Hi my name is Niharika and thank you for clicking on this video. Today we are gonna learn some
ways that would help you to look approachable, because it is important to look approachable
in order to talk effectively and this would help you to interact with people in much better
way. Well, at times these social events or these business events can be really a drag.
Have you found yourself ever sitting in a corner and just wondering that, Oh my god.
All people are mingling with each other and you are alone sitting in the corner and wondering,
Why people are not coming up to you and talking to you? Well, I'm sure there are certain wrong
signals that you are giving, so today we will share some tips that would help you to look
approachable.
The first trick to look approachable is to smile and talk to people. Well, a warm smile
or a very inviting smile would definitely help anyone to ease, so it is important for
you, if you catch someone's eye give a very nice warm smile. Of course don't over do it.
But a simple smile or a simple hello would definitely help. But if you just stare or
glare at a person or you know try to show that you are busy with your phone or you just
start reading a newspaper that would really not help, because people would interpret that
you are full of yourself or you are a completely anti social. So a simple hello or a inviting
warm smile would help you to look approachable.
Second trick for you to look more approachable is networking. Well, definitely networking
helps because you start getting recognized once you start going to social events or business
events on regular basis. What you can do is you can establish your connections by meeting
new people and asking for their Facebook Id's or their Email addresses or even exchange
their phone numbers, so this would help you to stay connected or another thing that you
can do is ask you friends to introduce you to them or to the new friends. This way you
will bring up a new social circle and that would help you to interact with people in
a more confident manner.
The third key to look approachable is, Dress the part. Well, It is important for you to
dress appropriately, because if you are dressed well and you are looking good, you also look
confident and this would definitely make people to come and approach you, so it is important
for you to have an appropriate attire. If you are going for a formal meeting or for
a formal event make sure your'e formally dressed and of course, if you are going for a party
make sure your'e dressed well. Also another thing is to be well groomed. Make sure your
grooming should be on daily basis. You should have your nails manicured, your hair should
be perfect and this would make you look good and confident.
The forth trick to look more approachable is to improve yourself. Now what does that
mean? Well, to improve yourself means you need to expand your horizon. Now how would
you do that? Well, what you can do is you can take up yoga or you can join a gym or
you can join some different classes like you can maybe join some art class or some something,
where you can learn something new and you can end up meeting so many people, who belong
to different sections of the society. So this would help you to start interacting with people
and you would be more confident because you would get back in your shape too.
The fifth one is, To execute confidence. Now what here I mean is that you need to believe
in yourself. You need to believe that you are confident and of course, self worth that
would definitely attract people to come and talk to you to approach you. Stay positive
and stay humble. You need not portray over confidence, because that would be one negative
aspect. Make sure you do not show your nervousness. Stop touching your face while talking to someone
or playing around with your hair or if someone is trying to eye catch you stop fiddling around
with your phone. These are the signs that you are not interested. So make sure that
you show your confidence and you believe in yourself and this would definitely attract
people towards you.
This brings me to the end of this lesson. Hope these tips are helpful to you and you
would come out as a more confident and approachable person.
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