Uncle See, back in the office.
I'm in LA right now I'm taking a little vacation.
I don't usually do like blogging style stuff, but
I used to when I was younger but I don't anymore.
Just because I'm talking to the audience now I'm talking to men now making men better.
I got a question from a subscriber.
This is Casey, how do I find a girlfriend?
How do I get a girlfriend so I came up with a little plan of attack here I'm titling this
how to get a girlfriend in 30 days.
So if you if you and obviously, you know, I don't want to put time limits on things,
people like quick fixes.
They like quick results.
Yes, the 30 day part is a little bit for the headline.
Like how to get a girlfriend in 30 days.
That sounds attractive.
That sounds appealing.
People would want to click that.
Now.
Here's the thing.
30 days You can get a girl, it might not be the highest
quality of girl that you want because you're putting a time limit on yourself.
But here's the thing is in 30 days, by you applying these tactics by you applying these
measures by you applying these masculine principles to better yourself as a man, guess what's
going to happen, you're going to actually make leaps and bounds and strides in your
personal growth and in your dating life, which is why I'm actually coming out with this video.
Now, here's the thing.
What I've noticed is that men right now carry a lot of baggage to them.
A lot of terrible turmoil and emotional energy.
And where this is stemming from as this is stemming from a lot of things, this is stemming
from them being pissed off them being way too red pill aware.
And what I mean by that is they're so they've heard so many influencers, scream about how
pissed off that they are with women.
That what ends up happening is that they totally go off the deep end.
And eventually they start to get very down on themselves and they take this whole level
of masculine frame way too deeply.
And what happens is they become bitter and they become not very self aware and they're
no longer a happy, joyful man.
The first step, the first five to seven days, is starting to become more happy.
Okay, it's starting to become full of joy.
It's starting to become high on life.
Here's the one thing I hate about LA.
I walked into I got off the planet like I'm from North Dakota, North Dakota, I'm from
like a smaller town population is like 88,000, maybe 100,000.
Now if you combine the surrounding cities with it, and it's not like LA, I look in LA.
Every single person is sad.
I can see it in their face.
It's such a negative energy.
Everyone's operating at such a low vibration.
You can see everyone's glued to their fucking phone.
Nobody has very much self self.
Respect.
Everybody's tarnishing the body with marrow like every and the Uber drivers.
Hi, the freakin guy on the corners.
Hi, everyone smoking cigarettes, everyone's smoking weed.
Everyone's drinking alcohol, like they're all so terrible and miserable.
You can see it on their face.
You can see it when they walk.
They don't look at anybody.
They don't smile at anybody.
They don't say hi.
Like, they're not full of joy, which would let me know as a coach after doing this for
this long, they're probably not where they want to be in their sex life or in their dating
life.
The first five to seven days is you getting extremely happy.
But here's the thing, you can't just flip the switch and say now I'm happy.
It doesn't work like that.
The best way to change mood.
The best way to change emotion is to change action.
Which means you need to start doing more masculine things pick up heavy shit.
Go lift weights, go lift weights, because not only is that
the quickest way to release endorphins release very happy emotions, release things in your
head saying that, hey, it's time to get happy.
It's time to perform.
It's time to feel like a strong masculine man.
Like not only Does it do that, but what it also does is
as you build the body, you gain a different level of self respect.
So here's what's going to happen the first five to seven days, you're going to start
working out, I want you to start eating better.
I want you to cut out sugar.
I want you to cut out alcohol, I want you to stick to lean proteins and fats and good
green vegetables to really just feel really strong again.
Okay, and you're going to pair that with going to the gym now guess what changing action
changes mood.
Always remember that if you want to be in a better mood, you got to change your action.
When I've been with Brittany, when Brittany's pissed off
like you guys have seen Brittany and other videos.
Well, my girls pissed.
I don't try to say Oh baby, let's let's get happier.
It's okay.
You can lay with me you had a bad day.
No, I take a pillow.
And I smack her in the face with it like five times and I start having I start hitting her
with a pillow like hard and she starts laughing Why do you do that?
Guess what you change action.
You change action.
You can change mood, I bring her out of that state, when I can bring her out of that state,
I can get her to release a different emotion strictly by my action.
Okay, so you got to be an action taker.
Because when you're having a pillow fight with somebody, it's pretty hard to frown,
you get what I mean.
Here's the thing, the first five to seven days, you're going to the gym, you're building
a better man, you're changing action, you're going to start to change beliefs, you're going
to look in the mirror, you're going to have a little pump going, you're going to sit down,
oh, man, I'm starting to get happy, you release those endorphins in the head, you're happy.
Okay?
The next five to seven days, what you're going to do is you're going to grow massive balls.
And you're going to go against everything that the social norms and that the cultural
norms tells you the social norm and the cultural norm is going to tell you to hold snap streaks
with women, they're going to tell you to message them on Tinder, they're going to tell you
to message them on Instagram, they're going to tell you to slide into their DMS on Facebook.
All that's bullshit.
Because if you do that, essentially what you're going to have is you're going to have another
group of really just like you're going to have
Another group of really just like weak man, I stone them all like I've hit you with the
pillow and that changes your mood.
Yeah.
You get me now
You change your mood, you're going to grow massive balls.
Not only that, get this.
When you start to grow your massive balls, what you're going to do is you're going to
actually approach a woman.
Okay?
You're not going to do it from the internet because they got enough of those little internet
guys trying to always hit on them.
You're going to actually build a connection with a woman in person for a brief second.
Now, here's the thing humans are built for companionship.
Humans are built for intimacy.
I don't give a shit what pill color you subscribe to.
If you connect with a woman really, really well and you guys are having an amazing happy
time together.
I don't give a shit about your masculine frame.
Because while you're sitting there having a masculine frame for so long and I'm sitting
there flirting with her enjoying each other's company talking to her, I'm going to win and
you're going to lose.
And that's just the nature of the beast.
You have to actually start to have interactions.
Now here's the thing when she has a man come up to her.
That's joyful.
That seems happy.
That's excited to meet her.
Women don't get hit on, women don't get approach.
If a hot girl gets hit on once or twice a month.
Like and from a guy who doesn't watch rst.
That isn't a friggin pickup dude screaming at her like doing all this shit.
Just a normal guy.
Like you realize that like women just want a normal guy, a guy who's normal.
A guy who can talk normal, a guy who can connect with them normal.
She doesn't need a NBA player.
She just wants a man.
Just like you probably don't need a sports illustrated model.
You just want a woman.
Okay?
This isn't frickin rocket science.
The next five to 10 days there, five to seven days.
Put whatever time limit you want on it.
That's what you're going to do.
You're going to serve yourself.
Women, when you talk to women, they're going to start you're going to get one that likes
you, you're gonna get one that you connect really well with.
When you get one that you connect well with, well guess what you're going to do?
You're going to FaceTime or you're going to call her you're not going to text her.
Okay?
I want you guys to actually start getting used to speaking to women on the phone.
You can text her a couple things like hey, how's your day going?
Or you know, have some flirtatious vibe like, Is this like crazy chick, I'm at a Starbucks
or something, right?
You start to engage her emotion.
Eventually you're going to FaceTime or you're going to talk to her on the phone.
And that's you're going to say, I think you'd be chill if we met up.
Okay, you met up.
If she agrees to meet with you, you get the first date know the first date, you're going
to focus on and this is probably another you know, five to seven days later, you're going
to focus on masculine frame plus connection.
I don't want you guys to totally throw that out the boat, because I don't want you guys
showing up on these dates like soft little buttercups that are just screaming a million
miles an hour trying to talk to women, but you got to have a happy medium.
Okay, sit back chill, act like you've been there before the record.
I always make is Barry Sanders the NFL football star.
Okay, way back when he played decades ago, like when when most guys would score a touchdown
and they'd spike the football, they'd show off to the fans they cheer.
Like when barry sanders would score a touchdown, he would just hand it to the ref.
Why would he just hand the ball to the ref because he's been there before.
It's not a new experience for him scoring a fucking touchdown.
He just has Barry Sanders, and he's used to scoring touchdowns.
So you just got to be the dude that's used to talking to women.
Because then it looks like you've been there before.
It looks like you've done your homework.
It looks like you're not like this isn't your first rodeo.
Okay, so this is probably somewhere in the 15 to 20 day point.
If you guys have a good connection, what I want you to do is actually screen her for
how good the connection is.
If the connection is good.
You know, don't just say yes to the very first girl that you get an act like this is the
one what I want you to do is I want you to actually qualify them and see if this girl
aligns with your life.
Because if you can play this slightly interview style or like, Hey, I'm the employer.
You got to show up As an employee, I want to make sure you fit
the bill to fit this job opportunity.
Now you come at it from some sort of frame of dominance in the interaction.
And when you have that, what's going to happen is she's going to notice you're a guy who
has different credentials that she needs to be met on as a woman, you're screening her
for those, she's going to feel like she has to qualify herself to you, just as if you're
trying to apply for a job at Google or Apple or whatever the hell you want to compare it
to.
Okay, if that works out the next five to 10 days is when you guys can still actively see
each other.
And if you do that, you can build companionship, if you can build companionship, you can eventually
roll that into a relationship.
This can happen in the first 30 days, in my opinion, you're rushing it, like, but you
could do it.
Like there's guys that happened to relationships all the time.
There's women that happened to relationships all the time, trust me if she's a girl who
doesn't like have a lot of options besides a bunch of dudes on the computer screen.
She's gonna hundred percent jump into you.
She's gonna love it.
So here's the thing.
If you want to work with me, you guys know I do application based based coaching
this past 40 days I've signed up like 25 individuals into this.
We do group coaching we do Q and A's we get them into my online course I teach them exactly
what to do and how to interact with women.
So if you want that you're going to hit the link it below that says masculinity mastered
and book a call with me also at the end of this video I'm going to show you the recent
testimonial I just got by my my good friend Kevin.
So Kevin to cos is absolutely killing it with women will see you in the next one.
That's how you get a girlfriend in 30 days.
Hey, Casey.
So this is my testimonial for the never left on read program.
One of the biggest surprises of being a part of this program was that I didn't necessarily
expect so much information or so much growth to be had in all those modules.
What originally started off as an idea of understanding female dynamic and quote unquote
getting girls I ended up learning more about myself as a
man and as an individual.
I've learned on how to become a self respecting man, how to be someone who thinks abundantly
and someone who doesn't think based on scarcity.
Someone was out there fighting for and working towards this purpose.
I ended up learning on how to become the best version of myself.
I started taking myself more seriously.
I started to put priorities where priorities are do instead of having to think about girls
all the time, and to think about trying to get their number.
We're trying to hop on a date with them.
We're trying to get into relationship with them.
I started focusing on myself.
I started to focus more on my purpose and the things that actually mattered.
Because at the end of the day, I'm going to be taking care of myself.
Nobody else and the best part is
you are Falling your purpose
the girls will follow.
Because they find out that you're a man who can provide, who can take care of himself.
That's the most attractive thing out there.
You don't have to go and think about different types of pills as what you've said, you don't
have to try to be a pickup artist.
There's really not a lot of things that you have to do.
There's not a lot of hoops that you have to go through in order to find the quality people
in your life.
When I started focusing on my purpose, when I started focusing on understanding what female
dynamic really is, it wasn't uncomfortable truth in the beginning.
But what ended up happening was it is opened my mind to so many possibilities of discovering
myself and discovering toxic habits that I have for
other women that I've dated the realizations of the of how they've lost track
With me in the past, and to be able to fix those things, when it comes to dating future
women, higher quality women, when it comes to seeing myself as a person of high quality,
high sexual market value.
So, conclusion, what I expected to be something
that was just focused on women, I ended up having the massive realization, the massive
discovery that this is the key to not only getting back to the roots of what
a real man is like, but to get back into understanding what it
means to be back on purpose, to be back on becoming the best version of yourself.
So if there's anyone who's questioning this, as to thinking about whether or not this is
for them, you got to figure out what your priorities
are.
You got to sort out what your priorities are and what really matters in life.
Hop on this program.
You don't No excuse if you're finding yourself unsuccessful
in all yours and your life, whether it's your body, whether it's your mental health, your
spiritual health, whatever it may be.
Thank you, Casey.