- Same sex dating is like high school.
Like, if you like somebody, chances are
they've already dated like three of your friends.
(upbeat music)
- We're gonna find dates for each other.
- We are going to swap dating apps.
- I'm excited because I'm so single!
- Her is a dating app that's specifically
for queer women.
The interesting thing about women on apps
is I feel like you just talk to them forever,
and then you, like, never meet up.
- I hate the whole talking thing.
- Oh, I love talking.
- Literally an option on Grindr to say that
you are looking for, like, right now.
- Oh Grindr.
- It's an app that basically just like helps you
find other gay men based on proximity.
- They'll, like, send a picture of their dick
and then be like, "Top or bottom,"
and then you're like...
- So I'm downloading Her and you're downloading Grindr.
- Bad boy fill proper topper.
- This man's beautiful.
Save him for later.
- Even just the set-up of this, something could
actually come of this.
Like, people...
- I could fall in love.
- You better find me a girlfriend.
- I'm gonna do my best.
- Try and find someone who's actually looking for something.
I'm gonna find that motherfucker.
- To love.
- To lust.
(whimsical music)
- Grindr's already not working on my 4S a little bit.
It's been loading more men for quite some time.
- And I've started signing up on account on Her,
and I'm still, like, picking out the pictures,
and five girls have already tried to chat
with Brittany.
I'm like, "It's not even done yet."
- Oh, this actually looks good.
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
(camera clicks)
Oh, you've got a message.
"Into Asians?"
Oh my God, that's so sad that he already
has to ask you that.
Wait, he's not even Asian.
(record scratches)
- What?
What we are experiencing now is a botched situation.
(chuckles)
And they'll just try to get you to give them
your credit card information.
- Just got home from work, and Brittany already has
49 girls trying to talk to her.
49!
I haven't done anything, I just created the profile.
I haven't even started it and I'm exhausted.
- So I had to pick a tribe for Jameson.
I picked jock, but I wish there was like a
sweet jock option.
Cuz he seems like a really sweet jock.
I don't know, I can see you in a letterman's jacket.
(chuckles)
No?
- No.
- Clean cut?
- Yeah, I'd put myself as clean cut.
- It's been really hard because as soon as I don't give
someone a nude on Grindr, they usually stop talking to me.
Like maybe after the third line of like,
"What are you doing?"
It would be like, "Pics?"
So a lot of it was really based on appearance,
which makes sense because they wanted to meet up.
- So lots of opinions about Her after day two.
Some people, they like request to chat you.
And other people send you a friend request.
And I don't know if that's like an actual friend request,
or code for something else.
- Almost every single woman on this app
is a vegan or vegetarian, and that's what
we're bonding over, and I have no idea
what to talk about after that.
- So it's noon and I'm gonna start talking
to men on Grindr for Jameson.
There's like no interest in conversation at all,
and I'm sure on yours, you experience women
wanting to have conversations.
- Oh yeah.
Girls are just very nice and forgiving,
from my experience on Her.
I get busy at work and I won't respond
for like seven hours.
And that's okay to them, they still wanna talk to me.
Girls are really nice.
They don't call you ugly or fat
or tell you to fuck off.
- So this one girl had a photo of her with a bunch of geese.
I literally just sent, "Geese" in capital letters,
and we started talking about geese,
and we started talking about other things
that we interesting.
- I'm really into her.
- I'm really excited about this.
We've been talking the whole week.
- She's totally my type, and we're about to
exchange numbers and I'm super excited.
- Yeah, she asked for her number, so we made sure
it was totally fine.
I'm gonna pass the buck off to Rachel.
(squeals)
(funky music)
- I have a date!
- Aaar!
I don't have any dates.
- On behalf of humanity, I'm really sorry
that this is what your experience has to be.
Either you'd be greeted with like, "Hey."
Or it would be like picture, picture, picture, picture
of their torso, their ass, their dick in a sock.
- They're like, "Hey, what are you doing?"
I'm like, "Oh, I'm bored at work, what about you?"
And it's like butt pic, and they're like showering.
- It was like a sensory overload.
There was too much potential to kind of just wade through.
- There's nothing like lesbian dating, I think.
It was fun for a little while, and then people
wanted to talk so much that it became almost a burden.
- I feel like lesbians always complain.
Like, "Oh, but I can't find..."
They're all on Her.
- They're there.
- There's a lot of them.
- There are so many.
- And they're all ready to talk to everyone.
- We hung out.
I had a really good time, our personalities totally clicked.
She was super cute.
We made plans to see each other again.
She did look exactly like this girl that
I've hooked up with before.
I think I have a type.