All right, gentlemen, here's the scenario. You've got five minutes til she shows
up. You know who I'm talking about that beautiful woman that was just hired earlier
this year at the company. You've talked to her a couple of times all business-related,
but you want to get to know her and this is the perfect event, but you've only got a
couple of minutes. Well, that's what this video is about, gentlemen.
Five hacks so that you could be more attractive in less than five minutes.
Tip number one to look more attractive in less than five minutes, in fact, this one
will have instant impact, smile. It sounds so simple, but many of us forget to do that.
Guys, the research doesn't lie. They take pictures of men, they put them right next
to each other, one guy is smiling the other one is not. He's got that kind of stoic
tough guy looking face. And that may be great in some situations, but oftentimes when somebody
walks into a room when you're seeing them, you want to give them a quick smile.
Now, don't smile all the time like something is wrong with you upstairs. So, you want to
make sure that you make eye contact with the individual, you give them a smile. You may
be even, you know, just a quick nod an acknowledgement that when they come in the room and people
are going to gravitate towards you. Now, closely related that and I'll call
this part 1B is going to be to actually listen to the person when they're talking.
A lot of guys especially when they're talking with women, they dominate the conversation.
You want to open yourself up to listening to what they have to say. Ask her questions,
ask her how things are going with work, transition to other parts of your life, but really listen
to her. People love it when people listen to them
when they remember their name, when they remember things about them and all of a sudden they're
like, wow, let me ask I've been talking about myself, can I hear about you. Guys,
that's a great way to start off the night. Now, before getting to my next point, gentlemen,
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Tip number two to be more attractive in less than five minutes, gentlemen is to uncross
the arms. Okay, when you stand like this, what signal are you sending? You're saying
stay away from me, don't get close to me, don't enter my space. And believe me, this
does not make you look more attractive, it may be makes you look more dominant and as
someone not to be messed with. But, we're talking about attraction here, so open yourself
up. Look at the people you're speaking with
and instead mimic what they're doing. This is a little bit more advanced if you don't
want to go overboard with this. But, if you are having trouble like you do this a lot
where you put your hands in your pocket, then simply say, okay, let me look at the people
I'm speaking with and I'll mimic some of their behaviors and people like it when
other people are similar to them. Now, if they're all crossing their arms
you may have a problem, you may just want to open up maybe tell a few jokes and actually
study the body language. A very interesting thing, gentlemen, but you want to send the
signal that you are open. Tip number three to come off as more attractive
in less than five minutes, gentlemen, surround yourself with people preferably women. So,
when you've got a couple of women around you and another woman sees it, she instantly
thinks, okay, this guy has status. Maybe she doesn't think it consciously, but sub-consciously
she knows that these other women have approved of you. That you aren't some weirdo aren't
some strange person even though you may be. But, the point is is that she says, okay,
they've approved, so I can approve. And it's a quick shortcut it's almost a little
bit of competition there. Yes, even in a professional setting. Now, let's say you're not around
a whole bunch of women, you've got a couple of other guys. Yes, go around them because
it's better than standing alone. Now, what you want to do with these guys is
you don't want to come off as the beta as the guy that basically is not, you know, he's
standing in the corner just listening and going like this. You want to be telling a
story, so preferably you've got a couple of great stories, you're making people laugh.
Instantly what she sees is this guy is the center, he's one of the leaders if not the
leader and so, I want to get to know that individual.
Next stop on how to look attractive in less than five minutes, gentlemen is to introduce
red in your outfit. So, watch this. Did you notice how my attraction levels just shot
up? Actually, guys, you don't even have to show that much red. It can be something
as simple as a pocket square with patterns with -- in a tie. You don't have to wear
a full red sweater or red suit or red blazer. No, you don't have to go that extreme, but
the color red sends signals of attraction. There was a 2010 cross study in which they
study people in China, the United States, Germany, England. Red again and again, women
were attracted to. My next tip on how to look more attractive
in less than five minutes, gentlemen is to send her a text before she shows up before
you actually see her. And couple key things on sending that text. Keep it short, keep
it fun, keep it playful, but do not misspell. Misspellings all of a sudden your attraction
level goes down and it basically becomes a negative when you're sending out that text.
Also, use emojis. I actually had a friend the other day, he sent -- he emojied himself.
I thought that was actually pretty cool and things like that believe it or not up your
attraction level. They build a bit of anticipation before you see the person.
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at the same time, I mean really you've got to experiment you got to give it a shot.
Guys, that's it. I'll see you in the next video. Take care.