My question is, I met this girl and I got her number and not responding back to my text.
I don't get that.
It means that she's not interested.
She’s not interested?
Yeah.
Pretty simple.
Unfortunately.
That's what I was talking about a second ago, behaviors.
If she's not texting you back, she's not willing to meet up with you.
She's not interested.
There's nothing you can really text here that's going to make her more interested.
You have to go back and figure out maybe something you did.
Even then that might be a waste of time.
I would just throw it out of your mind.
Focus on the next girl.
She was sitting outside and I saw her.
I walked up to her and I started talking to her.
She’s asking me questions.
I was asking her questions.
It was a great conversation.
I said to her, you should let me get your number.
I gave her my phone and she put her number in there.
Then I waited like three days.
I texted her and she didn’t reply.
What did you text her?
I said, this is me texting you because I know you didn't get my number so it’s me texting
you my number.
That's all I said to her.
Did you put your name in there?
Does she even know who it was?
Yeah, I did.
I said, it's Michael from Collins.
She did text me the one time.
This is what she said.
She said that, obviously got a lot going on right now.
I'm not looking to get anything out of anybody.
There you go.
That was it right there.
That's her saying that she's not interested in you.
That's her communicating to you that she's not interested.
But it's okay man, don't worry about it.
That's one girl.
I want you to take the momentum of you being able to even go up and approach that girl.
Take that.
Let's take that energy.
Let's use that for more approaches.
Let's take that and go out and approach more girls.
It's going to be a little bit of a numbers game.
You just won't run into.
You won't get a number from every girl you run into.
Why don't we take that and use that as momentum for other women?
Let's not get upset about this one.
It didn't work out.
She wasn't interested.
It seemed like she was.
Here's what happens.
Probably happened to you . Guys get really excited.
They've convinced themselves sometimes that the girls interested in them.
Why?
Because she was laughing during the conversation, you got her number, then she responded so
it gets you so worked up.
It makes you more invested in her because she's showing this interest in you.
But all of a sudden when you get a text like that, or you text her again, or you text her
to ask her out and she just rejects it all.
What ends up happening is, this is where guys chase because they've convinced themselves,
but wait a minute, she did this.
She showed this one sign.
She liked the conversation.
She gave me her number.
There's got to be something I can do.
No, he never had her in the first place.
You got to understand that.
Don't assume the girls attracted until you're sitting across from her
on a date, or she's over at your place or whatever.
You're in a date context.
Even then I wouldn't assume, I actually wouldn't assume a girl's interested in you until you
guys kissed.
I would even maybe as go as far as say, she's not even that interested in you unless you
guys are doing something sexual.
I'm taking it that far because we're trying to avoid friend zone here.
When does a girl really interested in you?
That's probably when she's crossing the sexual barrier, something of kissing or more.
That's my thoughts, but what do you think?