My name is Marnie and from here on out
I'm going to be your very own
Personal Wing girl and it's my job to give you the no BS honest truth about what women want versus what they say they want
And I put up new videos every Monday, so please keep an eye out for my videos in this video
I'm going to tell you how to tell if a woman is playing you taking advantage of you and
Simply just leading you on for her own benefit. I'm also going to explain why women play you and why you sadly fall for it
One question men often ask me is Martin, how do I know if a woman is playing me or not?
now this could mean
financially emotionally or anything else where she's taking advantage of you and while I won't say women never play men because they do and I'll
Share a story about this later in this video. Most of the time the guy has it backwards. The woman didn't play him
He actually played himself. So let me explain what I mean with an example from a claim
Let's call him James while overseas on vacation James met a woman who was part of a group
He befriended and while the two of them had some nice chats and got on
Well, nothing romantic or sexual happened nor was it discussed?
So back home James was texting this woman and asked her to come visit his country. She said she couldn't afford to come over
So James offered to pay for her flight fast forward to the end of the trip and after she didn't hook up with him
James felt like she played him really good. She got a free trip out of it now
Here's where the problem lies in James mind when she agreed to come visit him
She also implicitly agreed to sex but that only existed in his head because in the real world
He hadn't properly
Communicated to sexual interest her which means she thought she was flying overseas to go visit a friend that she had met on vacation
Not a guy who thought the plane ticket was a down payment to get into her pants as a result the trip wasn't what either
Of them had in mind leaving them both disappointed and to be clear. I'm not saying James is a bad guy for this
He just assumed her interest in him was sexual because that's how he felt about her
So he thought it was the same thing on the other side many guys are similarly guilty of this mistake
This is particularly common with the nice guy. He doesn't want to risk saying or doing anything offensive
so he hides his sexual interest and because he's simply being
Pleasant and harmless a woman will often be nice and return and want to be his friend and this nice guy thinks
Oh, she's paying attention
She's being nice to me. I guess that means she's also attracted to me. She's doing the same thing. Nope
it doesn't mean that at all but because
He now has this expectation in his head
He gets upset or mad when she ultimately winds up not sleeping with him her wanting to be with him
He feels like she led him on that. He got played when in reality
He created that situation for himself by suppressing his genuine and authentic
masculine desire for her
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Girl method calm flirt effortlessly, so hopefully you now realize that most of the time women aren't trying to play you
And yes, I said most of the time because in rare cases, that's exactly what's happening
So let me share the story. I hinted at earlier so you can see the difference between being played and not played
So here's what happened a woman in England invited a tinder match out to dinner. She asked him when she was there
she ordered the lobster an
Expensive bottle of wine and she racked up a bill of like a hundred and fifty dollars and she expected her date who was student
To pay for both of them even though his bill was only twenty dollars
He refused good on him in case you're wondering this type of situation is totally different where she is clearly
Trying to play him for a free meal
She took the initiative to invite him out to dinner and then ordered the most expensive items on the menu
It's completely different to a woman accepting something that you offer her
By the way, if you want to avoid awkward situations like in that restaurant example
Don't allow yourself to be in a position
Where that can happen choose a place for the first meeting that you wouldn't freak out if you had to pay for your date
For example a lounge bar or coffee or even a free activity like a museum or gallery if she insists
On an expensive restaurant, which is rare. I don't know any woman who would do this
You might want to move on to someone else or if you can afford it
And that's a circle you run in go. Have a good time
It doesn't work out doesn't work out but you know what the surest way to guarantee you never get played is
Behave like the man we naturally want right from the moment. You first meet us aka not hiding your true intentions out of fear
It's going to turn her off. Trust me
What do we see that you are this rare man that we dream about there's no way in hell
We're going to lead you on because the only place we'll want to lead you to is the bedroom
guys to understand this about women are
incredibly rare which is why the few who do get it also have way more sexual options than they can handle if you have been
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