We all know the phrase a friend in need is [a] friend indeed
But did you know the difference between good friends and toxic friends? Well? We all have that one friend
Who's bad-tempered a little jealous and somewhat conceited? Do you think he or she is a true friend [to] you?
Let's see today
We've got 10 major differences between good friends and toxic friends that you should consider and don't forget to hit that [thumbs] up button
Because it's important for us number 1 good friends celebrate your success
They're really happy with your promotion at work your new relationships or even your new shiny car
They'll be the first to call you and say hey well done
Congratulations. Let's go out and celebrate. They're always very proud of you
toxic friends get jealous of your achievements even your smallest
Achievements enrage them they cannot put up with the idea that someone's [business] is going well
They can like your photos on Instagram, but when you meet them in person. It's easy to notice. They're jealous of you
It's literally written on their faces
number two good friends know the importance of your alone time
Sometimes we all can't stand the hustle and bustle of big cities, so we need our private time
spend this time on meditating thinking reading good books or walking our true friends understand this and
Never get offended even if we cancel weekend plans with them
Toxic friends try to occupy all your time. They're like spiders
They literally need all your time and attention
They easily get offended when you want to spend some time alone and complain about you to others
You always feel guilty when [you] say no to them
Number three good friends are caring and empathetic
[they] say wow you look great even if you have bed hair and are wearing a [rubble] t-shirt
They never judge your appearance, and they always know how to cheer you up
toxic friends judge and criticize you oh
Where'd you get that weird hat you look terrible they never miss an opportunity [to] point out your shortcomings even the smallest ones
They hide behind the phrase I just want to help you, but they don't help at all. They make you feel awkward
And uncomfortable number four good friends respect you and value your friendship
You're a very important person for them
So they know how to argue without being personal also, if something goes wrong when you travel together, they'll just laugh at all the troubles
Toxic friends lose their tempers easily they can even shout at you in front of other friends or in public
If something goes wrong or not according to their plan they lose their temper very quickly and become a monster
number five good friends enjoy exchanging opinions
[they're] interested in your opinion and always listen [to] you if they disagree with you. I'll express it in the mildest form
toxic friends only want to win an argument
They hardly reckon with your opinion because they think that only they are right and they try to prove it by any means
number six good friends believe your words well of course
They won't believe you if you say you're moving to mars next weekend
But they usually believe all your stories when you tell them something interesting for instance from documentaries. They believe every word
Toxic friends doubt everything you say, they're like
Are you sure? I think it's better than ask google. No matter what you say they always want to double-check
Number seven good friends, call you because they miss you. How was your day is everything okay?
If you miss your class or work, they'll be the first to call to ask whether you're [alright]
They miss you, and they worry about you
Toxic friends find you only when they need your help hey, can you pick me up right now?
Help me with my work walk. My dog. No come on world friends
Numberings good friends except you the way you are
Even if you wear all bright colors together sing on the streets or spend all your weekends riding a canoe
They appreciate your wings
They don't care they love you
Toxic friends try to change and control you they always say something like what's better for you is or you have to try this
They find it hard to reconcile themselves with your lifestyle. Let's be honest their advice is so
Number nine good friends know that everyone has their friends, and they won't judge you for that
They might even become good friends with your other friends if you introduce them to each other if not
They'll still respect the fact that you like to spend time with your other friends and colleagues
Toxic friends don't like your other friends remember they're like spiders
They don't want to share you with other people and even with your family. They always want to be the center of your life
number 10 good friends know how to keep a secret
If you tell them please don't tell anyone they'll take it seriously don't worry your secrets won't fly around the world
Toxic friends say things they shouldn't say and they always add
I shouldn't have told you this if your friend tells you other secrets it means he or she would spread your secrets as well
Just avoid their company gossip is not the best pastime
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