1.
Visualization
Visualization is crucial when setting your goals because it primes your mind to think
and act more like the thing you want to become.
For example, if you visualize yourself being more masculine and tell yourself that you’re
gonna be more masculine, you’ll subconsciously start to act more masculine.
This is an important part of actually becoming more masculine because over time your mind
will begin to train itself and act the way you want it to.
It’s sort of like faking it until you make it, if you constantly tell yourself and visualize
yourself being more masculine, then you’ll slowly start to become more masculine.
It’s the same concept as mind over matter, and it actually works really well because
whenever you’re trying to change something about yourself, it needs to start with a shift
in your mental attitude, and visualizing that shift makes everything else follow naturally.
2.
Confidence & Assertiveness
I’ve made so many videos on confidence in the past so I’m gonna link them on screen
now and I’ll be brief.
Being confident is the hallmark of masculinity because when have you ever seen a really manly,
badass dude be super unconfident, shy, and all scared?
Never.
So you should never be shy, unconfident, and nervous around people during social interactions
either.
Being assertive stems from solid confidence so if you’re not confident then there’s
no way you’re gonna be assertive either.
If you wanna be more masculine then be assertive, be direct, get to the point, and don’t bullshit
or tip-toe around your feelings.
Say how you feel, and mean what you say and that will immediately command A LOT of respect
from the people around you and make you more masculine.
Being assertive and direct is SO MUCH more effective in social situations because this
way you don’t have to waste time pretending or being fake about how you feel and you’ll
be able to get what you want more often.
This is especially a good way of appearing more attractive to girls because when you’re
decisive and assertive, it shows that you don’t put them on a pedestal and suck up
to them like most guys do and that will help separate you from the rest.
Don't be one of those nervous dweebs who only says what he thinks other people want him
to say.
Say what YOU want to say.
Do what YOU want to do.
3.
Style
Avoid really bright, loud clothes.
If you’re going out of your way to wear super loud and obnoxiously bright colors like
neon green or neon yellow then trust me, you will not appear masculine at all.
You’ll just appear like a douche and end up looking like a crossing guard.
And unless you’re conducting traffic, you don’t wanna be dressed in bright ass neon
colors.
Brighter colors should be saved for subtle shit like ties, socks, and shit like that
because otherwise they seem like you’re trying too hard and a masculine dude doesn’t
try hard, he’s manly without even having to try.
The obvious color to go with when going for a really manly style is black but you can
also go for darker more muted colors like gray, navy blue, tan, dark brown, etc.
You can also go for typical clothing that you would think of as more masculine like
a leather jacket, boots, and so on.
Just make sure you get the stylish and modern versions otherwise you run the risk of looking
like you're coming off the set of Sons of Anarchy.
In addition, you should go for a sleek belt with a subtle buckle, to match your outfits.
For example, if you’re wearing black boots you should wear a black belt and if you’re
wearing brown boots then you should be rocking a brown belt and so on.
The belts I’ve been wearing lately are from our sponsor Anson Belts because their belts
are easily interchangeable with all their buckles and make it super convenient to match
my belts and buckles with my badass outfits.
Anson belts are one-of-a-kind because they’re a micro-adjustable, hole-less belt instead
of having 5 holes like most traditional belts.
There are NO HOLES in an Anson Belt, but rather a tiny track system sewn into the back of
the strap so you can adjust it 30+ ways and always have the perfect fit on your waist
without having to deal with making new holes and shit like that.
Because of this your belt will stay preserved and looking dope for a really long time, since
there are no holes to create that nasty belt crease that makes your belt look all worn
out and like a limp penis.
Yeah you know what I’m talking about, this is especially true if you’ve gained or lost
weight because then you’re forced to change which hole you use and the crease from the
old hole becomes visible.
Fuck that, with Anson belts, all their buckles and straps are interchangeable so you can
have a ton of different masculine looks to match all your buckles with.
For example with their 3 straps and 2 buckle box, you get 3 straps and 2 buckles, and can
make 6 different complete belt looks whereas if you bought regular belts, you’d have
to buy 6 different belts and pay WAY more.
It’s like those permutation problems you hate doing in math class, except this time
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4.
Body language
Manly body language starts with the basics like standing straight up with your chest
forward and having your shoulders rolled back.
But it also includes shit like leaning up against something to take up more space and
appearing more dominant, walking with purpose with your head up, making eye contact with
people, and not shying away from being close to other people.
This is probably one of the more important tips since the nonverbal cues you send to
people have a HUGE impact on how they perceive you, and if you have all the badass masculine
body language down, you’ll be perceived as way more masculine before even saying anything.
5.
Work out
Nothing is more masculine than being in dope shape and being physically strong.
When trying to pack on more muscle and look more muscular/aesthetic, the main muscle groups
you want to focus on are your upper back, upper chest, and shoulders because they’ll
make you appear bigger and give you that greek god physique.
I’ve done workout videos in the past before that you guys really liked so I’ll have
that linked here.
And that’s it.
Start trying out these tips, and drop a like on this video if they help you!
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