Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Welcome back to the
Talking To Girls 101 series where we're breaking down conversation and all the
little subsections. I've been diving deep into it so you can learn how to build
attraction and have an awesome, interesting, fun conversation when you're
talking to a girl. On today's episode, we're going be talking about questions.
I'm not sure at this point in making this video what order I'm putting all of
these videos in but I know that before this video, I have already talked about
the idea of talking forever and the idea of questions versus statements when
you're in a conversation. I want to dive a little bit deeper into questions.
Questions that I know get responses from a girl when you're talking to her
because I just wanted to go deeper into this topic and I think it's really going to
help you out. Let's go into some questions and I'm going to give you
examples of questions that you can ask a girl when you are talking
to her for the very first time. Also here is some good news, there's only so much
time I have to make these videos and I've already made a ton of videos on
questions so I'm going to have a bunch of videos, links to them in the description
below if you are really interested in asking really cool questions cause I've
done at least five or six videos on this already. Let me give you a little bit
of my favorites and best stuff. Let's get into it. One of my favorite
questions to ask a girl or ask anyone when you're talking to her is you say
"What's that like?" This is a question that you ask coming off of what
someone is already saying. For example you're talking to a girl and
she's like oh I'm a nurse over at so-and-so hospital and you're like
oh you're nurse what's that like? Here's the best part, no one's ever going to be like
that's a weird question. What's that like? What do you mean what's that like?
That is going to get them interested because they now get to go
deep and tell you what something is like and it's probably something that they
are happy about. The fact that it's their job or what they're doing or a
vacation they went on or a meal that they had that they really like. You're
just asking what's that like? Yes, I know the person could hate
their job and you're like what's that like and that gets them into
a negative mindset. But for now that's continuing conversation,
that's fine then you can go back into some more positive
type of conversation. But the goal here with this by saying what's that like is
to get them to explain something to you. In previous videos, I have talked
about the concept of making sure that you're talking at least equal to her or
a little bit more so saying this might get her talking for a while so make sure
that if you say what's that like and she's telling you something or telling a
story or explaining what something is like or why she likes it or doesn't like
it, that you eventually inject yourself into the conversation so you can start
getting some material in there too and making statements and asking even more
questions and getting your voice into the conversation so that she gets to
know you. Just be very careful of that because this conversation, this question
is that powerful where they can just be talking forever. Make sure you inject
yourself into the convo. Here's another question; I really like this one because
everyone has an answer to it. Everyone does. No one says I have no idea.
Everyone has an answer. You don't have to think about it. Here it is, you say if
you could eat dinner with anyone dead or alive, who would it be? Now let me
give you some context. I know I'm just rattling off some questions and you're
like Tripp when do I say this? You can say this anytime.
Obviously if you're in the middle of a deep
conversation and you just say that question when you guys are already
talking about something else. That's a little weird so you might say it when
conversation is lulling a little bit, kind of dying down or a topic has been
talked about a lot and you want to change topics a little bit, just ask that.
Say I was thinking about this the other day. You could say hey I learned
this somewhere. I watch a YouTube video where someone asked this question that I
thought was really cool. Let me ask you, if you could eat dinner with someone
anyone dead or alive who would it be? Why this is a good question is
because they're going to answer and then you can talk about that. Plus they're
going to ask you and if they don't ask you, you can just tell them. Say you know
who I would eat dinner with? I would eat dinner with so-and-so.
I would eat dinner with Tripp from trippadvice.com. This is really
good material. I'm trying to give you questions that will make a conversation
flourish and go on for a long time. Let me give you some more. I wrote them
down in my phone here. The next one is what would be your one superpower?
If you're like hey if you can have any one superpower what would it be?
Now here's the thing; you don't want to ask a bunch of these types of opinion
questions because then it seems like weird interview. Just use this every
once in a while. Use these every once in a while but that's a really good one.
If you had one superpower what would it be and then you can talk more about that.
Here's another one; what would be the absolute best day for you? I love this
question. Here's why and here why this is so powerful. Because this is getting her
into a positive happy mindset. If you are giving her and flooding her with
happy emotions and she's having those emotions around you, then she's going to
feel happy around you and that can add to building attraction with her.
You ask her that question and she talks about her day and
what a perfect day would be like. It gets her all happy, gets her all excited
and that gets her really excited to be talking about it with you. A common
problem here is do you let her talk about it for so long
and you're outside of the conversation, she won't be able to get to know you.
So make sure that you have an answer as well. Try that out and see if it
works for you. I want to know if you have any other good questions. Let's share
this, this is a community, we're all here together, all working on this together.
What questions do you like? I know we got a bunch of jokers saying some dumb
questions but let's be serious here. What are some questions that you like to ask
that have worked very well? Write them down in the comments below and don't
forget to check out in the description all the other questions that you could
ask from my other various videos and don't forget to check out my Hooked program.
If you want to take this whole concept deeper into building attraction with the
woman and building tension with her so she gets hooked on you, check out
www.getherhooked.com. I'll put that in the description below. I'll see you on the next video.