Tripp Kramer here from TrippAdvice.com.
In a minute, I'm going to be going live on YouTube.
I haven't recorded it yet.
This is in the future.
I will record it.
You're going to see me answer a big question about why women test men.
I'm going to be going over how they test, some examples, how to deal with it, and the
biggest reason why they're doing this.
I'll give you a hint right now.
It all has to do with how women become attracted to men.
In a second, you're going to see that.
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Let's talk about the secret reason why women test men and you guys have been putting some
stuff in here.
I haven't seen any answers that I'm looking for.
Basically, when a woman is testing a man, a woman is challenging and questioning him
on his behavior.
That's the whole idea here.
The reason why women are testing men is because they're challenging a man and questioning
a man in his behavior.
Here's how attraction works.
A lot of guys don't understand this.
A woman is attracted to the personality or the behavior of a man.
That's how attraction works for a woman.
You see, a guy can quickly be attracted to a girl.
He sees her in the flesh, and he's like, wow, that girl is hot.
He’s attractive.
He'll go over, talk to her and see if her personality meets her looks.
A guy can become very attracted very quickly.
A girl, it's not the same idea.
Yes, they are physically attracted to a man, but it's more than his physical traits that
a woman is attracted to.
A lot of you guys don't believe that.
In fact, I hear in the comments all the time, step one, be attractive, step two, don't be
unattractive.
That is further from the truth.
That has nothing to do with looks.
A woman is attracted to a man because of his behavior.
It's all about his behavior.
The way he displays his personality.
A woman wants to know that she's going to be with a strong and confident man.
I don't mean strong by strength of the muscles.
I'm talking about his fearlessness, courage, personality, masculinity.
It’s about his masculinity and him displaying that masculinity.
A woman needs time.
A woman's not gonna be able to tell quickly if she's attracted to a man.
It takes time for him to display his personality for a woman to be like, yeah, I like this
guy.
She needs to test him.
She's testing his strength of character.
She doesn't want a weak guy.
This all goes back to thousands of years ago, when a woman was attracted to a man not because
of his looks, but his ability to provide.
A man could provide if he had that courage, strength, if he was able to take care of the
family.
That does not translate today into money.
Sure, money does help.
Of course, if you have money, you can do more things.
You have more access to things.
I don't think a woman's gonna complain if a guy has money, but that is not the single
thing that she's looking for.
Some do, and you don't want to be with those girls.
Other women are looking to see if he has those masculine traits that she was once attracted
to in this thousands of years ago.
In this time where she was looking for those primal cues.
We haven't evolved much since then.
She's looking for that.
That's why she's testing guys.
Women need to be able to trust a man.
That's another reason why she's testing him.
She needs to be able to trust him.
She needs to be able to know that she's going to be with a man that's going to make her
feel secure.
I'm not talking about fighting lions here.
I'm not talking about fighting off other guys.
We live in a world where that's not necessary anymore, however, it hasn't all caught up
with each other.
Women are still attracted to the guy who's going to be the one to display those masculine
traits.
One way to do this is to be unreactive to her tests.
She might say something like, you should buy me a drink, or she might say something like,
you're a player, to mess with you, to see how you're going to react.
A weak guy is going to get defensive.
We don't want that.
What do you do when a girl tests you?
The idea here is to be unreactive.
She's looking for a reaction from you.
If you react in a defensive way, and you react in a way that's going to show weakness, that
you can buckle under the pressure, and you're not able to hold your own and be confident
and be able to handle her, she is going to see that you did not pass the test.
Don't be defensive.
Don't fight back with her and don't test her back.
What I would do is if a girl was testing me and saying something like, are you a player,
or why are you here talking to me?
Or saying something borderline rude, saying you should buy me a drink, or you should take
me out to dinner.
What I would do is act unreactive.
I would have a face like this, look at her and say, you know what, you're adorable, then
continue on with another topic of conversation.
I wouldn't even give it the time of day.
When the girls testing you.
She's looking for a reaction.
Don't react to it.
Don't give her the time of day at all.
How do you know if a woman is testing you?
You'll know if a woman is testing you if she's asking you a question that's messing with
you.
If you feel some spike of emotion inside of yourself, like about to get defensive from
something a woman says, that is a test right there.
How do you turn the table?
The way to turn the table back when a woman tests you is by being unreactive.
It's by not paying attention to what it is, not giving her the time of day when she is
testing you.
When it comes to getting into a relationship and dating a woman, she wants to know that
she's going to be with the guy that is going to stand by her side.
That is going to be tough when things get difficult.
Shit happens in a relationship and in life.
She wants to know she's going to be with a strong guy who has strong character, who's
not going to buckle under the pressure, but she's with the guy who's going to take care
of things, take control, take over and be able to provide.
I don't mean provide by buying her stuff.
That's not what I mean.
It’s not about buying her gifts, presence, giving her money or giving her jewelry.
That's not what it's about.
It's about being able to take care of her in her emotional needs.
When she gets a little stressed out, get a little crazy, when she's causing drama, you're
going to be there for her or you're going to leave.
She wants a guy who's going to be strong, who’s going to be there.
Speaking in the primal sense.
She doesn't want a guy who's going to leave the family.
Thousands of years ago, she knew the man around to help raise the family.
She can't do it on her own.
Of course she can nowadays, but again, it was harder to survive.
She wants a guy who's going to be mentally strong, who’s going to be there, to provide.
I know this all sounds crazy.
A woman's not consciously saying, I want to test him for all these primal reasons.
No, it's in her DNA to do that.
She knows that she can be with a guy that she can be attracted to, that can seduce her.
Like I said, be there for her when things get tough.
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