you for watching!