- Would you like to know nine ways
on how to be really irresistible to a man?
Whenever you're in a relationship, marriage or just dating?
And if you're just dating,
I promise you if you will follow my nine ways,
90% out of 100, he will ask you for that second date.
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on how to be irresistible to your man,
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Continuing.
So, number one way, smile.
Smiling is very, very important.
It gives it a light-hearted, I am warm,
open for your approach signal.
When they see a woman who's happy and smiling
it gives men more confidence to approach you
because they see that you're in a good mood.
When you're approaching somebody who's in a good mood
know that the percentage of a person rejecting you
will be much smaller.
Stop scratching.
Also ladies, if you like to dance and go out dancing
to places like bachata, salsa, you know,
the places where guys approach women a lot for a dance,
I would really recommend wearing something bright,
like maybe a pink top.
And when you walk into the room,
walk in with confidence and smile.
Just look like you're in a good mood
and you're listening to the music and you're happy.
Or when you're just observing the place,
when you catch an contact, just smile.
That way you're signaling to a man
it's okay for you to approach me.
However, do not do the crazy eye contact
where you're just checking a guy out because he's so hot.
And you're just keeping this long deep look
and you're smiling at him, this crazy possessive look.
Have this really lighthearted approach
and just be happy and smiley to everyone,
so men feel confident enough to approach you.
And on top of that, if you're going to places to dance
where men actually approached you for a dance,
I would actually recommend to look more cute
rather than hot.
When you go to a place and you look really, really hot,
a lot of men get too intimidated to approach you.
When you're look happy and cute and you have bright colors,
this is when men start to approach you like bees for honey.
Number two, reward a guy with laughter.
This is really important.
When somebody says something funny and you laugh,
the guy straight away notices you.
Even if you're in a group environment
and he said something funny
and no one's laughing and you giggle,
his eyes will be straight on you.
Straight away he will like you
because you showed him in a genuine, non-pursuing way
that you actually bonded with him there,
you liked what he said.
Therefore, automatically you will stand out.
At the end of the day, again, like attracts like.
If he's trying to be funny and you're laughing at his jokes,
the connection will be automatic there.
Number three, look at the positive side of things.
Secure, confident women
tend to look at a positive side of things.
And because they are secure and confident,
they know their value.
And because we know their value,
they automatically assume they're good in a bad situation.
For example, maybe he's talking to another girl
and they're having a laugh.
The insecure woman will think, oh, he likes her,
maybe she's better than me,
and she's going to get grumpy.
A secure woman will think, oh, maybe she's a friend,
or maybe he's just being nice and friendly,
or this is just how he is and I'm happy that he's happy.
Or maybe he's trying to make me jealous
because he's trying to see my feelings for him.
When you assume positive in a situation
where you don't know what's happening,
it makes it come across confident, lighthearted, and secure.
And this is very, very attractive.
Number four, laugh at yourself.
Let go of small things easily.
Don't get embarrassed.
Let's say, for example, you had a glass of wine, right?
And you got clumsy, right?
That's very common with me.
And let's say, accidentally, maybe you hit the glass
and it fell off or you spilled it on yourself.
Laugh it off.
If, let's say, I'm holding a glass of red wine
and accidentally I spilled it on myself
and now I'm embarrassed, right?
Let's say I have red on my white top
and I'm trying to hide it and it's ruining my night.
Then I keep looking in that mirror and I keep fixing it
and I look dirty or I don't look as nice as the other girls
or what would people think of me?
You know, it makes me come across insecure
and really focused on a problem.
When you get focused on a problem through the night,
the whole fund disappears, you're ruining the whole evening.
When you're more focused on the problem,
the problem gets bigger.
And then the other person gets worried for you
when they are with you.
So you're ruining not just your night
but we other people's night as well.
You know, let go of small little things.
Don't focus on small little problems
when you are there to enjoy yourself.
Instead, take more lighthearted approach
and just let small things go easily.
That way, you will come more attractive to a man as well,
because you'll be like, oh wow, she laughed at herself.
So, if I will do something silly,
she will be a girl who takes more positive approach
and will not be mad with me or disappointed with me
by focusing on that problem.
Number five, encourage him.
So, for example, you are with a guy
and he has done something and he's gutted over it.
Maybe he actually let you down.
Maybe he took you to a restaurant and the food was bad.
Or maybe you were late, didn't get there on time
and the restaurant got closed.
And now, instead of going to this place,
you have to go to another place.
And he looks upset and gutted, give him an encouraging word.
You know, like show him that it doesn't matter.
Find the positive in a situation.
When you see that he feels down
and you help him by looking at the bright side of things,
what you do will get him out of that negative state of mind
and you'll actually make him happy.
You know, guys love girls that make them happy,
that make them feel better.
If he's going to go on a date with someone else
and he lets the girl down for something really small,
that girl is nagging, complaining,
setting in very strong boundaries,
like punishing the guy really hardly
over something really small,
he's going to be like, oh, this is too much
and too hard work.
I actually want to be able to this girl
who looked at the bright side
and we still ended up enjoying the rest of the day.
Number six, stand up for yourself in a fun, positive way.
So, you know, guys are sometimes cheeky
and they will say something to you,
like, oh wow, your sister is so beautiful.
So, a secure, confident way to respond
to something like this would be,
oh, thank you, of course she's beautiful,
she's my sister, right?
I have another comeback and a guy shared it with me.
It's a family member, to be honest.
So he was on a date with a girl
and he's a big guy, right?
And when the girl hugged him,
he said she placed her arms, her hands on his...
What is it called?
His love handles.
And he said, "Instead of hugging me on my shoulders
or anywhere else, she puts her hands
right on my love handles."
And he said, "In my mind, I just laughed it off.
I didn't even remove it.
In my mind, I just thought,
well, if it's her favorite part of my body,
well, it is what it is."
Ladies, when somebody is being cheeky with you
or trying to tease you about something,
turning it around to something positive
makes you look secure, confident and really fun.
Number seven, be interested in what he says.
So if he's sharing, let's say, his hobby, his passion,
some kind of story, listen to him.
Listen to what he talks about and ask him more questions.
You know, make sure that the story is not too personal.
You know, that it's more like a hobby
or a plan for life, or maybe some kind of project
he's very passionate and is working on.
Listen to it, encourage him and ask him more questions
like you're interested.
This is how you give security to a man
and you show him, I am interested in you
and I do acknowledge and care what you say, you know?
This is how you show that you like a man
and you're interested in him
without actually going the wrong way around
by giving him compliments, pursuing,
chasing, calling nonstop, all of that.
Number eight, trust him.
Trust is very, very important.
Whether you're dating a guy,
you're in a relationship, you're married,
trust is very important.
If you will start to show
from the few seconds that you're talking to him
you will call him a player or a bad boy
or you'll just show him that you don't trust him,
you'll just come across really insecure.
And if you will still want to go on the dates with him,
you are the one who's looking silly
as why would you be with a man that you do not trust
in the first place?
Here comes number nine.
Have a life, have a meaningful life, do the right thing.
Enjoy yourself, have fun in life
but don't overshare it with him.
If you're going to do all these eight steps,
you will come across as this really fun,
lighthearted cool girl to be with
and just have a good time and enjoy yourself.
You know, therefore there is no need to overshare
your personal life.
You know, this is how you keep the mystery.
Because when you're having a really good with him,
you're giving more than enough information
for him to kind of keep over the days when he's not with you
because he'll just reflect back on the dates
and he'll be like, oh, she was so much fun
and we shared there's joke and she laughed,
and then she made a joke and I laughed,
and she's feminine and cute and all of that.
So, it's plenty of information for a man
to miss you and to think over those dates.
There is no need to overshare your personal life.
The man has a lot of fun with you
because you're doing those eight things,
automatically he's going to be more interested
in your personal life
because he will want to get to know you more,
he will want to get to know you better,
'cause he really enjoyed his moments with you.
Yes, share those details,
but share those details on the dates with him.
Don't send him essays sharing your whole past
and the fun things that you did.
If he wants to know the fun past things that you have done,
he needs to ask you on the dates
and this is where you can share those things with him.
So, ladies, these were my nine simple tips
on how to be irresistible to a man.
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