Hello, everyone!
It’s Brad Browning here with another breakup advice video.
So just the other day, I went through all of my YouTube comments and gathered some of
the most commonly asked questions... and then I thought, “Hey, wouldn’t it be great
for my viewers if I could answer ALL of these questions in ONE video?”
So here we are!
In this video, I’ll answer the top 3 most common YouTube breakup questions.
Now, before I begin, I just have to thank you all for leaving your comments down below.
As you can probably tell, I do my very best to answer all of your questions regarding
your relationship or breakup, so keep the comments coming!
Alright.
Here’s commonly asked question #1…
“I want my ex back, but I don’t think ‘No Contact’ strategy will work for me…what
should I do?”
For those of you who don’t know what the No Contact strategy is, let me quickly explain;
the no contact strategy involves not contacting your ex for a period of at least 30 days after
a breakup.
I won’t get into the details as to WHY it works, but just know that if you employ this
strategy correctly, you’ll significantly increase the chances of winning your ex back.
Now, I know a lot of people think that this strategy won’t work for them, and I understand
the skepticism.
After all, how can you make your ex fall back in love with you without talking to them?
Well, in the system that I teach, the no contact strategy is just ONE STEP out of several.
Of course, simply not talking to your ex won’t cause them to break down and come running
back to you (although, sometimes it can)…so what you do directly BEFORE and AFTER the
No Contact strategy is crucial if you want to optimize your chances of making your ex
come back to you.
Again, I don’t want to get into the exact science as to why No Contact works (I actually
answer that question in another YouTube video, so check that one out after this).
Suffice to say, if you think the No Contact strategy won’t work for you, then you’re
most likely incorrect.
You’ll probably need to use the No Contact strategy to some degree in order to win your
ex back.
However, in some rare cases, the No Contact strategy probably isn’t a good idea.
For example, if you and your ex broke up several months ago and you haven’t had contact for
awhile, then it’s unlikely that more No Contact is going to have any positive effect
unless you begin implementing some of my covert strategies I outline in my Ex Factor Guide
program.
For a video on how these psychological strategies work, just head over to BreakupBrad.com and
watch the free video presentation on that website.
Okay…
here’s commonly asked question #2.
“My ex says they miss me and want to be friends.
Should I be friends with my ex?”
The short answer to this question is “NO.”
In 95% of the cases that I’ve seen, being friends with your ex won’t help you make
him or her want a relationship again.
See, right after a breakup, your ex probably feels very emotional even if THEY initiated
the breakup.
Even though they’ve stated their intention to break up with you, they probably don’t
want to lose you forever… and because of this, your ex will want to “keep you around”
so to speak.
While this sounds amazing to you right now, you simply CANNOT let this happen…and for
a couple reasons!
For one, it makes yourself appear weak and unattractive.
If you want to make your ex desire you again, you have to NOT make it seem like you’d
do anything to just be around them.
If you act like you want to hang around them all the time, you’ll just appear needy and
desperate and your ex will lose a significant amount of attraction for you.
The second reason why being friends with your ex is a bad idea is due to the fact that you
allow your ex to recover from the breakup SLOWLY.
Think of this like ripping a Band-Aid off...
If you peel off the Band-Aid slowly, the pain is bearable… and that’s how your ex will
feel if they have you around whenever they feel like.
The pain of the breakup will be minimized because you’re still around whenever they
want, and your ex can wean themselves off of you as they please.
However, if you rip the Band-Aid right off, the pain will be excruciating…
so in your case, what you need to do is disappear from your ex’s life completely and force
them to realize what life is like without you there at all.
So what you have to do instead is INCREASE the amount of desire your ex feels for you.
Showcase to him or her that you’re confident and independent because those are traits that
human beings find universally attractive… and allowing yourself to be friendzoned will
KILL any chance of building any attraction at all.
Okay…so now here’s commonly asked question #3.
“What’s ‘The Ex Factor Guide’ and will it work for me?”
The Ex Factor Guide is my complete, “done for you” system that helps anyone in your
situation win their ex back, regardless of why the breakup happened in the first place.
It’s loaded with tons of covert, psychological tactics that you can use right now to turn
the tides of your breakup… and make your ex wish that you two never broke up in the
first place.
Now, I know that sounds too good to be true, and unfortunately, for some cases it is…but
if you properly use my system, I guarantee you that you will have the very best chance
possible of regaining the love of your life.
If you want to learn more, just simply head over to BreakupBrad.com and watch the free
presentation there.
Well, that’s all for today!
Again, keep the comments coming and I’ll do my best to answer them.
See you soon.