hi Steve so after seven years married
and five kids my husband is constantly
calling me crazy it's something all you
men say to your women and its really
annoying it riles us up so here's an
example we were at a wedding and I I
came out of the bathroom to find him
laughing and smiling with another woman
so my immediate reaction was to ask him
what's so funny
and
so his instant reaction was to call me
crazy so I want to know Steve why do men
call women crazy and what to do they
really mean why do men call you crazy
it's because you are crazy well the
person thinks they lost a man they're
not crazy the people that think they're
not crazy they're crazy so this question
comes from the absolute goldmine that is
the Steve Harvey Show and it's during
this segment called what do men really
want Steve Harvey gathered up a big
audience of women to ask questions and
then gathered up a big audience of men
to answer those questions through a poll
in this particular video the poll is
kind of irrelevant so I'm not gonna go
over it but I thought I would use this
special to remind you or introduce you
if you're new to all the behaviors that
you don't have to deal with when you go
amid Tao take energy for example
she's our exhibit a and Jean is a woman
who was confused as to why her husband
of seven years called her crazy and she
gets really pissed when her husband says
it to listen to her voice again my
husband is constantly calling me crazy
it's something all you men say to your
women and its really annoying it Ryles
us up maybe it's just me but have you
ever noticed that the only people who
get super offended at being called crazy
or people who are crazy I mean if she
wasn't crazy she would just laugh at her
bad behavior and then course cried for
the next time instead she got pissed off
because she has no intention of actually
changing that behavior when really her
husband was being nice and using a
euphemism when he called her crazy
because he should have called her
controlling and abusive we were at a
wedding and I I came out of the bathroom
to find him laughing and smiling with
another woman so my immediate reaction
was to ask him what's so funny and he is
on such a short leash that he can't even
so much as enjoy speaking to another
woman in polite conversation and she is
the one who was offended when he calls
her crazy for running up to him and
saying who's this ho I'm picking up on a
severe lack of class here she's treating
him like he is guilty until proven
innocent
that's not how sane people treat others
the
is how a sane person would handle this
situation where she thought her husband
may be trying to cheat he walk up to him
after going to the bathroom and say hey
I was just gonna get a drink from the
bar do you want one when the woman he is
talking to seesee you say oh hi my name
is Angie nice to meet you then she might
respond hi Angie my name is Cheryl nice
to meet you too how do you know John Oh
John and I had been married for seven
years there was that so hard you found
out who he's talking to you've notified
her that he is married and you were
polite about it
so that you didn't piss anyone off
that's how you do it despite how easy
this all is she tries to beat him down
for daring to talk to someone other than
her and then she tries to come out like
a good guy by saying how dare all you
men call women crazy you mean how dare
your husband call out your abusive
behavior how dare your husband point out
that you don't trust him now before I
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last time I thought my wife was crazy
I'm a newlywed I've been married for
about two months
a Gillette in the last time you gonna
say it home we got a nice wedding gift
in the mail it was a silver cake cutter
server very expensive very nice and it
came in terrible condition it was dirty
and tarnished and my wife was upset
about this she wanted to send it back
she thought it should be in perfect
condition I didn't see what the big deal
was I thought we could just put in the
dishwasher and keep it and no harm no
foul that was the wrong answer so this
this uh you know sparked a huge fight we
argued she stormed off she slept on the
couch that night and I'm thinking
I'm thinking all of this over a little
you know tiny cake knife and so
eventually I relented we returned the
knife and you know everything was moved
over and we're fine but it just kind of
reminds me that you know crazy can kind
of pop up anytime I don't think that
this guy was really paying attention to
what happened maybe he was just thinking
well I'm used to it so this sounds like
fairly normal behavior this situations
not too bad
are you kidding me they just got married
and his wife inks that it's a good idea
to have a blowout argument to the point
where she has to go sleep somewhere else
over a dirty cake knife in the words of
Tom Lycus the marriage is new so this is
the best it's ever going to get it's
only downhill from here and she's
already having a massive fight over
nonsense do you know what this really
says about her personality and what this
says about their relationship it says
that she thinks a stupid wedding gift
that you can just clean with soap and
water is more important than a happy
marriage this cake knife is so important
that she would rather risk her
relationship than put up with a dirty
knife she cares more about that damn
knife than she does her husband two
months into the marriage he should try
for an annulment or a high-speed divorce
the fact that he doesn't see this and
plays it off as just crazy is amazing to
me it's amazing how well women are able
to hide their abusive behaviors to most
men I mean she has her husband so well
trained that he says he gave her the
wrong answer when he stated his opinion
no harm no foul that was the wrong
answer the wrong answer as if she's the
final judge on what's right and what's
wrong is this the kind of equality that
feminists fought for speaking of
equality the only response he gets to
his story is that the women were unhappy
that she had to sleep on the couch
instead of him now let me tell you
something the whole time you were saying
this you know what this audience picked
up and they said she slept on the couch
she slept on the couch now I must be the
insane person because what I see is a
woman who through an absolute fit over
nothing which damaged her marriage and
the women in the audience think that the
husband is guilty and he is the one who
should sleep on the couch because he's
the man if this is what married men have
to put up with as normal behavior then
why the hell would any man want to get
married
so Thank You Sandman thank you Tom like
us thank you TFM for sparing me and
everyone else from this this
next clip comes from a different special
which is just the opposite special what
do women really wants back in the day
when I was in relationships with a
couple of girls not all at the same time
but it was more or less she was so
concerned about where I was so I would
get a phone call and she'd say hey where
are you and I'd be like I'm just hanging
out with my friends doing whatever we're
doing pretty much nothing so her
question to me is always oh well would
you mind maybe send me like a snapchat
or you know anything to let me know
exactly what you're doing at this moment
so my question is why is it so dang
important for women to know exactly what
we're doing every second of the day
there are all these feminists talk shows
that women watch where they talk about
the toxic mail the mail abuser he
isolates you from your friends and
family he doesn't let you do anything
without his approval first
he always wants to know what you're
doing do you women ever point the finger
at yourself because I've known many
women to be able to identify an abuse of
mail only to go right ahead and practice
the same exact behavior on their partner
but this is clown world so I guess I'm
wrong somehow constantly checking where
you are is a good thing when women do it
well this is what we did fellas we
surveyed this a lovely group of women
behind me and we asked is it because a
women like details is how we're built B
we don't trust you all right is it C to
make sure we approve of what you're
doing
a whopping 71% of women say it see they
want to make sure they approve of what
you're doing oh I get it now you see she
cares about you so much that she just
wants to check up on your every move to
see if you are making the right decision
my first thought when I saw this clip
was what exactly is the difference
between we don't trust you and to
approve of what you're doing because
there isn't 71 percent of women said
that they wanted to approve of what
their partner was doing and 23 percent
of women said they don't trust their
partner
this means that 94 percent of women who
were polled don't trust their partner 94
percent now I'll wait for someone in the
comments to write a 10 paragraph essay
and why most women are still viable
partners because clearly I'm wrong about
this or am i 71 percent said they wanted
to approve of what their partner was
doing why are they behaving like that
why are they micromanaging their
partners why do women do this it's not
because they care about you and just
want to make sure you aren't making bad
choices it's because they know that they
have very little to bring to the table
and any other woman he's just as good as
she is if you were a man out in a place
with other women then you might discover
that you could just trade her in for a
better model if she was valuable if she
had more to offer than just children and
sex that she wouldn't care where you
were outgoing because she knows that
other women wouldn't be able to compete
with her that is why all of these women
are so insecure they know they haven't
built anything that would make them more
valuable than any other woman on the
street that is why they have to abuse
their men into staying with them
okay ladies let me ask you a question
are you curious about the grumblings
that you're hearing from the 2,000 men
yes okay I think that when you answer
71% of you say it's because you want to
make sure that you approve of what we're
doing they think they don't need your
approval
but fellas but listen to this though
it's really better than them saying they
don't trust you because that's how we
take it that's how we take it that's
because that's how it is it sounds
better than them saying they don't trust
the men they are dating of course it
sounds better because they are lying
about their behavior to make it look
like they are doing something honest and
good so now not only are you dealing
with a woman who doesn't trust you you
are dealing with a liar that lack of
trust is just her behavior projected
onto you she knows that she is a liar
therefore to her everyone is a liar
therefore her boyfriend is a liar and he
is guilty until he proves himself
innocent with snapchat
however it's not like they're
consciously doing this stuff it's worse
than that they care so little about
other people's needs that they are
completely unaware that this is bad
behavior look at their response to the
guy's outrage they can't see that they
are dishonest they can't see that they
are abusive they can't see that everyone
hates being micromanaged if you don't
care enough to notice things like this
then what makes you think that men we
want to put up with someone who is not
willing to look at herself and her
situation critically so much of this is
just completely antisocial behavior
behavior that makes you entirely
undesirable to other people in general
so the only way you can get those people
to be around you is to manipulate and
abuse them this is the kind of behavior
that I work against you don't want to be
antisocial because every opportunity you
get is going to start with good
communication skills take their bad
example and run from it because clearly
these women are not effective
communicators micked how should be men
who are highly desirable and the reason
that is is because you will save far
more men if you are a desirable person
than if you are an anti-social
basement-dwelling loser because it will
be someone who other men want to be like
and if you want to get back at women for
all of the abusive things that they have
done then the greatest way to do that is
to be the best version of yourself
despite that abuse bad people hate it
when other people are successful and
when those bad women start orbiting you
you can leave them in the dust be that
one cake she can t be the one gallon tub
of ice cream
she can't have and you could be the kind
of person who won't put up with any of
this described on this Steve Harvey
special and with that said I think that
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