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we've all been taught by the media that all men think about is sex of course
this may be true for percentage of the male population however there is
something that almost all men need more than sex even more than love and it's
something that most women don't give men in this video I'm going to talk about
just that oftentimes women will treat their man how they would want to be
treated after all we can only truly empathize with ourselves so drawing
conclusions from these feelings may seem logical however we need to realize that
men and women are wired a bit differently and this difference is
important to know if you want a man to feel that burning desire deep within
oftentimes a woman may shower a man with gifts toys sex hugs kisses and yes each
and every one of those things has its time in place but there is one universal
thing every man craves from his partner it's respect now I know this may seem
sexist or a bit harsh but I'm not saying that if you respect him he doesn't have
to respect you I'm simply making the observation that this is what a man
requires from his partner to feel the type of bond and devotion that lasts a
lifetime so what does it mean to show a man respect it means that a man wants to
be shown appreciation even when he fails he wants to be seen as the hero the
knight in shining armor he needs someone that holds him in esteem and gives him
the confidence he requires when the going gets tough it may sound easy but
it isn't based on my observation and work with many women there are so many
things that men and women do to create the air of disrespect for each other so
without further ado I've compiled a list of the top 5 things you can do to show
your man that you love and respect him and I guarantee that you'll be shocked
and surprised at how much he shows you the affection you need as well number 1
see something complimentary on a regular basis but make sure it's a genuine
comment as in don't say something nice if you don't mean it for example don't
say that you've noticed he's gained a ton of biceps muscle when he so
obviously hasn't instead take a step back and really observe your man see
what you like and what you appreciate and say it pretty simple but love
doesn't have to be rocket science number 2 respect unconditionally most
women will only give a man respect once he earns it
well this is rational giving your man respect first will not only encourage
him to act more chivalrous and caring about you but he'll also love you for it
and again respecting him means that he'll be willing and wanting to respect
you as well and what woman wouldn't want that by doing this you're effectively
creating a positive feedback loop the more respect you give the better he acts
and the better he acts the more willing you'll be to give him the thing that he
wants more than anything number three prevent lashing out at him
I know it's hard to do but by lashing out and belittling your man you
effectively force him to be repulsed by you
in a recent study 75% of men admitted that they feel like they're unsure of
themselves you may not feel like your man genuinely thinks this way but men
are brought up in a society to be a man and that if you don't live life in a
particular way then you were somehow lost for it so when your man makes
mistake the way for him to fix that mistake
isn't to make him feel like less of a man the best way to get him to change a
certain behavior is to support him so remember this ladies the next time you
want to yell out what's the matter with you or can't you do anything right try
and support your man instead you'll be glad you did
number 4 show respect using your body language now this is where you can
really shine in my free video presentation on Coach NORTHCOM I go
through covert psychological body language cues that force a man to become
almost emotionally addicted to you and one of the ways to do this is to use
body language again go to that website if you want to learn the full method but
here are a couple of body language tips you can use touch him during heightened
states of appreciation that means when you compliment or support your man hold
his arm or hand when you're doing it by doing so you'll give them the immediate
impression that you mean what you say you'll also condition him to associate
your touch with feelings of love and admiration and this is totally based on
science ever heard of Pavlov's dog theory Ivan Pavlov was a scientist that
conducted a psychological experiment on his dog and what you would do is ring a
bell every time he fed his dog after conditioning the dog to listen to the
bell when he ate Pavlov later tried ringing the bell when there was no food
around what he did was force his dog to
associate the sound of a bell with food now I'm not saying you should be
treating your man like a dog but you should learn to make them conditioned
your touch with positive feelings if you do this enough he'll be addicted to you
in no time number 5 remember your manners this
seems like a little thing to do but if your man goes out of his way to do
something for you thank him see sorry every time you've done something wrong
and you know it's your fault you'll be shocked and amazed when you realize that
he'll start treating you the same way in return keep in mind that these five tips aren't all of them, there are tons of
other tips I share on my video that I have on CoachNorth.com head on over to CoachNorth.Com and
watch the free video presentation okay that just about
does it Thanks and talk soon