Brainy Dose Presents:
The 12 Life Lessons You Need To Learn
There comes a time in our lives, when we realize that there are things we wish we would have
known earlier.
Often, we come to these realizations through personal growth and experience.
Sometimes, it takes a life changing event or crisis.
Which then leads us to question whether we truly did things to the best of our ability.
The following life lessons will change your perspective to enhance your experience of
life for the better!
Number One: Don’t Live By What You THINK You Should or Shouldn’t Do
Society and our family’s expectations tend to make us think there are things we should
or should not do.
However, living your life the way YOU want to, is the only way to be happy!
Don't limit yourself because of other people’s expectations.
It’s your life, and you should live it in a way that makes YOU happy.
Number Two: Don’t Make Things Bigger Than They Are
We can often make problems seem much bigger than they really are.
That’s because our minds like to focus and exaggerate worries and problems that aren’t
actually that big of a deal.
How many times have you thought something was a huge problem, but a day, week, or month
later you didn’t even think about it anymore?
Probably most of the time!
So try to eliminate all the unnecessary worry you put yourself through.
Number Three: Face Your Fears
We all have fears.
But, in order to grow, we need to face our fears more often.
Remember that most of your fears are only a product of your mind!
When you realize this, doing things you find intimidating and scary will actually become
a lot easier.
Number Four: Believe in Yourself and Don’t Give Up
We set goals, however we often give up easily when we don’t get the desired results fast
enough.
But, the secret to success is to take small but steady steps toward big changes!
Our goals are there to help us achieve and grow in the process.
Try to set yourself small, attainable goals and that will help you move toward your dreams.
Believe in yourself, and know that you are on the right path - no matter how long it
will take.
Number Five: Comfort Will Rob Your Life of Joy and Excitement
We seek comfort as a means to an end.
We take the cushy job, because we don’t want to struggle with finances or look for
a more challenging career.
The tendency of accepting the comfort of the sure things in life, and giving up the uncertainty
of adventure and passion, often leads to the decay of our passions and dreams.
Learn to push through your comfort zone, and find the life you really want to live.
Number Six: Consistency is More Important than Hard Work
Now, don’t get me wrong, hard work IS important.
But, we won’t accomplish much by working hard for a short time, becoming exhausted
and then giving up.
To achieve something great, we need to work at it consistently.
This means that you need to pace yourself!
Work as hard as you’re able to sustain, but not so hard that you burn out.
Number Seven: Stop Assuming What Other People Are Thinking
We often worry about what others are thinking about us.
Whether they are judging us for something we've said, or something we’ve done.
But the truth is, everyone around us is dealing with their own problems, worries, and insecurities.
So stop caring and assuming what others are thinking about you!
Chances are, they aren’t paying as much attention to you as you may think.
Number Eight: Help Others
One of the greatest joys of life is giving back to others and helping people you care
about.
Even helping strangers can create feelings of happiness and accomplishment.
Most people on their deathbeds will regret not giving more to the people in their life.
Don’t be one of those people.
Make more effort to give back and make a difference in other people’s lives.
Number Nine: You Will Regret the Things You Didn’t Do
We end up regretting the things we didn't do far more, than the things we did that were
considered wrong.
Whether it's a crush you didn’t kiss, the trip you didn’t take, or the project you
kept putting off.
If you get the chance to do something, just do it!
Because you may never get the chance again.
Number Ten: Don't Take Things and People for Granted
People, things, and places we hold most dear to our hearts, we often take for granted because
we have them so readily accessible in our lives.
But, it shouldn’t take a traumatic event to start valuing their importance.
Remind yourself frequently of the things you may be taking for granted each day, because
you never know when you might lose them.
Number Eleven: Be Present In the Here and Now
We spend so much time dwelling on the past, or planning for the future, that we forget
to experience the present moment.
But, the past has gone and the future hasn’t come yet - the present moment is ALL we have.
So, stop and look around you!
See what is happening right now, and be mindful of where you are in this moment.
By doing this, you will start to appreciate all that you have in your life RIGHT NOW.
Number Twelve: Appreciate Everything in Your Life
One of the most important life lessons is appreciation.
The more we appreciate the things in our life including people, experiences, lessons, and
even our possessions, the more we’ll be able to live in the present moment.
So, be thankful for ALL that makes your life good, because gratitude and appreciation is
the key to happiness.
What are some of the life lessons you’ve learned over the years?
And how have they impacted you or the way you live?
Share your experiences in the comments below!
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