- Okay. Hello, you guys. - Hello.
- This is like the number one most requested video
in the last three months that we have gotten
was a first time story time.
- I guess y'all wanna know.
- Yes. And you guys know obviously,
we had difficulties the first time we filmed it
just cause we didn't want to get in trouble on YouTube
because they have some restrictions.
So this will be like
a talk around the bush type - PG rated.
- of version of that story.
Let us get started.
Time to dive into all the tea
that you guys have been begging
for the last couple of months. - Let's do it.
Let's do it.
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- So, oh, Willow decided to join us.
- Hi, sister.
Okay, see you.
- Where do we start?
So you guys,
I don't know if you guys saw or not,
but we totally thought we were leaving in our car.
And then we were actually surprised by my parents
with a helicopter exit, which is like,
so bougie and insane. - It was crazy.
It was so crazy. - It did not feel real,
like life didn't feel real.
You would think that like,
as we were getting on a helicopter,
we would be thinking about the helicopter ride.
No. All I could think about
the entire helicopter ride is like,
"Oh my gosh, I'm about to have.
I'm about to have,"
the entire time.
And I'm literally like,
"Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh."
Not that I was like scared per se,
it was just like kind of nervous.
You know what I mean? - Yeah, for sure. Totally.
I mean, don't get me wrong.
The helicopter ride was,
- [Bailey] It was amazing. - it was so cold,
but there was something else on our mind.
- Definitely.
And I don't know if you guys know this,
but Asa and I chose to wait until marriage to,
you know, seal the deal.
And that was just a personal choice that we made,
like literally kudos to you,
whatever you choose to do.
That's why I was like, "Oh my gosh."
It's kind of like silent,
like neither of us is really were like talking.
- Yeah. They were like, "Oh, you have headsets.
You can talk to each other."
And we were just like - We were like
- dead silent. - dead silent.
I think both of us were just like trying to be like,
"Oh my gosh, this is really happening."
So we land at this hotel.
We get escorted into our hotel room.
We get in there and they totally, they meaning our,
the wedding team and our parents, have totally decked out
honeymoon suite. - [Asa] They have like
flowers delivered and a basket of treats.
My mom wrote like funny little like
- [Bailey] Very inappropriate jokes
- [Asa] inappropriate puns. - in all of the treats.
Like all of them were just joking about our first time.
And obviously it was,
so it was really setting the mood.
- Oh yeah. Totally. - But.
- Well, we had been dancing - [Bailey] Partying it up
- [Asa] for three hours by this point.
- No, literally. We literally,
I danced my heart and soul out on that dance floor.
And so by the time I actually got to the hotel room
it was like, what? - Oh, 1:30
in the morning. - 1:30 in the morning.
Not really. We left earlier than that.
- Maybe 12:30? - Maybe like midnight? 12:30.
And so it was late, and I was like,
so exhausted. - We were so tired.
We were like, "Lets just take a shower."
- We were like sweaty, and like my makeup.
And we're just like, just get in the shower.
So that kind of like was a really fun intimate moment.
Just like getting to like obviously shower together
and like detox from the night.
Nothing happens.
- Nothing happened. - Nothing happened.
And then I put this robe on after the shower
and I go sit down and I'm like,
"Oh my gosh, I'm so hungry."
So I eat some of the snacks.
Next thing I know, I'm asleep.
- She falls asleep with the the strawberries
in her hand. - On my wedding night.
Asa took a picture.
- It is so funny.
- [Both] It's so funny.
- Honestly, if anyone's gotten married
and like partied their heart out,
they might understand that like level of exhaustion.
- We had some friends tell us
that they had the same thing. - That they were the same way.
Like I literally, don't get me wrong.
I was so excited about like the intimacy moment,
but I could not keep my eyes open.
So I've got to chill, relax, sleep, shower, all that stuff.
And then he came in
and we just were just chit chatting, talking.
And then it was like, it was time.
- Yeah, it's time.
- It's so weird. - It's so strange
because there's like so much buildup.
And then you're like,
"Okay, now? Wait. Right now?"
- You're like, "Wait right now?"
Cause mind you, like I said, we waited.
So this had been like four and a half years really of us.
Obviously we had intimate moments together,
but there was always this line where you just stop.
- Yeah, that boundary.
- And it was so weird sitting there thinking like,
we don't have to like stop anymore.
Like we can actually do it.
- We can do whatever we want.
- Like we had like, just to talk about it.
And basically he was like, "Are you ready?
Are you okay with trying this out?"
And I was like, "Yeah, let's just,
let's just give it a go." - Let's just try.
Let me say this, like the main question we get is,
was it awkward?
How would you answer that?
- No.
It wasn't awkward.
- It wasn't awkward like you're meeting someone
for the first time,
but like almost anticipation.
Like you're supposed to see a friend
you haven't seen in two years.
It's like you have all this anticipation and excitement.
- Yeah. Kind of like the feeling at your birthday party
where everyone's singing you happy birthday,
but you don't know if you're supposed
to be singing happy birthday to yourself
or you just sit there.
It's like, it's not really awkward,
but it's like, this is like so weird and strange.
And we get to the point
where it's like time to actually,
you know, do the, the action.
I just remember sitting there and I'm like,
we have no idea what we're doing.
- Yeah. - And the number one question
that I got asked,
like I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or anything,
but the number one top asked question is,
did it hurt or was it uncomfortable for me?
No, it doesn't really,
it didn't really hurt per se,
especially for someone who never had done that before.
You hear a lot of stories about
how it can be really painful.
I did not experience that.
The best way I can describe it is
when you go to the dentist
and they put those like cheek things in,
at like uncomfort level that you feel on your cheeks,
- You know, all stretched out.
- where you're just getting stretched.
Uncomfy, but it wasn't like,
"Ow. I'm in so much pain." - The best advice I can give
is communicate with your partner
and take it slow. - Yeah.
- Because that's, if you just jump right in things,
that's where you're going to risk
hurting each other - Which that is obviously,
that's what happened.
Like we just took it really, really slow.
I know when people say like, people always say like,
"It gets better. Oh my gosh.
If the first time, it's not that great,
like it gets so much better.
It gets so much better."
It does get so much better,
like I don't disagree with that.
- Definitely. It does. - Cause you start figuring out
what works, what doesn't,
what you like, what you don't like.
But I will say, our first time was pretty great.
- Yeah. It was pretty good.
- There's like this, there's like really famous thing
that one of my friends posted
where a lot of people don't know,
like they think that if you're waiting,
that means you don't need to be educated.
That leads you into, like,
- That could result in some
- some really bad situations. - interesting situations.
- Don't do that. Don't be that person.
If you're waiting, educate yourself.
You can look up in textbooks.
You can look up safely, securely,
like in a certain situation on the internet.
- You really had conversations with people.
- I had a ton of, ton of conversations with people
like truthful, blatant, straight to the point,
clear communication with a lot of people.
Cause a lot of people will not say it as it is.
There'll be like too embarrassed.
Find somebody that will and talk to them.
- Absolutely. - I also read a lot
of articles about myself.
How there can be struggles,
there can be things at work,
what works for other people, stuff like that.
So that I didn't leave my first time feeling like,
- Disappointed or frustrated
or confused. - Yes.
Don't let anybody ever tell you
that there is something wrong with figuring out how it works
for yourself before you get into that situation.
- Absolutely. - Like not studying for a test
and then just going in, not having study for a test
and then expecting to get an A.
It's like not going to work.
- I don't think it's just, yeah,
communicate and talk to each other.
If something is not working, don't be ashamed of that.
Be open and be willing to talk about that
because you're going to grow
and you're going to find something that you both like.
- Like that's pretty much the whole story time.
There's not much else to say.
- Yeah, that was our first time.
And then our first week
is a whole lot more. - Our first week,
and our like four months down the road.
Now if you want more info, follow me on Instagram.
I have a highlight with like
- Oh, she does. - a bunch of like links
and stuff to things - Definitely.
- that would be really helpful.
Oh yeah. I did have a couple of people ask
like after your first time, was it kind of like weird?
- Was it an easy transition getting back to that point?
- Or was it just as awkward or uncomfortable?
It was,
- Definitely more natural the second time.
- Yeah. But it, it was definitely like,
- You're still,
- I don't know how to explain it.
- you're still in a new kind of stages.
Like in that first night,
it's likely that you did not figure out everything.
- And the same thing happens the second, third time.
I mean, it's going to take a few times
before you figure it out.
- Did we like it? Yeah.
- Are we having a good time?
- [Both] Yeah.
- But yeah, that pretty much sums up our first time story.
I am so sorry if we didn't cover any questions you guys had.
Hopefully we did for the most part.
If not, you know,
there's probably more info - Check our Instagram.
- on my Instagram.
- You'll probably get more info.
- And I'm just, I hope that covered everything.
And I'm just glad we were able
to even film this. - Have this conversation.
- So thanks for putting, - We're not,
- putting up with the beating around the bush conversation.
- We're not shy about it.
Leave a comment if you have any other questions
and we'll try to get back to you.
- Yeah. We'll see you all next week.
Bye. - See you.
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