Okay, all of you are going to want to stick with me until the end of this video because I promise
I'm going to be dropping some serious knowledge about how you can level up your life and how you
can actually start to attract women. And the reason why I'm making this entire playlist,
right becoming attractive that I've showed you now, for the past couple of weeks, this is our
third episode of This is because over the course of time, from ages, you know, 1718, when I started
my journey in understanding women understanding how to mature understanding how to live as a man,
until now, you know, going on age 27, there's a lot of things that I learned along the way.
And my step by step journey has not only helped me, K, attract the type of women that I want,
and ultimately make sure like I'm fulfilled. But I've done this now for 1000s, and 1000s, and 1000s
of men, and as his channel keeps growing, as the support gets bigger, what I can tell you is this,
I'm more prone to opening up to deeper level concepts that I have not talked about. So
here's what you have to know, when I was young, I was extremely shy, I was extremely awkward,
and I didn't know what to do. Okay, I didn't know how to come out of my shell. I was scared, I was
nervous, and I was insecure, okay. And on top of that, with the issues that I had with my family,
you know, with my parents divorced, that I haven't talked a whole lot about ever, but there's some
traumatic things that happened very early in my life that one day when I'm maybe comfortable at
sharing that I'll share it with you. But here it goes. Here's what you have to do. Okay,
if you want to start to attract women, even if you're not alpha, quote, unquote, even if you
don't have confidence, even if you're insecure with yourself, even if you struggle to speak,
here's what you have to do. Okay, stick with me on this. This is extremely, extremely important.
What you have to do is you have to do the opposite of what everybody else does. And
you have to realize, as a man, everything, and I mean, everything is a competition.
Okay, everything is a competition. And I'm going to explain to you how I came to realize this.
I live in North Dakota, again, there's a lot of rivers, and there's a lot of
lakes. So what I realized is when I was really young cannot go out and either on a sandbar,
I'd go out on a boat and there was a party or whatever, I would notice that all of the guys
typically have the same like look in their eyes. You can tell they all want to talk to the girls,
but they don't know how. And you can tell that all the guys typically wanted the same girls,
they wanted the pretty girls, they were scared to talk to him. And you can tell that even
though all of the guys were Bros and everybody's hanging out, you can tell that every single guy
out there is sizing themselves up. Okay, why is this? It's not because anybody's evil. It's not
because anybody's mean, it's not because of any of the bullshit that the world wants to feed you. Oh,
you're, you're you've been conditioned to be the wrong way. None of that is true. Okay. The fact
is this, the dating game? Okay, this marketplace, the dating game 100% is a competition. It is you
against me, it is me against you. And it is you against every single other guy competing for the
type of women that you want. Here's what I learned at a very young age, everything and I mean,
everything in life as a man is a competition. Now it seriously stay with me until the end of this
video because I'm going to be showing you how some of the world's most elite level marketers,
some of the people on TV like nobody wants you to know this. And for 3040 50 years, men have been
conditioned to believe the wrong things, which is why we are in the situation today with guys
not knowing how to act everything. Think about it doesn't matter if it's sports, it doesn't matter
if it's getting the girl you want. It doesn't matter if the position that you want in business,
if you're trying to build a company, you're competing for all of the customers against all
of your competition, everything is a competition. And here's what you got to understand. Here's I
realize this, you have been lied to. You have been lied to by everybody. Okay? Your parents,
teachers, your upbringing, everybody told you that it is supposed to be easy. And one day,
you'll just find somebody, and you'll just stumble along, okay? And when it happens,
it happens. And when you find the girl and she likes you for you care, it'll just happen. That
is complete bullshit. People telling you that are trying to either a sell you something,
or B they're trying to take advantage of you. And I'm gonna explain to you how I learned this. Okay.
One of the books that I've read, it's a marketing book. I've done business for a lot of years. One
thing I've always disagreed with, despite this working, okay, I'm gonna read literally
the clip of this book, cow read the clip of this book that I want to share with you guys.
And I've always thought that this is a bit cruel, or I've always thought this is a bit cynical. And
I thought people who do this are slightly evil. However, they don't care. Here's why they don't
care because what they want is they want influence over you. And that's why we live in a world where
there's gurus, there's followers, there's thought leaders and all this bullshit gates because people
know how to psychologically manipulate you. This is word for word. The piece that I'm going to read
to you step by step just to show you how messed up this is okay, because this is what the world has
done to all men for probably the past 3040 5060 years. This clip right here is called justified
their failures. Now the first sentence because most people who become followers and fans have
tried to make a change before you will not be the first person they have tried to learn from can
make sense and even think of me with this. You to channel teaching you about women versus all
the other channels, chances are you've checked out other ones make sense. The next sign says,
You will not be the first person they've tried to learn from for some reason they didn't get
their needs met from prior encounters, it's important that you take the here's the quote,
I want to explain to you, here's what it says word for word, it is important that you take
the blame for past failures off their shoulders, and place it onto old opportunities they attempted
in the past, what does that say justify their failures means that what they're telling you,
what everybody's telling you is that your issues in life are not your fault. That's what they tell
men. They've told men for hundreds of years, not not hundreds of years, but probably the past 20
3040 5060 years, that it's not your fault, and you can be soft, and you don't have to be masculine,
and you don't have to change and change is scary. And all this bullshit. That's what they've thrown
down your throat. Think about this. The next line reads this, it goes millions of people are looking
for somebody to take responsibility off their shoulders. Okay. Now, here's where it gets crazy.
And it's slightly manipulative. In my opinion. It says, well, accepting responsibility is essential
for gaining control of one's own life, assuring others that they are not responsible, responsible,
is essential for gaining influence over there's so think about that for a second. What that said,
was that said this, in order for people to gain authority over your life influence over your life,
you have to tell them that it's not your fault. If it's not your fault in the predicament that you're
in. Whose fault is it? No, seriously, think about that. Whose fault is it? It's your fault. Here's
what you have to understand. As a man, I don't care what the next guru tells you. I don't care
what the next person who's trying to sell you the next pickup line, oh, just say these few words,
right? Use this easy, you know, two step approach of hey, you're cute, and then ask
for the number here. I don't care who feeds you this bullshit, this garbage. None of it is true.
What it is, is it's people telling you that it's not your fault. And here's what you got to
understand. You have to do everything completely opposite. As a man, everything is your fault. The
situation that you're at right now in life is your fault. You have to understand this, if you
have social anxiety, it's your fault. It's your it's your fault, you have it. And then it's your
responsibility to go fix it. If you're scared to talk to pretty girls. It's your fault that you're
like that. And then it is your responsibility to go and fix it. Everything in life is a
competition. And I'm not going to sugarcoat things and make it easy for you to think that it isn't.
And here's why. If you don't live that way, and you want to attract women, you will one day come
against somebody who thinks like I do. And I think that I can do anything I put my mind to.
So what do you think's gonna happen? If you hang your head down and you tell yourself,
oh, it's not my fault. It's the world's fault. And you're up against the next guy who thinks
that everything's their fault, and they're going to execute no matter how they feel. And
they're gonna go out in the world, and they're gonna kick ass and get results no matter what,
how do you think you're going to perform, you're not. And the women only want the guys at the top.
That's why the third piece to this when I was very young, when I was 18 years old,
I started to realize this, this is why I put this as episode three, in order to become attractive,
you have to realize that in life, everything as a man is 100% a competition, it is a competition
from you against the next guy. And that's what you have to realize it's your duty, and it's
your responsibility to go out there and get what you want. And if you have all of these issues,
if the women don't find you attractive, and you think there's something wrong with them, you need
to take a good, hard, hard look in the mirror and realize there's something wrong with you. Okay,
everything in life, everything is a competition, and you only have 24 hours in a day. If I have
24 hours in a day, and you have 24 hours in a day. And you look where you put that 1617
hours that you're awake. And I look where I put that 1617 hours and awake, I know that
I'm awake, I'm going to get ahead. Because I understand the areas of life I want to put
my time into to level up to level up my masculinity and to make sure that I am winning.
Everybody only has a certain set hours your job is to level yourself up 24/7 To keep climbing
that way your genes one day or are successfully reproductive. That way you as a human being can
survive in that way. You are strong willed individual. These are the things that they're
not teaching men. That's why if you hit the subscribe button right now, rest assured,
for next multiple months. As I show a share with you my entire journey, you're going to get more
value and more mindset tricks to apply into your life and copy paste that had somebody told me this
at 18 instead of me having to take a decade off my life and figure this out. I 100% would be in
a better situation that I am in now or at a much quicker rate. So I hope that this video served
you if it did, and you agree with a lot of the concepts that I've talked about today and you
understand the power of executing and taking ownership for your life. I want you to go down
below and I want you to watch the MBT webinar, okay MBT is a coined concept that I made up okay
it stands for masculine behavioral techniques. There is no bullshit in it regarding pickup
There's no bullshit regarding all these woowoo self help tactics, I'm going to show you the
truth. What I've done is I've taken a look at all of the attraction cues that I've seen with
the women that I've dated and with the 1000s of clients that have helped. And I've boiled it
down into four easy key concepts that if you can grasp your head around these specific principles,
it can make attracting women a lot easier and more effortless, because you can see what stage you're
actually at in the dating game. So I recommend going down below, right clicking that link hopping
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and you're going to learn a lot of things that you can copy paste into your dating life during that
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