when I first met Jessica I literally couldn't get her off my mind
I'd be creating videos just like this and she'd be on my mind I'd be in the
bathroom combing my hair and I'd look at the comb and I'd see her face I'd even
be doing my favorite activity in the entire world which is kite surfing and
I'd be thinking of her the entire time okay fine that was a lie maybe I
wouldn't think about her the entire time when I was kite surfing but most of the
time because I really did love her moral of the story is that if you're on his
mind then you are doing well in the relationship in this video I'm gonna
show you exactly how to be on his mind non-stop keep watching hey there Adam
little Jay from sexy confidence calm where I help you create your love story
in this video is all about being on that guy's mind when you're not around
number one leave him wanting more one thing I always remember when Jessica and
I first started dating is that we go on a first date or a second date or even
like our fifth date and she'd always kind of end things earlier than I wanted
she had always just been okay great it was really great seeing you but I gotta
go and I was like wait no I want to hang out more and then I remember other dates
that I've been on long long time ago back when I was single cheese it feels
like a long time now but when you go on a date and be like an
eight hour date and at the end you almost like have nothing else to talk
about and when you leave that date you're thinking are we gonna have
literally any ground to cover on date number two which brings me to my second
point number two stay mysterious on the first couple dates you do not have to
tell him your entire life story on that first date leave some stuff for later
and maybe he even asked you a very specific question on a first date you
can always just say look let's keep that for the second date it's kind of a bold
move but I like it number three is don't be what I call an instant texture we all
live in a world of instant gratification we think of a woman texture and she
responds let him think of you text you and then you respond give it a little
time and the way to give it a little time is to go get a life go make things
happen right if you want him to be thinking about you you have to be going
doing interesting things with your life you can't be sitting at home watching
Netflix eating bandage areas every single night during that time like go
pick up a new hobby go figure out rock climbing go do something fun that you've
never done before with your girlfriend whatever it is I don't care what it is
just fill that time with something else other than you say your phone counting
down the moments until you can respond to his initial text got it number four
poke fun of him a little bit when you bust his balls just even a little bit
he's always gonna be wandering the back of his mind like is she into me or
what's going on here and if he's always kind of wondering where he stands with
you then he's gonna be thinking about you a lot and thinking about how he can
get you to like him and number five is just be authentic authentic see is
strangely missing nowadays and remember you can't fake authenticity and when
you're being authentic and being real being the type of kind of goofy awkward
person that you might be and then I certainly am whenever I go out and meet
new people it's okay if you do something embarrassing or stupid
remember it's totally cool and sometimes the very fact that you did something
embarrassing is stupid is actually gonna make him like you even more the
University of Texas released some really interesting studies about this
phenomenon they studied how simple mistakes can actually affect perceived
attraction he actually asked male students from the University to watch
recordings of people taking a quiz when people did well on the quiz but spilled
coffee at the end of the interview the students actually rated them higher on
likability than when they did well on the quiz and didn't spell coffee and
they concluded from the study that sometimes being authentic and being
weird and being clumsy like in that situation can actually make you more
likeable in certain situations and I've personally experienced that a number of
times when I've gotten on a date or where I've been flirting with a woman
back when I was single and something weird would happen or she'd say
something a little bit strange or weird or even spilled her drink or do
something a little bit awkward like trip there's a part of you that's just like
oh that's really cute and you actually start to connect with that person even
more so if you'd like a little bit of help on how to flirt with a guy how to
be honest and more often I have an amazing
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week bye bye