Hey there, Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence.com where I help the 21st century woman create
a love life that she absolutely loves.
And in this video right now I'm going be talking about how it is that men fall in love and
what are the 5 steps to capturing his heart.
Keep watching.
Finding your way to a man's heart is kind of like solving a Law and Order crime.
You need to follow the clues each step of the way in order to make it happen.
The only difference is that you're looking for love, not murder.
So I'm gonna show you the map to a man's heart and this map includes the 5 stages men go
through as they fall in love.
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Listen, it's true.
Men are very visual creatures.
We fall for a woman initially just based on physical attraction.
When we first see that person, if that physical attraction Isn't there it's unlikely that
we're going to pursue that woman.
Now, this doesn't...
I cannot emphasize this enough.
It doesn't mean you have to be perfect looking in any way, shape, or form, I promise you.
And I've coached a lot of men over the years.
No matter what you look like, there are guys who will be attracted to you and your type.
So that's the first stage.
If he's physically into you, then you can move on to the next stage: chemistry.
Does the conversation flow?
I mean, do you have things in common?
Does it feel like you can just talk for hours and hours?
Do you have a similar sense of humor?
Do you just have great banter?
I mean, are you likeable?
Is he likeable?
Are you guys playful?
Do you have an intellectual curiosity with one another?
These are the types of things that make up chemistry, and these things really matter.
Now, the good news is that you can really improve your chemistry to men through not
only just your body language, of course, the things that are coming out of your mouth,
the things that you're saying, but also, of course, your body language.
Make sure you're smiling, be open, be animated as you're talking, make sure you have that
great posture.
Most importantly, have a great attitude.
Men love women who have incredibly positive, great attitude and vibe.
And, I assure you, you can really start bonding with men and creating that great chemistry
you really want.
So now that he's physically attracted to you and he likes you, this brings me to stage
3: the trust phase.
So, like, I was walking the other day and I was walking down the street and, like, Colin
was there and...
Hm, I wonder if she's a hoebag.
Now, believe it or not, us men, we have feelings too.
And if we're gonna get emotionally involved with a woman, we want to know that we can
really trust you.
So now he's attracted to you, you have great chemistry, and he trusts you.
On to the fourth stage: long-term compatibility.
Do you share the same values?
Will this relationship logistically work?
I mean, do you guys live near each other?
Do you want to live in the same places?
Do you want the same things out of life whether it's children, where you want to live, and
the things that you wanna achieve in your life?
Now, you don't necessarily have to have like, of course, the same hobbies and interests.
Those things aren't necessary.
But you do need to share the same basic values of how you live your life and what it is that
you want out of life.
Otherwise there's just going to be way too much friction between the two of you.
So now let's say that you pass all of these stages of love, you get to the final stage:
the comfort stage.
This is when you finally meet the real person you've been dating.
Hello, Adam.
What the f***?!
No, not like that.
In all seriousness, you end up becoming just really comfortable with the type of person
they are and as you get to know that person you really become best friends, ideally.
You become best friends, right?
You always wanna spend time with that person and that person ends up supporting you and
wants to make you happy and works hard every single day to make you happy.
And once you reach the comfort stage, you know, that's when the love becomes very real
and very awesome.
So if you're ready to start getting out there again, finding that love, and being able to
build more attraction with men, when you do go out there and meet men, then make sure
you head on over to SexyConfidence.com.
You can click on this link right here, yup, right here.
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you through a proven process to build confidence to find that relationship you really want.
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