the most important thing i could possibly say to you okay you need need need
to surround yourself with people that are going the same direction you're going
and that are supporting each other along the way not people that are competing
with each other people that are supporting each other okay so notice i'm not saying
you should hang out with all the people that you've been hanging out with your whole life
even if they tell you you can't do things even if they don't believe they can do things either
right god bless them it's not like people are are being malicious with their limitations but
if you're not careful their limitations become your limitations simply by expectation okay
simply because they they don't believe they can do it themselves so by proxy they don't believe that
you can either it's just it's the human experience it's what happens okay so what we need to do to
combat that what we need to do instead is not get rid of our family and friends right you don't kick
them out and say no i'm doing bigger better things you're out of here right i'm not saying that
i'm just saying that their circle like if we look at our sphere of influence right there's
us and then there's a circle that is close to us our inner circle and then there's a
circle that is a little bit further out i would put those people instead of your inner circle
i would put those people one circle out and what that means in actuality is maybe talking to them
half as much during the week doesn't mean not talking to them at all talk to them half as much
give them half of the effect on your life that they currently have does that make sense so your
inner circle people should be your people that are rooting for you your people that are doing
the same thing as you or love you and want to see you do better and are not
directly um affected in a negative way by your success sometimes people see our success and
it affects them in a negative way it makes them it's a mirror essentially here's what it is it's
a mirror to them and they see our success and then they're like they're like they see what they they
haven't done right they see what they believe they can't do i'm not saying they really can't they
believe they can't do and that they haven't done yet and so it affects them in a negative way which
then projects right back out to you okay do you see why we need to protect ourselves from
this not from the people they love us very much and we love them i'm not at all debating that
but i am telling you that we need to protect our headspace if we're really going to do something in
this world we have to protect our headspace okay so we put those people on the outer circle and
then on the inner circle are our cheerleaders and our people that are doing it alongside you okay
if you do not have those people i have those people for you um i have a group on facebook it's
free just join it's a massive community of people doing the same stuff we're all pushing each other
to be better every single day okay it's called it's the link is in the description of this video
it's called heart-centered and successful work-at-home moms if you're not a mom yes
you can come in just moms are my jam right um and uh we also have something in there called
the 90 day side gig to main gig challenge and it's not a fluffy challenge it's not like
hey call this person today and then that's it right it's literally 90 days of we're on day
61 now but you start at day one okay you start at day one all right we're on day 61 and every
day is something substantial okay something substantial that you need to know you guys have
been doing this for 10 years i'm well versed in working from home in an efficient and massively
successful way okay so these daily activities i have you do is walking you to the point that you
need to be it's teaching you things without you even buying courses or whatever it's teaching you
all the stuff you need to know to build a strong foundation okay you guys so that is the again it's
the 90 day um side gig to main gig challenge it's in unit 2 once you join the group so there's that
i am somebody who has actually done this i have actually built an at-home business
so you're going to learn from somebody who has actually done it i am not a dude bro sitting on
the front of a ferrari in a facebook ad okay i am a mom i am a wife i have a daughter i have a life
and i have a business you guys this is real this is accessible things that you can expect
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