Welcome to another Reddit Relationships video.
This story is called.
My wife of nine years, got caught cheating by my friend at his bar.
Well, here I am to share my story.
My wife got caught cheating by my good friend who is a bar owner, him and I
have been friends for almost 20 years.
We were a military buddies.
We just happened to be from the same hometown.
I couldn't believe it, when he told me
. We have been married for nine years, I was never the jealous type or stopped
her from going out with her girlfriends.
I was always taught that you should always have friends you can hang out with.
I was told it was a healthy balance.
Well, whatever that means.
We both work and we make decent money.
We were in the process of looking for a house, but I decided not to do that, once
I found out about my wife's infidelity.
It was a Tuesday night.
My wife always goes out with their friends on a Tuesday night.
I was told it was ladies night.
Her and her friends always did that, as long as I can remember.
They went to my friend's bar, he used to spoil my wife and her friends with
drinks, but he made sure to cut them off when they had too much to drink.
Well, Tuesday started like any other day.
We both must be at work by 9:00 AM.
She gets up a little earlier than I do, get's ready and takes off.
Before she leaves, she tells me she loves me and will see me this evening.
She gets off at 5:30 PM and I get off at 6:00 PM.
So she gets home a little before I do, I get off work, drive home and
we eat dinner and she starts to get ready to go out with her friends.
We are chatting back and forth before she takes off.
Now keep in mind.
I have never ever suspected a thing, never.
At about 8:00 PM, she leaves to go out to my friend's bar, which is
about 15 minutes from where we live.
She kisses me and says she will be back by midnight, which he has always done.
Sometimes a few minutes past midnight, sometimes a few minutes
before midnight, a few hours pass.
I keep myself busy and call a few of my friends.
We chat on the phone for a bit, talk about sports and such.
Well, fast forward to midnight.
I am still up sitting on the couch watching TV, 12:30 rolls around, and
I am thinking, Hmmm, she is usually home by now, but, I dozed off, but
I am startled by knock at the door.
It's 2:44 AM.
Now, I am a little worried because my wife isn't home.
I make my way to the door.
I opened the door, and I am startled.
It's my friend.
I immediately say, where is Donna?
Which is my wife.
He hesitates, and says, I need to tell you something.
I said, is she okay?
He says, oh yes, she is fine.
He said, we should sit down.
He comes right out and says it.
He says, he caught my wife having sex with a guy in the bathroom.
I said what?
He says, he was closing the bar, cleaning, putting things away.
And he said, he honestly thought everyone had left.
His other bartender had already left.
So he stayed back to do some last minute cleaning.
He said he made his way back to the bathrooms to clean them.
And, when he opened the woman's bathroom door, that's when he
saw my wife having sex with some man, he has never seen before.
He said, he froze.
And so did they.
He said the only thing my wife said was, "OH SHIT", I was
stunned at what I was hearing.
Couldn't believe it.
He says, I am sorry to have to tell you, but I would want
you to tell me right away.
I told him, thank you.
At that moment, my wife walks through the door.
She starts crying and I told her, I don't think it's a good idea you
stay here for the next few days.
She stares at me for a second, then proceeds to the
bedroom to get a few things.
She then comes out of the bedroom and asks, can we talk?
I said, I don't have anything to say to you.
Just get out.
She starts crying a lot more then.
After she leaves, my friend says he must get back to the bar and finish cleaning.
He said he came straight here when he caught them.
I said, okay.
And thanked him.
I couldn't sleep after that.
So, when 9:00 AM rolled around, I called my boss and told him that
I needed a couple of days off.
It was an emergency.
He asked, if everything was okay.
I said NO, it wasn't.
I just need a couple of days to take care of this issue.
He says, okay.
He then says, if you need anything, just let me know.
My next step was to call the real estate agent and cancel the housing
tours we had scheduled for today.
I called an attorney and scheduled a time to come in and talk to him.
He actually said I can come in today.
At about 3:00 PM, I went and spoke with the attorney.
I laid everything on the table.
He asked why I was considering divorce.
I told him that my good friend who owns a bar, caught my wife having
sex in the bathroom with another man.
You should have seen his eyes.
He laid down some very interesting facts.
He says, here in Washington DC, you have to be separated for six months
before you can divorce and be a resident of DC for at least six months
before we can file the paperwork.
So now I can't file for divorce for at least another six months
and be separated from her.
So the fact that my friend caught my wife cheating, doesn't mean I can
erase her from my life right away.
Well, I am back to the drawing board.
I will be back with an update.
I have to figure out what to do as far as the living arrangements.
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