Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video, I want to go over
7 amazing questions to ask on a date. That is right. 7 great questions.
Here's the thing, if you're watching this just so you know these are questions
that you can ask even when you're not on a date. Meaning, when you first talk to a
girl, when you first approach her and you guys are in conversation, you could also
use these. These are 7 great questions that you can use all around.
But I like the idea of being able to use these on a date because it makes it a
little bit more interesting and it makes you guys connect faster. However you
want to use it, that's fine. But let's go over these right now so you know what
they are and exactly how to use them. The first question is why is your best
friend your best friend? Why is this such a great question? That's what I'm going
to answer right now. This is a great question because first of all, this puts
them in a very positive mindset which means that they're thinking about all
the awesome things of the friendship when that happens. One of the closest
people that they know and also it gets them thinking. This is a question
that gets someone thinking. It's not something that you just come up with on
the spot. You really got to think about it. So it's a really good question
because most people aren't thinking about why someone that they're close to
is someone that's important to them and also what's really cool here is you
really get to know someone. You understand what they value in friendship
and a girl who gets asked this question is going to love it because she's going
to see that you care about some of the more deeper things. So ask this
question, ask her why her best friend is her best friend. By the way, I
should add with all these questions, you better have an answer too because you
better believe because these are such great questions, she will be asking them
back to you. Here's the next one, what's one thing your mom or dad taught you
that you use to this day? This is really cool I think this is just
interesting in general, having nothing to do with even just getting her
interested in what's going on. I think it's an interesting question. I would
want to know. I like hearing about life lessons. I like learning about what
people are using everyday to make their lives better. It's really cool to just
ask this because you're going to get a cool answer or hopefully and also you're
going to get to know her better. Of course, this
this goes without saying, all these questions are going to get to know the
girl better. This is such a great question because they're going to be
thinking again about more positive stuff about some of the things that they use
every day and it's going to get them thinking on that positive level of
what is it that they use everyday that's helping them in their life? Now this one
goes in a little bit of a different direction. It's a little of
a deeper question because it actually might get the girl a little bit upset.
She might be thinking yeah I wish that my parents taught me this, I wish
there was something that they showed me in this arena. This is still a really
great question. The reason is because it's going to bring out more
vulnerability and when you can get people on a vulnerable level when you
talk to them and they're a little bit vulnerable, when you're a little bit
vulnerable, it offers for a greater connection. This is getting past
all that small talk so you know they might say something here like I wish
they taught me to work my finances better, I wish that they taught
me a little bit more about money when I was growing up. This is
something that they're going to be saying to you and so it shows an area
maybe where they struggled a little bit or where it was tough in their life
something that had to overcome so what's also cool is they might even say
something that they're able to overcome that they ended up teaching themselves.
Again, vulnerability lends itself to more connection here. Here's another one and
it's going to be dependent on whether or not a girl is wearing a unique or
specific type of jewelry. What you can say is you can point to that
maybe it's earrings, maybe it's a bracelet, maybe it's a necklace, maybe it's
just something that sticks out that's really interesting and you point to it and
you say hey what's the story behind that? Because what's cool is usually there's
some sort of story. Why she picked it up, maybe she got it somewhere,
maybe it was a gift and then you can learn more about it. It gets her
talking a little bit more about some of the things in her life and gives her an
opportunity to be able to tell a story and offers this opportunity in
conversation to not be thinking about anything else that's going on around
you two. It really sucks you in a conversation when you can get the girl
to tell you a story also as well as you telling her a story. Stories offer
being able to really just focusing in on that. Imagine if you're in a movie
theater, if the movie is really good you're not thinking
about the fact that you're in the theater. You're just focused on the movie itself
and you're sucked in. So get her to tell a story and get her to do it in a way
that's about something that she's wearing. Here's a cool one and you're
going to get a lot of fun and interesting answers here.
You ask her what's been your highest high? Meaning, what is a point in her life
where things were just amazing, or a point in her life where it was just so
awesome that you couldn't even handle it. It was just so good, like what was a
point in her life that was so good and again this is drawing back to what I was
saying before. Bringing her to a positive emotion, a positive state, getting her
thinking about that time which is going to bring back some of the same emotions
that she had at that time. This is really cool, very psychological stuff
here. You're asking her what is her highest high and this is going to get
some really cool answers and you can play off of that and this can be really
great to get conversation flowing so if you're having a hard time continuing
conversation how easy is it going to be when she says something that was really
interesting or her highest high a moment in her life that was so awesome well
then you can work off of what she's saying to tell your highest high or say
something regarding what she's saying and bring it on multiple different
tangents to get conversation going instead of just being you know a very
plain and boring small talk kind of question. This offers a lot more. On the
other end, you can ask what's been your lowest low. You might be thinking,
Tripp whoa wait a minute, this is going to bring a lot of a negative
emotions, this is going to bring out some of that that bad icky
feeling because she's going to think about a time that wasn't good. That
is true but again, this is going to offer a little bit of a time to be more
vulnerable and for you guys to connect because she's going to say something
that's going to be pretty deep. She might not even be able to answer this question
because it's so deep, but here's the cool part about it, what you say to her and what
you ask her is after she tells you that you can say I'm actually more
curious about what was the struggle that you went through and how
did you overcome it? You're asking her not just about what was the
lowest low of your life, but how she overcame it. Because if she's sitting
there across from you at the table, chances are she's not at her lowest low
chances are she's way past that. You ask her how did she overcome it and
that's going to make her feel really really good because she's going to say
you know what, in her mind she's going to say I got past that and I moved on
from it. That's really what you're asking here so the follow-up question is
going to be how did you overcome it, how did you get past that really difficult
time in your life? Here's another one and this is fun, this is
something that you could say literally right when you start the date.
It's almost kind of like a joke like you're almost saying it like you're
talking to your kids at the dinner table like okay kids what did you learn today
in school? But you don't want to sound like that, just look her in the eyes
and say to her what did you learn today? I'm just curious what's something that
you learned today and I'm really interested in knowing what people are
learning every day and what they're experiencing and some of the things that
they're trying to accomplish. So you asked her what did you learn today, what
is something that happened today that she learned? Maybe it was a mistake that
she overcame, maybe was something new that she learned from something on the
internet. It doesn't matter what it is, just ask her what did you learn today and
this is going to be a really good question because it's going to show her
that you really care about what's going on in her life and again this offers
more connection because you're showing her that you actually give a damn about
what's going on and you might learn something new today so that could be
cool. Remember, for all these questions you need to have an answer as
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go get it below this video, Write a comment down below this video with any
other questions that you think would be cool to ask on a date. Go ahead write a
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have helped and it make sense to you and I'll see you on the next video.