In this video, we are going to talk about how to tell if your ex misses you or not.
But first, my name is Clay with ModernLove.Life, where we help you get the great loving relationship
that you're looking for without having to play mind games, without having to play hard
to get, and without having to pretend to be someone or something that you're not because
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the Ex Solution Program. It is linked down in the description box below this video. It
covers the entire range of how to connect with your ex on an emotional level to create
that channel of emotional bonding between the two of you and really create a possibility
for the two of you to create a new, better, stronger relationship together.
It's been around for years and years and years. You can learn more about it down in the description
box. A lot of people had great success with it. Anyway, let's go ahead and talk about
how to tell if your ex misses you or not. First things first, if they are making plans
about the future and you happen to occupy some sort of space in that plan, then it shows
that they are kind of like thinking about you and wanting to spend more time with you
and wanting to include you in the future. And I mean, this can really easily be explored
when they're making concrete plans with you, but it can also kind of be roughly explored
if it's just sort of whimsical sort of daydreaming kind of plans. And this is really true, especially
right now. I mean, I'm recording this video in the middle
of the situation that happened in springtime of 2020, if you know what I mean, put a link
up there. And so there's not a lot of people who are really making solid plans about the
future because we don't know what's going to be in the future. But still, we can make
these sort of daydreams of like, "Yeah, when this is all over, it'd be great if we could
take a trip to the coast and play on the beach," or "When this is over, we should like totally
go to this music festival," or whatever it might be. Or, "We should totally go on a road
trip across the country." And even if these are just sort of whimsical daydreams, you
can kind of tell if your ex is thinking about these sorts of things with you.
Of course, if they're concrete things like, "Yeah, let's totally do this.," then that
is, of course, a clear sign that they are trying to steer the two of you towards doing
things in the future. Also they might probe about your dating life or your relationship
situation. They might, if they're missing you, they might try and find out if you're
dating someone, if you are interested in someone, if you're seeing someone. They just kind of
want to know what's on with you so that they can know like, "Okay, is it okay for me to
kind of open up and to really allow myself to miss you, to allow myself to want to be
near you, to allow myself to explore what's possible between the two of us?"
They may also, on the flip side of that coin, they may also make it clear that they are
available, that they are interested in spending time with you, they're interested in you romantically
even. I've definitely seen that before, but usually people don't come to be when things
is that clear, but I've definitely heard people say that like, "Yeah, my ex is making it really
clear that they're interested in me romantically." So that's obviously an indication that they
miss you. Also, they may stay in contact with you for, let's just say non-practical reasons.
Now, obviously, if they're staying in contact with you for practical reasons, that's one
thing. If you somehow share some sort of obligation together, whether that is children that you
have together or whether that is trying to tie up the loose ends on the apartment that
you had or on your phone bill that you had or something like that, obviously that is
one entirely different situation. But if they're staying in contact with you
for non-practical reasons which is like, "Yeah, I just wanted to talk and see what's going
on." Or, "I just saw this thing. It reminded me of you or something," that shows that they
are trying to create a connection between the two of you, especially when it's not necessary
for it to be there. And they're creating that connection because they value it. They value
having you in their life and they want to have more of you in their life. That's why
they're missing you. Right? So keep an eye out for that. Keep an eye out for that sort
of situation. Another thing that they might do if they miss
you is they might interact with you for longer than they need to. Now that's kind of building
off of that last one, but if they're staying in contact with you for non-practical reasons,
cool. But even if they're staying in contact with you for practical reasons, but they're
kind of drawing out that interaction for longer than like, "Oh, hey, how much do I owe you
for the bill? Okay, here it is. I'll send it to you on PayPal," or whatever, but they're
drawing it out and they're like, "Oh, by the way, like how have you been handling things?"
Or, "What's new with you?" Or, "Did you see that thing that was on the news?" Or things
like that. They're kind of stretching it out for longer. They're kind of lingering a little
bit more, then that shows that they miss you, that they're, kind of hoping that something
kind of builds from it. They're at least they're enjoying the interaction
that's happening right there. And that they'd like to keep it moving forward because there's
obviously something valuable in it. Something that they are experiencing in it that is valuable
to them, that's uplifting to them that is enjoyable to them. And so as long as that's
enjoyable to you as well to then, hey, by all means, go ahead and explore what is possible
in that interaction. And also they may talk about your time together
in a positive way. Now obviously the two of you broke up for whatever the reason may be.
And every relationship has their own challenges and all that stuff. But if they're able to
kind of look back at the time that you had together and admit that like, "Yeah, there
were some good times. Yeah. That was a fun thing that we did. Yeah, I'm really... I remember
that time when we were on the trip and there was that interesting person that just sort
of stumbled in and started talking to us," or whatever it might be, that shows that they're
kind of missing the time that the two of you had together. They're looking at it in a positive
way. They're seeing it in a positive light and they are kind of missing that closeness
that the two of you shared. That comradery, that bonding, that shared experience, that
the two of you had. And it just shows that there is still something there between the
two of you. Now, obviously there are a lot of unknowns
in this whole situation. We were just kind of talking about a few potential things in
this video. And I don't know your specific situation unless we've spoken personally or
anything like that. But if you're seeing the things that we're talking about in this video,
there's probably something going on there. And if you kind of nurture it and take it
to the next level, you can really strengthen that little something. Whether it's a faint
little wispy gossamer thread, or whether it's something quite robust, you can strengthen
it by focusing in on that emotional connection. And as long as you focus on that emotional
connection and keep the emotional channels clear by clearing out any hurt emotions or
anything that could be standing in the way between the two of you and go focus on bonding,
focusing on deepening the connection and focusing on taking things where they need to go so
that you and your ex can have a stronger emotional connection, then that is really the key to
getting back together. And that is what we talk about inside of our
course called the Ex Solution Program. It's really about keeping that emotional connection
strong, strengthening it up and helping you to navigate your ex's emotional world. If
I had to look at three main things that it covers, it's like, number one, I'm understanding
what's going on with your ex. We have the whole five stages that your ex goes through,
got a link to it up there, if you're new to it. But we go into it in a lot of detail.
We also talk about advanced relational skills, which helped to create that emotional connection.
And then of course, we also help you to navigate practical things like, "Okay, what do you
text them? When do you say, and what do you do if they're in a rebound relationship?"
All that sort of stuff. But anyway, once again, that is all down in
the description box below this video. But with that being said, just wanted to say,
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want to learn more signs that your ex maybe wants you back, or doesn't want you back,
you can check out this video series over here. It goes into many of those signs, or you might
want to check out this video over here as well too. But thank you so much. I hope you're
staying safe. Hope you're doing well. And I'll talk to you next time. Please take care.