- Now the moment that I saw Jessica for the very first time
with her big, beautiful red lipstick smile,
I knew that I was done for.
I literally was knocked off my feet.
So I knew that I had to be cool as a cucumber with this one.
I was not that cool.
And certainly any game that I may have had
the day that I met Jessica, definitely faded and melted away
as I began to actually truly fall in love with this woman.
And I guarantee you without a shadow of a doubt that I was
showing the seven signs I'm going to be talking about
in this video.
So here's seven scientific signs
that a man is actually falling in love with you.
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So here are the signs that a man is actually falling for you
based on science.
Number one is that I just couldn't stop looking at her
whenever I was with her.
Men are very visual creatures and science backs this up.
In a recent study, they showed that the emotional part
of our brain, which is the amygdala
actually shows a higher level of activation in males
when we see things that arouses us sexually.
Whereas for women, it didn't activate
quite as much with visual stimulus.
Long story short, when we are attracted to a woman,
when we are starting to fall for that woman,
we literally can't take our eyes off her.
Number two is that I was actually
following through on my actions.
When we started to date,
I made a very intentional and conscious decision
to make sure that I was always following through
on my actions with her.
And this is very true for men
when they're actually falling in love.
Because when we, as humans value something,
we do everything in our power to hold onto that.
So when you're going out there and meeting men,
I want you to live by what I call the 90-10 principle.
And here's what that means.
If you're trying to determine
if a guy really is falling for you only listen
to 10% of the words that he says,
and look at 90% of his actions.
Number three is that it was becoming just more optimistic
about the world.
Science shows that when we're falling in love,
the world suddenly becomes less
of a dark, evil, disgusting place.
And you fall in love and then suddenly
the world just opens up again and you feel alive.
Now before I met Jess, I was single for about two years.
And for the first year and a half,
it was actually really fun.
I was really enjoying it, but by those last six months,
I was finding myself really looking for someone.
And it's at that time in your life where
you feel yourself, just less motivated at work,
less excited about things.
And it was like the moment I met her, bam,
just like everything came together.
It's almost as if she breathed new life into me.
Have you ever experienced that when you fallen in love?
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Number four is that I just wanted to see her all the time.
Now up until this point in time,
I was actually talking to other women,
but those women, I didn't really want to see that often
'cause I really wasn't quite sure.
But once I met Jess and we start to really connect,
I wanted to spend all of my free time with her.
Researchers have actually explored the brain
when people are falling in love
and what they've found is that we have
this incredible rush of dopamine
that just flows through our body
and dopamine is actually very addictive.
So in essence, when you are falling in love,
you actually become addicted to that person
almost as addictive as things like cocaine or cigarettes,
except in this case, if you found the right person,
it's actually a healthy addiction.
Number five is that I was open to trying new things.
There's a study in the 90s
that was done with college students
and they found that college students when they fell in love
were much more open to trying new things in their life.
Now, one thing you may not know about Jessica
is that she's very into activities.
Things like going apple picking or escape rooms,
or just going out at night and going to various events.
That was not usually my thing as much,
but once we met, and we were starting
to really jive with each other
and really connect, I was finding myself
way more open to weird things like that,
that I'd never experienced before.
Number six is that I stopped trying to impress
any other woman.
In fact, I didn't even care about any other women
by this point.
When men and women find themselves in the bonding phase,
they suddenly start putting on blinders and start focusing
all of their emotional energy on their lover.
This is what creates the bonding mechanism
between two people.
And finally, number seven is that I started sharing
everything about myself, with her,
the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Love researchers have found that intimacy
is the biggest separator between attraction and love.
You can be attracted to someone
but not have any type of intimacy with them,
but when you're falling in love,
that's when you really start to trust that person
and really let your guard down. So I want to hear from you.
Have you ever seen any of these signs
from a guy that you've started dating?
Leave a comment right there below.
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