low vibration friends and five signs it's time to move on
if you're watching a video like this you probably already intuitively since
it's time to move on but you might have some mixed feelings about it because it's kind of
an unusual and challenging circumstance to be in and yet it's extremely common for people
going through a spiritual awakening because if this is you you're all of a sudden growing
emotionally spiritually physically mentally at a much faster rate than you previously were
and it's not at all uncommon to to really start to outgrow
relationships because you change so much and even though at one point there was this sacred bond
now it's undeniable that that bond is lacking it's maybe gone and anyway this video is going
to share with you five of the telltale signs that it is in fact time for you to move on and
at the very least create some distance between you and this particular relationship number one
they don't support your dreams maybe you have these new dreams you want to follow your purpose
or something like that and they think it's silly and they have something kind of negative to say
they're you all of a sudden your buddy your friend this relationship is becoming one of the naysayers
and this happens i believe anyway because your dreams
even maybe the energy of you expressing your dreams makes the person feel bad about themselves
it sheds light on the fact that they're not following their dreams they're not living an
authentic life and it just yeah it makes them feel kind of bad about themselves and rather than being
inspired by you it's easier for them or the way they choose to deal with it is to try to bring
you back down number two the friendship is one-sided you become their personal coach
they have every day they're coming to you with their drama and their problems and you're
holding space for them and you're listening to them and that that's what good friends do
but when it's your turn when you have an issue or you have need some support and guidance you
might find they quickly change the subject and all of a sudden it somehow becomes about them
once again and this is very frustrating also you might even notice this in terms of like practical
uh reciprocation maybe some of the things you're willing to do for them because you love them
you just know or you've already experienced that when it comes down to it they're not there for
you maybe you've helped your friend move at some point and of course helping a friend move is a
huge pain in the ass nobody wants to do that spend their sunday all day lifting heavy boxes but it's
a really nice thing to do because moving can be exhausting i know i've moved many times but you
do that because that's the type of person you are that's the type of friend you are but then
when you need them there's an excuse or there's some sort of way to get out of it and you know
they're sort of bs'ing you because they just don't want to do it they're unwilling to reciprocate
they're unwilling to put as much energy and love into the relationship as you are
another telltale sign number three is you feel exhausted after spending time with them
when you are with a person that is at a similar vibrational frequency as you and there's an equal
exchange of energy usually you leave that encounter uplifted and excited and kind of
inspired even i have i am blessed to have a lot of friends in my life that
when i hang out with them it's like i feel charged up i feel fulfilled spiritually and emotionally
and i feel happy and i feel like almost buzzing sometimes with energy because it's like
the two similar vibrations at least to me seem to kind of fuel and support one another but when it's
very lopsided and you're like holding space for the for like the this other vibration will say
you might find that you're just like physically done you need to go home and go to sleep mentally
your mind feels tired from all that listening and you just feel like it's a lot of work and a
lot of energy just being around this person that i love that i care for that i'm aware i have a
bond and a history with but the it's it is what it is i feel freaking tired afterwards
number four this friend this person is not doing their inner work they might not even know what it
is to do inner work you are whether you want to be or are proactive about it or not you just find
yourself like learning life lessons and going through a lot of insights and spiritual growth
and shadow work and emotional healing and you're doing all this stuff because you're going through
a spiritual awakening and it's just changing you to this point where you're becoming more conscious
more authentic more real more you and they're not doing any of it and it's not about judging them or
thinking oh man what's their deal um even though you may have attempted to like plant seeds or
recommend a book or say hey check out this awesome youtuber victor odo he's this cool dude on youtube
just kidding but you may have tried to like nudge them along the path but they're just
not taking the bait and it's it's not that they're a bad person it's just they're not going through
a spiritual awakening it might just not be their time even though it's become kind of an issue for
you we all have our different you know timelines if you would but regardless there's a there's a
an issue does arise when one person's doing inner work and the other person is not whether it's a
marriage or a friendship or even a any kind of relationship for that matter and finally number
five you didn't even need this video because you probably already intuitively feel guided
to at the very least create some distance some space between you and this person but
you feel bad you feel guilty about it you have mixed feelings about it and maybe you look at
this person and you see who they could be who they have the potential to become but just don't really
show up as that person all that often you're not dealing with their potential you're dealing with
them as they are but there's a history there's a bond i've had friends that were you know dear
dear brothers to me since like childhood and then you know decades later all of a sudden it's like
it's not the same all the signs i shared were very much present and it was extremely sad it was sad
to like say goodbye to that sort of history i felt like a bad friend because we have been buddies for
so long and and despite of that though i had this like knowing like i can't keep doing this i can't
keep doing this it's draining me it's not fair to me i love myself too much now to subject myself
to this imbalanced energy and relationship and what i found is that these distances will be
created one way or the other and if you hold i've learned that when i would hold on and
hold on and deny and suppress and ignore my intuition it would end in some way usually
unnecessarily explosive and and more like painful and dramatic than if i was to kind of listen to my
intuition earlier on and come up with some kind of creative solution some kind of nice way of
creating you know increasing levels of distance to where the other person might not even notice
and i'll tell you what them being around you is also probably hard for them
because the brighter you shine the more light you shed upon their own shadow and they come
to associate you with like feeling bad about themselves anyway so you may be surprised at how
welcome that is by them as well even if they don't understand like the energy dynamic playing out
but one thing i want to leave you with something very important something that inspired this video
a dream last night i had about a good friend of mine who passed away about
a year ago his name was derek and he's the one that kind of inspired this entire video he was
like a dear brother to me we were friends since fourth grade and then we became like
best friends in sixth grade and hung out pretty much every single day of our life
up until like even after high school we got into trouble together we had jobs together we got into
drug addiction together we got clean together we moved out of state together we lived together we
worked together and we were we were literally like brothers so when it came time for me to
become aware of all these signs i just shared and then create that distance it was extremely
it felt impossible i felt like i can't do it but but eventually it it did happen
and one of the things i've learned though is to give people a chance to come around
i've learned that clinging to a friendship out of guilt it's almost like you're holding
both of yourselves back but when you create that distance they may get a message they may learn
something from that why is victor why are we this person that i like peeling away well maybe
and then maybe they start to look at themselves and then they kind of bounce up which can happen
i've made the mistake of counting people out and deeming them as a low vibration person and i'm
on the different path and they're here and the the the train tracks are splitting as bashar would say
and that's that but what i've learned is that if you allow them to split they they can come back
and shortly before my buddy died we like played phone tag and he would call me and i like would
be busy and i wouldn't pick up and then i would call him and he wouldn't pick up and we did this
a few times and then it just sort of fizzled out we never spoke and then he passed away
and even this low vibration person man i would do anything to like have another day with him another
conversation with him and i wish i wouldn't have been so judgmental and called them a
low vibration person maybe they still work i don't know perhaps so but regardless i have no way of
no way of rectifying that and i've learned again that give people a chance to to come around
because you never know what's going to spark somebody into their awakening who knows maybe
it's you creating that distance but i believe in i believe in people and i know there was a time in
my life when i was a complete freaking mess i was a low vibration friend and something happened to
me i attracted the things i needed to wake me up and my awakening was kind of quick and jolting and
set me off on a path very very like abruptly and i believe that same thing can happen to anybody
but it comes down to us loving ourselves enough
to demand more harmony more peace and more love and more fairness in our life anyways
my friends hope this video helps you in some way i'll be in touch have an amazing day peace