I feel relaxed.
Do you feel relaxed?
Maybe.
Maybe you don't.
I'll tell you this, it is crucial that you are completely relaxed and comfortable whenever
you meet a woman for the first time.
Let's say it's an approach, or when you're on a first date.
Let's say, you met her off of an app or maybe just a first date from an approach.
Whenever you're meeting women, they are paying close attention subconsciously of how relaxed
you are.
If you're being really erratic, if you're talking way too fast, if you're being really
fidgety, she's going to pick up on this.
Yes, you'll get her attention when you do that, but that's not the kind of attention
you want.
That is going to make you look nervous.
It's gonna make look shy.
Potentially might make you look creepy.
It all depends.
What you want to do is at default, be relaxed.
Of course, that's not necessarily easy.
It takes a few things to do.
I'm going to be teaching you that on this video.
Just understand why this is so important.
I'll explain it right now.
When you're relaxed, it shows that you don't care.
If you're going into a situation where you care so much, it's going to show desperation.
It's not going to show confidence.
When you're relaxed, when you're just easing into the conversation, when you appear just
really chill, this is going to make you look more confident.
Why?
Because you're not going to be acting like this is a big deal.
A lot of guys were really shy, really nervous.
Their body language is showing that this is a big deal.
Again, that shows desperation.
Women don't want to be with the desperate guy.
In fact, women want to be with the guy where they know that women want them.
They want to know that guy has been around women, that he's gonna be comfortable around
women.
That shows that he's actually wanted.
She wants a wanted guy.
I know that sounds far out like, whoa, all that from just being relaxed?
Yes, this is why body language is so crucial.
I'm sure you've heard me and other sources say a ton of times that body language is most
of the communication that someone's picking up when you're talking to them.
It's true.
When you're relaxed, that's what you're displaying, confidence.
How are you going to do this?
Does this happen overnight?
Are you going to be able to be relaxed when you go over and approach a woman right away?
No, of course not.
It's going to take time.
What you need to do?
First of all, you need to approach a lot of women.
I always tell guys, and I'm telling you, if you want to be comfortable in front of women,
you gotta experience women, you gotta be approaching them.
You got to be going on a lot of dates.
I'm not talking about experienced by texting or by doing any kind of dating apps.
I'm talking about the experience of you being in front of them because that's what comes.
That's where you want to be relaxed.
I know a lot of guys feel that it's really challenging to go up to a woman.
They have approach anxiety, it's very challenging to be comfortable on a first date.
I can help you with that.
If you don't know already, I have a coaching program.
In fact, I have various programs.
If you want to hear about that, go to the description down below.
Go to CoachedByTripp.com.
There you can apply for coaching.
I can help you through this process of getting you to be more comfortable in front of women,
and giving you the exact steps of going up to women, knowing exactly what to say, and
doing this over and over again.
You see what happens when you do this over and over, is it becomes easy to you.
It becomes something that you don't even have to think twice about.
Right now, the reason why you're not relaxed, the reason why you're scared around women
is because you don't have that experience.
Unfortunately, it's kind of a catch 22, in order to be less shy, you actually have to
go up and do the approach.
Here's another few tips for you.
I want you to be able to relax.
One way of looking relaxed, at least if we can just fake it till we make it, is relaxing
your shoulders, rolling back your shoulders, and letting them drop.
A lot of guys who are really shy, they hold their shoulder up here, they're tense, or
they're hunched over a little bit.
You wanna make sure you roll your shoulders back, have good posture, and boom, sit into
your body and be more relaxed.
Another thing and you saw me do it in the very beginning of this video, is you breathing.
Breathing is underrated, we forget to do it.
Of course, you're doing it right now.
What I'm talking about is doing very deep breaths.
Even if you're in front of the woman, take a deep breath.
Of course, not so obvious.
You can be doing it at least through your nose.
Do it in a way where she can't tell but at least make sure you're breathing.
Make sure you're consistently breathing.
Even before you go on a date, before you go over and approach that woman, take a few deep
breaths, relax your body.
Again, this is what women are paying attention to.
Are you comfortable?
Are you relaxed?
I'm telling you, if you can master this, this takes you very far because women want a confident
guy.
I think you already know that.
If you need help with this, go down to the description below right now.
Click on that link, CoachedByTripp.com, fill out the application right away with as much
detail as possible.
I will help you get through this process and being able to comfortably go up to women,
get more dates and have an active dating life.
You don't have to do this alone.
Let me help you, or at the very least, take some of these tips and start using them today.
Thanks for watching.
I'll see you on the next video.