So you have a girl you’re into, maybe you’ve been talking a bit but you’re not quite
at the stage where you’re comfortable with her and got it in the bag… but you know
one thing for certain.
You don’t want to fuck things up.
In this video, I’m gonna show you the 4 things you should NEVER and I mean NEVER say
to a girl because if you do, your chances with her are as good as dead.
If any of these things come out of your mouth, they’re a one way ticket to Tier 1 simphood,
and the most action you get will be complaining on reddit to other neckbeards about girls
not liking you.
#1 Don’t lie to her
This probably sounds a little strange coming from a playboy like me, most guys think every
good ladies man lies to all of his mistresses, but that’s a rookie mistake.
Here’s why - When you lie to a woman she loses respect for you.
And if a woman doesn’t respect you, she won’t date you, she won’t stay with you
long-term, and she’ll look for reasons to leave you.
Women are only attracted to men they respect.
You ever see a girl gush over a dude she doesn’t respect?
Yeah, me either.
And that’s just the practical side of things - if you’re lying often you should Ask yourself,
why would you want to lie to your partner?
If you can’t even be honest and tell the truth to the person you’re dating or want
to date then are they really the right person for you?
Are you doing things you’re ashamed of?
I’ve dated women and told them I’m dating and even sleeping with other women before
and been totally 100% honest about it.
Did the women I’m dating like it?
No they didn’t like it, but they didn’t run away either because I was upfront, honest,
and we weren’t exclusive at the time.
By being truthful to them, their respect for me remained intact.
I didn’t beat around the bush, lie, or omit things to make me look better or hide what
I was doing.
A man who hides is a man who’s insecure in his actions and character.
Does insecure and floppy character sound attractive to you?
If a woman knows she can trust you, she knows that no matter what, at all times, no matter
how bad things are, she can always rely on you to tell her the truth.
That foundation of reliability and trust is everything in a healthy relationship.
It creates peace of mind because you never have to worry or do the mental stress of wondering
whether your partner is lying to you.
#2 Don’t overhype yourself
Most guys try to overhype themselves, their size, their bedroom skills and all types of
stuff and it really works out bad for a few reasons:
You create expectations, and once you set expectations for something it’s almost impossible
to live up to them….
The last thing you want is to disappoint her the first time you guys meet
It’s better to be mysterious and fun and let her find out how badass you are when the
time is right and WOW her with it then… the fact she doesn’t know what to expect
will make you that much better … that anticipation is the root of romantic tension
Every guy does this… they try to impress the girl and oversell themselves…. it just
makes you seem corny and like everybody else… she’s seen this trick played before time
and time again.
And even if you really are that great, 9 times out of 10 the girl just straight up won’t
believe you because she’s heard it all before from every guy that came before you… so
you’re really just wasting your breath.
And between you and me….
i know so many girls who’ve told me stories of guys who talked a big game just to finish
in like 10 seconds… it’s like jeez nice going bro…
Remember, you’re not at a job interview, Don’t tell the girl why you’re the right
fit… show her.
#3 Don’t be a circus clown
A lot of guys put on an act when they’re around women.
They think they have to act or be a certain way to keep the girl interested.
Understand this, my disciple.
You are not a fucking clown.
Your interactions are not a performance….
It’s not supposed to be “hey look at me, look at me, pay attention to me!”
A lot of guys take the idea of getting the girl interested and ‘impressing her’ to
the extreme… and it results in them essentially becoming a clown and I mean that literally.
They begin to act like it’s their job to entertain her, keep her interest at all costs,
and every single action and thing they do revolves around keeping her attention focused
on you…
This screws a lot of guys over because then they make it their goal to entertain the girl
rather than build a genuine connection.
Remember, you want her to be interested in you romantically And you want to be screening
her throughout because you want to make sure she’s the right fit for you and the type
of girl you’re looking for.
#4 Don’t filter yourself
If you’re not willing to lose the girl, you won’t be able to do what’s necessary
to win with her either.
You want to be polarizing and unafraid of saying the wrong thing.
Guys overthink and get stuck in their head because they’re overanalyzing every little
thing they want to say.
Duuuudde remember, dating is supposed to be fun, NOT more stress.
You want a girl you can have fun with, not a girl who feels like a chore to be around.
Don’t be so afraid of not being the right fit for some girls.
Trying to fit in and be like everyone else, results in you doing just that… being like
everyone else… and that’s the problem.
When you speak your mind you might make the girl uncomfortable at first, but it’s really
just her being thrown off at your candidness, most often the girl will readjust once the
shock effect of what you said wears off and she knows what to expect from you
Disclaimer: this doesn’t mean to be intentionally shocking or polarizing or try to be flashy..
It just means just say how you feel and what comes to mind… too much time in your head
filtering yourself on what you THINK she wants to hear will pull you out of the convo and
make you miss opportunities
In the modern era, if you want to communicate that you’re a high-value man, the fastest
and most effective way to do so is with your instagram profile.
It does a lot of the talking for you AND it can get multiple girls interested in you without
you having to lift a finger because the profile does 90% of the work… sweet i know.
With your Instagram profile alone, you can convey TONS of social value to the girl before
you even meet her in person.
Just by posting a specific set of stories, captions, and photos, you can trigger intense
attraction and familiarity with the women who come across your profile.
You’ll have them dying to meet you.
I call this, “The Influencer Effect”.
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and turning your Instagram profile into the BEST dating app in the world.
Your profile builds a high-status idea of you in her head, so all you have to do is
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Inside, Benjamin and I show you copy/paste templates for you to write captivating captions
that make women melt, post stories that make women reply and ask you to hangout, and the
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It even comes with a facebook coaching group with hundreds of guys giving each other real-time
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And yes, Benjamin and I are in there daily giving advice and helping you guys crush it
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We’re living in 2020 now bro.
The most attractive girls aren’t wasting time on Tinder..
They’re on Instagram.
It’s time you start dating them.
Zeus out.