Look man, there are three sabotaging mindsets that most guys have that can cause you to struggle
through year-long dry spells and the last one is so mainstream that it almost seems like common
sense but when you can change these mindsets you'll go from the latest addition to her gay
best friends to getting hot and heavy with your dream girl in the backseat of your toyota camry
so let's get into it the first mistake is believing that getting a girl will make
your life better if you're like this then you probably spend more time than you'd like to admit
fantasizing about how amazing it would be to have a girl swooning all over you
like some disney princess but the truth is getting a girlfriend probably isn't going to make your
life any better look man if you don't like your job or you have poor social skills or unhealthy
habits those problems are still going to make your life suck all you'll be doing is slapping
a girl-shaped band-aid on them but guess what you're never going to be able to do this because
this belief makes her so important to your happiness you'll become super needy you'll
try to please her impress her and do anything you can to make sure she's still interested in
you huge mistake she'll go running for the hills all because of that one little belief that instead
build a life that you enjoy first not only will you be a hundred times more attractive but you'll
care way less about adding a girl to it in fact you'll only be interested in girls that actually
add something to your already enjoyable life instead of needing a girl in your life you'll only
be interested in the ones that you genuinely want in your life which brings me to mistake number two
imagining fantasy scenarios so there's a woman you like maybe you see her across the bar
or at a party or maybe she's your friend and you want to talk to her or ask her out but instead
of just doing those things you start imagining scenarios where she just falls into your lap
confesses her love to you and is so impressed by what an attractive guy you are that she does
all the chasing herself big mistake because as soon as you snap back to reality you realize
she's gone home with another guy you blew it look we'd all love for the girl to do all the hard work
for us but the reality is it almost never happens you have to approach her flirt with her and make
moves you can't just wait for something to happen women aren't gonna just instantly fall in love
with you like in the movies you have to make it happen get playful with her compliment her
tease her or she'll think you're not interested in her friendzone you and move on to some other guy
who isn't afraid to make something happen and it's not because there was something wrong with you or
the other guy is better than you it's just because you waited for the attraction to happen instead of
making it happen yourself and finally one of the biggest mistakes that guys make is blaming their
lack of success with women on their lack of money or good looks look i know you've definitely seen a
hot girl with a really rich or really attractive guy and this has made you think that you need to
improve your bank balance or looks before you can start dating the attractive women that you want
another big mistake because you're failing to notice one important thing there are tons
of gorgeous women in the world that are dating perfectly normal guys like you beautiful women
aren't identical sure some of them do chase rich guys but others are perfectly happy with normal
everyday guys and there's a huge price you pay for not realizing this you're gonna focus only
on getting more money or bigger muscles rather than taking action and finding the amazing women
that would already like you and the more you focus on showcasing what a rich stud you are the more
you're gonna attract the kind of women who are only into that vain gold diggers all while driving
away the genuine women who now think you're just a self-absorbed douchebag is that what you really
want didn't think so look man this is just the tip of the iceberg if you want to really learn how to
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