Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.
And this is episode - episode 15,978, or “How to Make a Girl Fall in Love with You” -
Beardy, is it really episode 15,978?
Kay, I actually have no idea what episode this is,
But what we do know is that … drum roll please … (drum roll)
You’re gonna friggin’ love it!
‘Cause today we’re showing you how to make a girl fall in love with you.
With Psychology Guys, women are busy these days, and the world
is full of distractions.
You wanna get her attention AND make her fall in love with you?
You’re gonna need some help.
And that’s why we’re bringing you the most powerful and scientifically proven psychological
tricks to make any girl fall in love with you.
As some barefoot, dreadlocked guy I met at a music festival once told me, “We’re
all just a bag of chemicals floating through a psychedelic world, man.”
He was definitely ON something, but I’m pretty sure he was on TO something too.
6. Take a Hike, Get Some Dopamine
Guys,if you wanna know how to get a girl to
fall in love with you, I figure it’s crucial to have some level of understanding about
how a woman’s big, beautiful brain operates.
And for some real scientific insight into a woman’s brain, we’re here today with
Professor Beardsley.
Beardy, that’s just you with glasses on.
Geez, way to blow my cover, Kay.
According to an article titled, “The Neurobiology of Love,” deep, romantic feelings are known
to produce higher levels of dopamine, a chemical “associated with reward, desire, addiction
and euphoric states.”
So the psychological trick becomes how to make her associate you with a little dopamine
kick.
And while there are a number of ways to increase dopamine levels in the brain, the healthiest
and most effective way I’ve found is through exercise.
So here’s one of the psychological tricks to get her to like you that I always incorporate
into my dating plan: I always ask a girl out on a day date and throw in a bit of mild exercise
like a hike or a swim.
And what I’ve found is that by including this type of exercise into a date, it not
only takes the edge off, but the extra dopamine being produced makes it easier to make a romantic
connection.
The feel-good chemicals will help her associate you with the same feel-good chemicals that
are produced when people fall in love.
5. Pump Up Her Feel Goods
Guys, you really wanna know how to make any
girl fall in love with you?
Another feel-good chemical much like dopamine, serotonin has some answers, mostly in your
tummy.
Get this: studies have shown that serotonin levels actually deplete in the early stages
of romantic love down to levels similar to people with obsessive‐compulsive disorders.
You’ve heard of the term “lovesick”, right?
It’s all that serotonin flooding your system.
It makes you feel GREAT and then slowly goes away as the relationship progresses until
you don’t get those butterflies as much.
So how do you manipulate her wires to help keep this feel-good brain chemical going?
Here’s one of the most coveted tricks to get girls to chase you that nobody else knows.
First, think..
Where do many couples go to spend time together when they’re dating?
Laser tag?
The zoo?
Who have you been dating, Kay?
No, most couples go out to dinner.
Research suggests that eating animal products like meat, fish, and eggs can help boost serotonin
levels.
In the early stages of love, there’s a high potential for burn out when the magic wears
off.
The t keeping the brain chemistry in line when you’re rick is to keep the magic alive
bytogether.
And the way to do that is to nourish your body along with your brain.
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach,
But a girl I once dated never stopped raving about the first steak I grilled for her.
4. Master the Name Game
Starting at a very young age, our brains are
trained to create an automatic, involuntary response whenever we hear our name.
So, knowing this, how do you make this a trick to work for you?
Simple.
Call a girl by her name almost every chance you get.
That way, you trigger this automatic response more often and somehow train her brain to
notice you and eventually like you.
Hey, Kay.
You look nice today, Kay.
Beardy, I know what you’re trying to do here..
But seriously guys, whenever someone mention our names, it makes us feel special because
we know that they are specifically talking to us and not to anyone else.
For example…
When I receive a text from a guy that says “Good night, Kay!”, I assume that he is
thinking about me while sending that text.
And more importantly, it shows that the message is exclusively for me and not a text that
he sent to me plus a few other on his contacts list.
3. Be the Man She’s Looking for
Remember the one who got away?
We all have at least one.
For me, it was a beautiful girl I met a few summers ago.
We hit it off, fell in love; it was the best summer ever.
And then as winter came and the holidays were approaching, she started to drift away.
Next thing I knew, it was over.
I got really depressed for a few months, And then I pulled my head out of my butt,
stopped feeling sorry for myself, and decided to win her back.
Oh, I can’t wait to hear this one, Beardy.
How’d you win her back?
Guys, you wanna know how to make a girl fall in love with you again?
Here it is ... Research on love and attraction also tells
us that people form an idea of their ideal partner prior to choosing one.
And that idea comes from upbringing, community, culture, and the media.
All I had to do was find out what kind of guy she was looking for and then show her
that I was in fact THAT guy.
Sounds a bit disingenuous, Beardy.
I’m not sure this is how you make a girl crazy for you.
Well, I’m not saying you should be someone you’re not.
If your crush is interested in a type of guy that you have no interest in being, then she’s
probably not the right woman for you.
But what I realized is that I WAS the guy she was looking for; I just hadn’t showed
her that yet.
Well that makes sense, Beardy.
Fellas, both in your personal and professional lives, a huge factor in determining success
is how others perceive you.
Yep, and all I had to do to win back my boo was to change the way she saw me.
She thought I was unfocused and immature, probably because of my super cool beard and,
oh, would you look at that?
I was so busy having fun with her that summer, I never thought to slow down and talk about
my goals or plans for the future.
Once I started sharing that with her, she started to see that I wasn’t just aimlessly
meandering through life.
I was able to show her that I actually had good direction.
Wanna know more of how to make any girl fall in love with you fast?
Check out this other video we have that focuses on just that.
Hey Guys, now that you basically have superhuman dating powers with these few psychological
tricks to help you win her over that are firmly grounded in the latest research
on love and attraction, Don’t forget that at the end of this video,
we’re going to show you the # 1 mistake to avoid when falling in love.
So stay tuned ‘til the end to make sure you nail the landing and avoid the most common
relationship pitfall.
2. Don’t Just Fake It ‘til Ya Make It
Fellas, if you want to figure out how to make
a girl fall in love with you, there are certain alpha male body language tricks that I know
will make her want you.
For me, it all came down to this one factor: self-confidence.
Once I had more self-confidence, everything else started to fall into place.
And here’s why this is so important.
When I was just trying to master a few alpha male body language tricks, I got good at gaining
girls’ attention, But in truth, I was just faking it.
And as soon as a girl would come over to me, I would totally freak out and clam up.
I could absolutely nail a full on alpha male stance without truly having the confidence
to back it up, but I couldn’t fake real self-confidence.
And here’s the most important thing I learned: Once I started building self-confidence, I
naturally began carrying myself more like an alpha male without even knowing it.
I would stand taller, my gait was sure-footed, smooth and even, and I could easily make direct
eye contact and even hold a gaze if I wanted to.
But it took time for me.
And it’ll take time for you.
Just work at it day-by-day and the changes WILL happen.
1. Remove Self-Doubt
So Beardy, how does someone magically become
more self-confident?
Great question, Kay.
Guys, talk to any successful person and you’ll find a story about a person who had to deal
with rejection and overcome self-doubt in some way.
J.K.
Rowling, the author of Harry Potter, the best-selling book series in history, struggled early on
in her career and was at one time living on welfare.
Fellas, the very act of analyzing self-doubt, looking it square in the face, facing your
fears of rejection, and moving past it, is exactly one of the things women find very
attractive.
That’s true, Beardy.
Guys, you wanna know how to make a girl fall in love with you instantly?
Be courageous.
And I’m not talking wrestle-a-mountain-lion level courageous, I mean have the courage
to be you.
Whatever that means for you.
There’s nothing more instantly attractive than a guy who knows who he is
And that’s very simply because the alternative, a guy who’s still finding himself,
Doesn’t give the same sense of maturity, stability, and ultimately the security that
a woman’s looking for in a man.
A guy who’s still trying to find himself is a big question mark in a girl’s mind.
And girls don’t fall in love with question marks.
But they might spend a night with them if they’re smooth enough.
Don’t Lose Yourself It’s been well documented that falling deeply
in love can actually suspend a person’s ability to think rationally and logically.
One of the biggest mistakes I repeatedly made early on in the hot, sweaty, early stages
of relationships was to succumb to the fever.
I stopped working on projects; I even stopped working out at one point I was so infatuated
with a girl.
And the danger of losing yourself in the early stages of love is that if you stop doing the
things that made you the person she was attracted to,
You run the risk of changing into someone she may fall OUT of love with.
And the benefit of being self-aware during the early stages of falling in love - AKA,
the romance period - is that you can intentionally slow it down.
By pacing myself when I’m in a new relationship and not letting myself fall head over heels,
I’ve found that I can actually significantly extend the amazing energy of the romance period.
And that means less chance of a burnout where the spell wears off and she might move on
to greener pastures.
So the next time you find yourself in a hot new relationship, remember to slow down and
pace yourself.
Building a meaningful and lasting relationship is a marathon, not a sprint.
Do you have a psychological trick to make her fall madly in love with you that works
every time?
Let me know your secret approach in the comments.
Those are the 6 most powerful scientifically-backed psychological tricks to make any girl fall
in love with you.
And don’t forget to check out our other video for some more ways to make her fall
in love with you fast.
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