I'm Christina Farr. I'm a technology reporter with CNBC and in my job I use a
lot of social media, especially LinkedIn and Twitter. But in my personal life, I
was all over Facebook and Instagram. It was just getting a little bit out of control.
So with everything going on in the news, with Facebook and all these privacy
scandals, it was a ready top of mind for me that I should take break. And I
approached my boyfriend about this in the summer and we decided actually that
we would do it together. We deleted Facebook and Instagram from our phones
and haven't logged in since. When I first got off social media, I found myself just
going to browser's randomly throughout the day and sometimes I would even just
type in the letter F, which was just bizarre because I had no intention
really of ever being on Facebook. But it was this this programmed behavior. But it
only really took me two weeks before I found myself letting go of the urg
turn to social media during my downtime. But we did have this weird moment on
social media when my boyfriend and I were traveling the summer in Greece and
Turkey. So we went to this island called Santorini, which is really beautiful and
it's famous for its sunsets. And around has 6 or 7, we just saw thrones of
people kind of waiting to capture the perfect selfie. They all had their
smartphones out and finally when the sunset hit, I think we were sort of alone
and really just sort of enjoying it without needing to see it through it lens.
So without the pressure to craft the perfect Instagram post, we ended up
taking a lot fewer photos on this vacation and just being more present in
what we were doing. But there were a few people that we wanted to connect with.
So we texted them a couple pictures and we just said thinking of you we missed you
and got back some really sweet responses. And then when we got home we took a
collection and we turned it into a photo album just for us. For me, it was just a
really positive experience to take a break from social media. When I would be
on Facebook and Instagram all the time, I just would constantly see these amazing
vacation pictures and people getting married and having babies and just
somehow doing all of that and excelling in their careers and it just always felt
like I was falling behind. Without the constant stream of updates about my
friends, I find myself feeling less anxious about my own life. And I've
gotten better at just relaxing in those moments where I would have been looking
at Instagram. So now I'll look out the window, I'll make like eye
contacts and smile at someone. But social media sites haven't given up on me.
I've been getting just so many annoying emails from Facebook telling me
that some random person has liked some other random person status and they've
been coming and I'm more frequently than longer I've been off. So I think it's
just coming across as a bit desperate. However, there are a few drawbacks to
being off of these apps. One is that I almost certainly missed a few events
just not seeing them on Facebook. And I may have missed a few life moments from
people that I do care about but I'm just not that close with anymore. But overall
this has just been a great break for me. So good in fact that I might never get
back on Facebook or Instagram. But if I did start using social media again, I
would make sure that I wasn't doing any of this infinite scrolling behavior and
maybe just check once or twice a week. Ultimately, I want to be in control of
how I use social media and I don't want social media to control me.
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