Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to attract women the bad boy myth debunked.
In this video you are going to learn the secrets bad boys know about attracting women. Because
huge spoiler, women actually don't like bad boys. At least not if she's a classy woman
or a high quality woman. But bad boys sometimes get women's attention initially because they're
in on some of the most powerful secrets of how to attract women. So the good news is if you're
a good guy, which is what women actually want, and you know these secrets, you are going to blow the
bad boy competition out of the water. So if you want to learn how to be incredibly hot to women,
incredibly attractive to women, make sure you watch to the end and pay close attention to each
of these tips because they are crazy powerful. Before we dive in if this is your first time
watching, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you
how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad relationships and dead end relationships that go
nowhere by learning the skills you need to instead just get your dream girl and have your dream
relationship. The best part is I'm a certified coach. I never teach you mind games. I'm all
about being backed by science and coming from a Christian perspective. So make sure you subscribe,
ring the notification bell, and give me a big thumbs up. Okay, let's talk about how to attract
women and debunk this whole bad boy myth. Because it is actually a myth. If we are talking about
high quality women, if we're talking about classy women, the kind of women who are looking for
a happy life-long relationship, those women don't like bad boys. Those women actually like good
guys. So why do sometimes bad boys get attention? Why does that even happen? It's actually very
simple. Bad boys are not remotely sincere, but they have learned how to be attractive to women.
They've done that on purpose to get what they want, and what they want is no good. Which is
why once really good women start to get to know these guys they go "whoa, this guy's a liar.
He's a fraud. All he cares about is his own selfish gain," and she's done. But bad boys
are really good pretenders. This is why they get her attention initially, and then if she's smart,
that attraction dies very quickly. It's very similar if you've been following my channel for
a while you guys know that I teach you about toxic women, right? Toxic women are very very real thing
and is very damaging and very hurtful, right? But if you've ever known a toxic woman and if
you've ever maybe even dated or been in a serious relationship with a toxic woman you know that
you didn't think she was toxic when you met her, right? She was very charming, very attractive, and
made you feel really good initially, right? This is exactly what bad boys do, because toxic girls
are bad girls just like bad boys are actually toxic guys. They are very very good pretenders to
get what they want. That makes sense, doesn't it? Because if they weren't good at pretending nobody
would give them any attention. This is why again when a high quality woman, when a good woman,
starts to realize "wow, this guy is a bad boy," she's not interested anymore. He lied to her,
he deceived her, he wanted to use her, so she's not interested in that. Instead,
she wants a good guy. She wants someone she can trust, someone she can lean on. But guys,
here's the really cool part so pay close attention to this. All bad boys have learned
how to do is they just know the right skills that are attractive to women. What this means is if you
had those skills, if you knew those things, you would be insanely attractive to women. Because
not only would you know the attractive tactics they are using, but you'd also be the real deal.
Because you are sincere, you are good, which is ultimately what she's looking for. This means
when you learn these skills I'm about to share with you, these bad boy tactics if you will,
you are going to blow the bad boy competition out of the water because you're a good guy who simply
understands attraction. That's pretty exciting, isn't it? Because here's the biggest thing you
need to know before we dive in and I share these tactics with you. It's not the strategies that are
bad, it's not the tactics that are bad. This is the way God made us, to be attracted to
these things. The only thing that makes them bad boys is that their intentions are bad. They're
selfish and self-centered. So it's not the tactic that is wrong, it's the intention behind it.
So as long as you come at it from a good place, a good man looking for a lifelong relationship,
these are not bad tactics, these are actually incredible tactics. Does that make sense? Okay,
let's dive in. The first thing you need to know about how to attract women and and one of the
main tactics bad boys use is body language. Bad boy's body language is very confident,
it's very masculine, and frankly, that type of body language is very attractive
to women. Body language is one of the single most powerful skills you can learn. This is one reason
why I love teaching about this in my program. It's insanely powerful and you can see results so
quickly. About 80% of communication is non-verbal. And women pick up on body language a lot quicker
and easier than men do. And she's reading your body language. So if your body language is needy,
if it is aggressive, if it is passive, that's not attractive to her. That's going to push her away.
If instead, your body language is confident, if it is masculine, if it if you show her you are
interested in your body language, that is so attractive. Now again bad boys use this
for selfish reasons, right? They're not doing it for the right reasons. But as a good man, if you
have that body language, that appropriate, confident, masculine body language,
but you're also a real man and you're actually sincere and you actually want to treat her right,
whoa, that is what wins her heart. Okay, the next thing you need to know about how to attract women,
something bad boys have down, is they are very confident that they have something to offer,
confident in themselves. Now what they have to offer is not what classy women are interested in,
but they are confident in that. Confidence is magnetic. Confidence is something that all classy
women are looking for in a man. It makes her feel safe when she's around you, makes her feel relaxed
and comfortable when she's around you. As humans, we are drawn naturally to confident people. That's
the way God made us. So when a man is confident he's more masculine. This makes her feel more
feminine and attractive. So if you are again a good guy instead of a bad boy and you are
confident that is what steals her heart, that is what captivates her, that is certainly what
attracts her. So how do you become confident? How do you do that? Well, we are confident when we
know we're good at something, right? When we know that we have this figured out. And also when you
know you have something really amazing to offer. So this tells us the way to become confident
is to actually learn what you're doing. When you learn the right dating and relationship skills
you know what you're doing and you know you're very attractive because you understand how
attraction works. And you have applied those skills so that you are really attractive. You
know what women want, you have turned those things into habits, and you are confident that you are
very attractive, because you are. Confidence is honestly one of my very favorite things to teach.
So to learn what keeps you from being confident and what to do instead to become
incredibly confident I have a free masterclass for you that's going to teach you about
this. There is a link in the description below. I will also put a link in the pinned comment below.
If you're tired of being the nice guy without a girl and you want to be the nice guy that
women are insanely attracted to make sure you watch that free masterclass. It is going to blow
your mind. Again there is a link in the description below. Okay, the next thing that bad
boys understand about how to attract women is that you need to dress attractively. Bad boys are not
afraid to dress attractively. They're not afraid to be attractive. Sometimes as humans, we're kind
of afraid to dress attractively. We're kind of afraid, we feel like it's a little presumptuous.
And that's actually completely normal. There's something known as the imposter syndrome. Whenever
we do something a little out of our comfort zone, we're trying to improve on ourselves,
there's that little voice in the back of our head that says "what do you think you're doing?
Really? You think you can pull that off?" That is totally normal. Every person on the planet
goes through that. But as you push through it and as you do it anyway, because you deserve it, that
voice goes away, and pretty soon you feel amazing. As powerful as body language is the way you dress
is equally as powerful. I spend a lot of time teaching about this in my program because it
is so powerful. And one thing I teach there is that you need to dress to empower. Have
you ever heard "dress to impress", or "dress for success"? I much prefer the term dress to empower.
When you look super hot, when you look super sharp and you know it, your confidence level
is increased dramatically. And she thinks you look really hot because you do. One
of the best things you can do to be more physically attractive and to feel attractive
is to dress very attractively. This is something the bad boys have figured out. So
again as a good guy when you take that skill and you use it to your advantage and you dress
really modern and masculine and attractive the bad boy competition does not stand a chance
because she's not looking for a liar, she's not looking for a fake, she's looking for a good
man. And the way you dress shows her that you're a good man, that you're a confident man,
that you're a masculine man, that you are attractive. Do you want to steal her heart?
Make sure you dress to empower. Is this making sense so far, and are you seeing how these skills
are insanely attractive to women and as a good guy as you learn these skills you will be super super
attractive? If you are enjoying this video and you would like to see more like this be sure to
comment "attraction!" in the comments below. This will let me know you're enjoying it. And seriously
guys, your feedback helps me so much. So please, if you're enjoying this and you want more,
comment "attraction!" Okay, the next thing bad boys have figured out about how to attract women
is that you need to flirt. This is something they are not afraid to do. They don't hide that they're
interested in her. They don't hide that they want to spend time with her, that they want to get to
know her better. They're very open about that, and that is very attractive to women. This is
actually one way to pursue. They flirt with her, they let her know that they think she's pretty,
and that they want to get to know her better, and it makes her feel
good. As humans, we are attracted to people who make us feel good. And when you flirt and make her
feel attractive and feminine and all of that it makes her feel good so she wants to be around you
more. Now the bad boys don't have good motives, obviously, but they flirt with her and they make
her feel good. If you can learn this skill, if you can learn how to flirt the right way,
and be a good guy, oh my goodness, that is what she's looking for. That is what
she wants. That is what makes her fall in love with a man and stay in love with a man.
If you haven't yet seen this video on flirting do make sure you watch it. It's going to teach
you more about how to flirt the right way. There is a link in the description below. Bottom line,
if you can be a good guy and know how to flirt, whoa, you are going to be incredibly attractive
to women. The next thing you need to know about how to attract women and what bad boys do
is that they pursue her. She never has to wonder if he's interested in her. She never has to wonder
if he finds her attractive. He's very open about that. Pursuing is something all women really want.
She wants to be pursued. That is the way God made women. When a man pursues her she feels feminine,
she feels safe, she sees him as masculine and protective, and it lights her heart on fire.
She feels like she can trust you when you pursue her. Now you want to be careful with this,
because if you don't pursue the right way, guys, it's creepy or it's needy or it's aggressive.
And that's the last thing you want, isn't it? This is what causes you to be rejected and ghosted. And
I have so many men come to me saying "okay, Melannie, you say pursuing is so important,
but how do I do it so that I don't get rejected and so that I don't get ghosted?" I'm going to
teach you more about this in that free masterclass so you understand why this happens and what to do
instead so you can move forward and start getting your dream girl instead of being rejected. So do
make sure you watch that free masterclass. I'm able to explain things better there. There's a
link in the description below and as I mentioned I will put a link in the pinned comment as well.
The truth is you deserve to just know how to go about this the right way instead of guessing or
winging it. So do make sure you watch that. It's going to create some real clarity for you. Okay,
let's sum up what you've learned so far about how to attract women and the whole bad boy myth. First
off, women don't want bad boys. She's looking for someone she could spend her life with, she's
looking for someone she can trust. She doesn't want a bad boy, she wants a good man. However,
bad boys understand how to attract women. They do this for selfish reasons but they do
understand it. And if you as a good guy can take those secrets, take those skills and use them,
you are going to completely and totally steal her heart. The first thing we talked about is
understanding body language. You want your body language to be confident and masculine
and attractive. Next up, you need to be confident. We are confident when we know we are
good at something. This is why learning the right dating and relationship skills is so powerful. It
teaches you everything you need to know about what women want and how to become an absolute magnet
for them. When you have all of that and that healthy feeling of self-worth you are insanely
attractive to women. I really can't stress this enough, guys. It's magical. The next thing you
need to know about how to attract women is that dressing attractively is insanely powerful.
It is something that a lot of people would think "does it really matter that much?" Yes, it matters
that much. Something I mentioned is make sure you dress to empower. It makes you feel amazing
and you look amazing and she notices. My next tip for how to attract women is to flirt. When you
make her feel good when she's around you she wants to be around you a lot more. You want to make sure
you are open about the fact that she's pretty and you enjoy spending time with her. As humans,
we enjoy spending time around people who make us feel good. And flirting, when it's done right,
is one of the most powerful tools to make her feel amazing. Another tip for how to attract women is
to pursue her. You do not want her to guess or to wonder how you feel about her or if you are
interested in her or if you find her attractive. Pursuing is one of the very most important things
a woman is looking for in a man. So as a good guy if you pursue her the right way, wow,
that is insanely attractive. Thank you so much again for watching my amazing friend! If you
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again for watching my amazing friend and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] Forgot the mic.
That's a bad thing to forget. [laughter] As powerful as body language is- [forgot what to say]
Okay. The truth is you deserve to just know-
[forgot what to say] [chuckle] Yeah! [laughter]