Texting and dating go hand in hand these days. I’ve been studying the connection between
women who have mastered texting and those in happy, healthy relationships and I’ve
uncovered ten text messages that make men go wild with desire. All you have to do is
copy and paste.
Hi, I’m love coach Amy North. I’m here to help you find love and make texting easy
at the same time. Sounds too good to be true? Keep watching for 10 powerful text messages.
These texts aren’t secret. I guarantee you’re using at least one of these without even knowing.
But if you can recognize when and where to use each and every one, you can make men chase
after you wherever you go.
Text number one… I have to run, just about to hop in the shower
Unsurprisingly, making men picture you naked is a great way to make them want you. Most
guys will see what you’re doing with this text but it will only make them want you more.
Use this early on to catch his attention. It’s a bit of a flirt and run. It’s a
great way to titillate without it leading into overly sexy territory. Always leave them
wanting more!
Text number two… How do you know all this?
If I know anything it’s that men love to share their knowledge with women. The ancient
desire to provide women with food and shelter has changed in the information age. Telling
you about a movie they like or some current event activates the same part of their brain
that bringing home a wooly mammoth used to. With this in mind, show him that his intellect
and depth of knowledge isn’t going unappreciated.
Text number three… You were amazing last night
Remember that desire is a two-way street. He needs to know that he turns you on and
that your time together leaves a lasting impact. This is a great way to compliment him early
on without raising any red flags about moving too fast. Show him that the feeling is mutual
and that you can’t wait to get him into bed again.
Text number four…. You always make me smile
They’ll never admit it but men make so many of their decisions in hopes of making you
smile. Let him know it’s working and he’s going to want you more and more. This creates
a positive feedback loop that’s bound to draw the two of you closer together. This
is because it activates the part of his brain that’s associated with excitement and desire.
Text number five… I was just looking through your Instagram and not gonna lie, you’re
lookin’ fine
This is a cute text to send at any stage of the relationship. I’ve seen women use this
one to go from platonic friends to dating. It’s about letting him know that you’re
attracted to him in a silly, fun way. This is pretty unabashed flirting but it’s not
too serious so if he’s not interested he can just laugh it off. No harm no foul. It’s
also a great text to send when you two are already seeing one another just to brighten
up his day.
Text number six…. How do you feel about…
Texting doesn’t have to be shallow or simple. If you two are in a good rhythm, then asking
him specific questions about his likes, dislikes and opinions will make him open up even more.
This shows him you truly care about what he thinks and feels which is so important to
men. Opinion and judgment is something that men consider an important part of their personality
moreso than women so showing him that you also care about it will help cement your bond.
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Text number 7…. You’re not like other guys
Be careful with this one. It shouldn’t be a putdown to other guys but rather a compliment
to him. Chances are there are things about this guy that sets him apart, or why would
you be dating him? Simply identify these aspects of his personality and shine a light on them.
Men want to feel special just like women do and if you can make him feel special, he’ll
be yours.
Text number 8…. How about we skip dinner tonight and do something naughty instead?
Don’t just tell him you want him, show him you can’t keep your hands off him. Men don’t
simply want sex, they want you to want it too. This text shows that you’re not only
horny, you’re low maintenance and you’re spontaneous. What could be better?
Text number 9…. It’s not the same without you
It’s impossible, and inadvisable, to be together all the time. Texting helps bridge
that gap, especially early on in dating. I always advise women to keep busy and have
an active social life outside of their relationship. Sometimes this will mean that you two don’t
get the time together you want. When you worry this is starting to happen, let him know that
you’re missing him. This is a great opening line that can easily lead to him asking you
out on a romantic date sometime soon!
Text number 10…. Have fun with your friends
I’ve seen so many relationships fall apart because one or both parties are expecting
too much. Having a healthy social life outside of the relationship is vital to building and
maintaining love. Otherwise, you foster co-dependence and resentment. That’s why you need to make
it crystal clear that you support him spending time with his friends even though it means
less time for the two of you together. Be enthusiastic and genuine in praising his friends
and their shenanigans and watch him melt for you.
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