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10 Things that make you less attractive
There are many little tricks to make yourself more attractive. But, unfortunately,
there are just as many things that make you a lot less attractive. If you are wondering
whether have you been doing something wrong, check out these 10 things that make you less attractive.
No1: Laziness It's no secret
that appearing to have the energy level of a sloth isn't a desirable quality.
People who appear helpful are more attractive, and, naturally, a lazy person does not seem very
helpful to other people. Another reason why lazy people are less attractive is that they usually
don’t have a passion in their life that they are pursuing. They don’t really like to work hard and
become a better version of themselves. Because most things seem like a drag to them, there is a
good chance that they have quite a boring life. Be honest: would you date someone like that?
No2: Being mean Nice guys definitely don't finish last. Well,
who likes a mean and spiteful person? Whether it is your relative, partner, coworker or friend,
you’d like them to be kind and respectful. Mean people are less attractive and can seem
physically uglier to other people, as studies have shown. People want to feel nice and appreciated by
others. No person with self-respect would think that someone evil, mean or unkind is attractive
and desirable. If you are often mean to people around you, stop wondering why nobody likes you;
you know the reason now. No3: Arrogance
Confidence is great; arrogance is simply not attractive. Arrogance is an unattractive trait
because it means that you focus mostly on yourself and don’t have a lot of time or
empathy for others. In addition, arrogance is synonymous with a “know-it-all” attitude. Nobody
likes know-it-alls. Arrogant people also don’t take other people’s opinions into consideration.
It is a very off-putting trait that will make others dread spending time with you.
No4: Being too clingy If you want to see how attractive someone is,
pay attention to how needy and clingy other people act around them. The more attractive a person is,
the more clingy people will be around them. But, there is another side of the story.
If you are desperate to be with someone, chances are you think they are better than you are. Being
needy essentially conveys “you’re so much better than me, please pick me”. Not a great sales trick.
You are perhaps not that needy, but that is the message you are sending. And that is the reason
clinginess makes you less attractive. No5: Constantly interrupting others
Interrupting someone is disrespectful and rude. As far as behaviors go, interrupting someone is one
of the most certain ways to destroy any chances of a relationship. Why would anyone be attracted
to a person that is always interrupting them and making themselves the center of attention?
It shows that you have no manners or self-control at all. The other person could also think that
you are not listening and not respecting them. It’s as simple as practicing common courtesy.
No6: Dishonesty Dishonesty is another quite
obvious reason for being less attractive. A 2006 study at the University of Western Ontario showed
that dishonesty is a turn-off for men and women alike. They rated people as more attractive when
looking at their photos if they were described as honest. People truly value honesty and if
you are dishonest, people are a lot less likely to respect you. And if they don’t respect you,
how can you expect them to like you? Honesty is really the best policy when
it comes to attractiveness and dating. No7: Only talking about yourself
Many people do this without realizing it. You focus solely on yourself, talk only about your
life and problems, and often don’t care or pay attention to what others around you have to say.
You think you’re the only one that matters. Even if you ask questions, it comes across
as superficial politeness, especially because you rarely wait for the answer or take time to
listen until the end. If this is you, it’s time to change. No one wants to be friends
with someone who only cares about themselves and is not sensitive to other people’s needs.
No8: “Closed” body language Non-verbal communication is very important when
it comes to attractiveness. There are two types of body language you should take into consideration:
open and closed. If you don’t want to be considered unattractive,
you should avoid closed body language. Closed body language is when you cross your arms,
cross your legs, and keep hands close to your body while speaking. These non-verbal cues are
sending the message that you are closed for communication, nervous or even hostile, and
that is not attractive. Think about what messages are you sending with your posture and gestures.
No9: Not having a sense of humor Humor is a very important factor in attractiveness
for both men and women. Studies have shown that not being funny or even having just an
average sense of humor makes you a lot less attractive than having a great sense of humor.
If you can make someone laugh, chances are they will like you. If you aren’t funny,
you will likely be perceived as less attractive, so that's a word of warning for you.
No10: Bad grammar It may seem trivial,
but according to one study conducted on 9,000 online daters, bad grammar is a big turn-off,
especially in online dating. Seventy-five percent of participants in this study said
that they would most definitely reject someone who failed to pass a fifth-grade spelling contest.
Bad grammar shows a lack of education. Not only that, but it also signals the lack of
interest. If you’re not committed enough to check your grammar and punctuation,
other people won’t think much about you. Is there anything that would make you less
attracted to someone that is not included in our list? Let us know in the comment section.
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