How do you make him obsess? In today's video, I want to talk about the
top 10 ways to make a guy absolutely smitten with you. Stay tuned.
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How do you make him obsess? Today, we are going through the top 10 ways
to make a guy go absolutely crazy for you and yes, I know I look ridiculous with the
Afro mic alright. It's really windy here, leave me alone. So number 10, gratefulness and
a grateful attitude. It's so rare these days for a man to meet a woman who isn't constantly
thinking, Oh, I don't have this thing or I'm here because of this bad thing that happened."
When you're grateful for the experiences in your life, positive or negative, when you
meet a man who is just grateful for food on the table, grateful to have a roof, isn't
that an amazing attractive attitude? It's exactly the same when you have a grateful
attitude and you show a man that you're grateful for the simple things, he is going to see
you as a cut above.
Number nine, naturally challenging. Men love to meet a woman who's naturally challenging.
Now, this is not playing hard to get. This does not mean playing hard to get. Playing
hard to get is very unattractive and very weird, but when you're naturally challenging
just because you have healthy priorities, that is damn attractive and sets you apart.
If you want to know how to be naturally challenging, we've actually got a blog post on that. I'll
put the link to that in the description and a video from last month, which I'll link right
up here. Number eight, show a man that you don't have an agenda. Most women, particularly at
the high value men come at the guys with an agenda for a relationship. They want to get
to an end point. They want to get the guy into the relationship, get him into commitment
and more. The woman who is just happy where she is, she's happy being single, she's open
to meeting someone and things going further but she's not trying to make that happen,
she's not trying to get anywhere is an incredibly attractive attitude. It adds to the naturally
challenging vibe that we talked about in point number nine, and it makes you really seem like
the type of woman who is rare and that a guy is going to want to obsess over.
Number seven, have opinions. It's, it's tempting when you meet a guy to
want to be agreeable. You don't want to break rapport, you want to get along. It's rare
to meet a woman who just stands her own ground and she's not, you know, crazy angry person
about it, but she's willing to stick to her beliefs and have a fun little debate with
him about it. And you know, maybe if he does present good points, she goes, "Okay, those
were really good points." But she still has opinions that she's happy to own. And you
know, maybe she changes the guy's opinion as well. You have a healthy debate, you have
a fun debate and you challenge the man and that's what men will really see as a cut above.
Number six, passion. Passion is incredibly attractive. It is incredibly,
incredibly attractive. And when you show passion for the things in your life, what you do,
who you are, even if it's something as simple as what you're eating or the fact you exercise
today, it can be anything at all. But when you show passion for it, men absolutely love
that energy. They love it and they will want to see you more to get more of it.
Number five, banter and wittiness. If you can banter with a guy, if you can outwit that guy,
you are going to be an absolute superstar in his mind. Men love a woman who challenges
them, who makes them think. And when, when you show that you have the social intelligence
to be witty and banter with a guy over points, you know if he's, he says something and then
you outwit him back and he tries to outwit you and you ultimately win the little banter
contest, that guy's going to have so much respect for that and he's going to enjoy his
time around you and he's going to find that very, very attractive.
Number four, spontaneity. So spontaneity is something that shows a lot
of confidence. It shows that you don't take life too seriously. It shows that you're open
to new things, new experiences, that you're going to be heaps and heaps of fun to be around.
A lot of people hate spontaneity because they feel like it pushes them out of their comfort
zone and that's not a place they want to go. When you show a guy, you're spontaneous, when
you show him you're up for anything, he knows that he's going to have a vast array of varied
experiences with you and that's a rare thing that a man is gonna want to have in his life.
Number three, down to earth. You hear this all the time, right? You hear
be down to earth. You see it on everyone's dating profile. What does that even mean?
We actually have a video out, coming out. We just put it out from two weeks ago and
put it out two weeks ago. How to be down to earth. You know, down to earth might be being
relaxed, taking things as they come, being low maintenance, not being concerned with
the superficial. A woman who's down to earth is incredibly attractive to a man. It is a
rare trait. Some women will be down to earth at the beginning and then won't be so much
as the relationship goes on. If you can be down to earth and stay down to earth, you
ask any man he is going to see that as exceptional.
Number two, the second highest thing that makes a guy obsess is simply
this, confidence. It's obvious that confidence is going to make you attractive. Confidence
what it really is, is it's the belief in yourself. It's the belief that you have value. It's
the belief that you'll handle what comes. It's the belief that you'll be a great catch.
You know ultimately, we trust people's opinions about themselves. What this comes down to
is if you meet a man who's confident, he's attractive, right? Because you trust his opinion
about himself. You might find out later that that confidence was just a facade, but he
was certainly still attractive at the beginning, and if that confidence is real, that guy stays
attractive. You trust his opinion about himself, and it's the same if someone's not confident,
you trust their opinion about themselves, and this is why certain insecurities are not
going to be as attractive. If you show a man that you believe in yourself and you're confident
within yourself, he's going to be radiantly attracted to that and he's going to want more
of it. Not everyone starts confident. I certainly didn't start confident. If you're not confident
or you don't feel like you're confident, that's okay. That's totally normal, but you can build
that confidence. Make a habit of getting out of your comfort zone, showing yourself, proving
to yourself that you can handle anything. Take little steps if you need to, but build
that confidence up and you are gonna become incredibly attractive to the men you meet
and they are going to obsess over you.
And number one, the number one thing that makes men crazy for you and
makes them want to obsess and think about you constantly is to bring uniquely positive
experiences to his life. The more positive and the more unique the experience you can
bring to his life, experiences that you can bring to his life, the more that guy's going
to obsess over you. Think about an ex. Well, think about a typical ex example. It's funny
how in a lot of cases, even though you know your ex was bad and even though you know the
breakup was for the right reasons, you still miss your ex. How many people miss their exes
and how many people want their exes back? It's everywhere, right? Our brains obsess
over our exes. Even if we know they weren't good for us. Why does that happen? Why? Because
we think of the uniquely positive experiences they provided.
Even if we know they weren't right for us, our brain goes back to the good
times. Their unique characteristics, the way they laugh, the way they touch us, the memories
we shared together, and we obsessed because we know those experiences are uniquely positive
to that ex. We know that in that combination we will never have that again with a different
person. We know logically that we'll have something else in a different way in its own
form, but it's that uniquely positive experiences, experience with that ex that makes us absolutely
obsess over them. And it's the same when you start out dating, you show a man through your
quirks. Maybe it's the unique way that you flirt. Maybe it's the way you're physical
with him. Maybe it's your sexual chemistry. Maybe it's the way your personality, the way
you vibe within, the way you banter, the more uniquely you experiences you can provide to
a man, that is something no other woman can replicate. And that is ultimately what is
going to make a men the most crazy and the most obsessive for you.
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