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Struggles Only INTJs Will Understand. Make sure to watch each one and find out
if you have any of them!
If the Myers–Briggs Type Indicator assessed you as an INTJ (Architect/Mastermind) Personality Type,
chances are you have some life struggles that are very common for you, but not so much for other
personality types. INTJs are unique individuals, and with that rarity comes a lot of challenges.
Being different makes the INTJ feel different from the rest of the world,
which isn't necessarily a bad thing. The INTJ finds that the majority of difficulties they face
are challenges that they enjoy taking on, but there are some things that eventually become
tiresome for them. You should undoubtedly be aware of your biggest struggles since
their recognition will help you in overcoming them, allowing you to better design your life
and achieve personal growth. Here are 8 Struggles Only INTJs Will Understand.
Number 1 - The pressure to succeed
Perfection can be a good thing for INTJs, but it can also have negative effects.
They want to ensure that everything is done to their exacting standards. This can place a lot
of strain on the INTJ, because they want to make sure that whatever they accomplish is a success.
With just about everything they try to do in life, the INTJ feels constant pressure.
While this helps the INTJ meet high standards and achieve their goals, it may also be exhausting.
Because they try to appear tough and unaffected, most people are unaware of the amount of internal
pressure the INTJ is under. They don't want others to see that they're stressed since they believe in
never displaying evidence of weakness. The INTJ is typically excellent at solving problems and
getting the work done, this does not mean that it isn't exhausting for them after a while.
Number 2 - Being spontaneous
Going along for the ride or being spontaneous might be a difficult task for the INTJ. While
the Architect is capable of adapting to change, they dislike it when their plans are altered.
They desire things done in a specific order and a more definite dedication to their timetable.
When things are changed at the last minute, it puts a burden on INTJs' ability to be prepared.
Going with the flow is typically a dumb and tedious idea for the Architect, and it's
not something they want to cope with. It is much more reassuring to know that they have everything
planned out and that they are doing everything perfectly. This is due to their perfectionist
tendency, since INTJs are constantly preoccupied with ensuring that they are doing everything right
in life. They don't accept difficulties or duties unless they know they can prepare ahead of time
and not go into the scenario blindly.
Number 3 - Being diplomatic A professional employment requires
diplomatic and polite behavior, and people are frequently expected to sugarcoat the truth
in order to avoid hurting others' feelings. INTJs aren't born with these kinds of social skills.
While they can and do learn them (clearly), being in polite mode all of the time is exhausting for
INTJs. Architects don't have time and energy for coworkers who are more interested in cut throating
games and politics than getting the job done. INTJs usually deal with office drama by refocusing
attention on the task at hand and emphasising the importance of results. That can sometimes
gain them a lot of respect, however, it can also alienate them and make them stand out as loners.
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Number 4 - Efficiency obsession
It's no secret that INTJs are efficiency freaks who will always look for the most efficient way
to complete a task. In their work environments they can define process standards for the entire
company, which is fantastic. It's not so wonderful when they are at the bottom of the career ladder
and have to follow systems that they know could be improved with a little reorganization.
What irritates an INTJ is being informed that fixing the inefficiencies that are driving them
crazy is "not their problem". When something isn't working, INTJs think it's their fault
Number 5 - Overthinking
INTJs have hyperactive minds, which causes them to continually analyze and ponder about
everything. Even when they are certain of something, they tend to investigate it
deeper. INTJs, on the other hand, are capable of making crucial decisions and
finding ways to act without allowing analyzing to get in the way. The INTJ has more difficulty with
this overanalyzing process when it comes to people and emotions. When they are feeling something,
they may try to come up with more rational ways to deal with it, which is not always the best way.
Because they strive for logic in almost everything they do, INTJs will overanalyze emotions and inner
sensations, even when they shouldn't. Also, when they should be more concentrated on emotions and
making relationships with the people around them, their thoughts are continuously seeking
to find logical and practical solutions. This isn't natural for the INTJ; therefore,
they focus on practical analysis rather than emotional responses. This is one of the biggest
Struggles Only INTJs Will Understand.
Number 6 - Demanding too much INTJs are very unique individuals and they
like to design their environments according to their vision. They prefer things done correctly,
which is typically "their way." INTJs believe that the best way is usually the one
they prefer. Architects are known for being efficient yet maintaining high standards. The
problem arises when they place unreasonable demands on their relationship and on people,
they are close with. Being bossy and demanding isn't a desirable trait and because of
that demanding nature INTJs can struggle with forming and developing important relationships.
Number 7 – Empathy problems
When it comes to fixing problems, this isn't always a negative thing. INTJs are
exceptional problem solvers. However, you they propose answers without truly understanding how
their partner feels. Instead of listening to their issues and allowing them to express themselves,
INTJs tend to simply provide solutions. While they may think this is ideal and
they're simply trying to help, sometimes all their significant other needs is a listening ear or a
shoulder to weep on. When they're upset, instead of merely offering solutions, INTJs should focus
on learning more about how they're feeling and what they can do to help. People really enjoy it.
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8 – Alienation
When faced with too much social interaction, INTJs want to be alone. While the Architect’s
desire to be on their own is something they should pay attention to, it can also cause complications.
The INTJ is frequently alone, and this can be a dangerous place to be. Architects will distance
themselves a little too much because they don't feel like they need other people. They can go
days or even weeks without engaging with others, yet this causes them to feel disconnected from the
people they care about. INTJs may act as though they don't require human interaction, yet they
might become so absorbed in their own thoughts that they disregard other crucial personal
requirements. In fact, INTJs, like everyone else, require interaction and need to feel a sense of
belonging to others. While they may not appreciate crowds or being among people who exhaust them,
they do require a close companion with whom they can share their experiences,
thoughts and ideas. They require at least one person with whom they can form a bond, someone
who will listen to their concerns and offer support even when they are exhausted. This form
of attachment is crucial for the INTJ, but their need to be alone might force them to withdraw for
lengthy periods of time. This might make the INTJ feel isolated from others, and it can put
strain on important connections. This is one of the biggest Struggles Only INTJs Will Understand
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