Hey Tripp.
I'm Tyler and I'm 20 and I'm calling from Oregon.
What's up Tyler?
What's your question?
There's this girl that I work with.
I've known her for a couple years and at first I didn't feel attracted to her, but over the
years I started to develop feelings for her and I heard about the workplace and everything
and how it can be a little bit risky and everything.
Very risky, extremely risky.
I know all that.
High risk Tyler, high risk.
Yeah and I know the risk and everything.
I just like...
But you don't care, do you?
She just seems really cool, funny and teases me a lot in a joking way.
That's just part of her personality.
And and I just want to see just see what she's like outside of the workplace and try to make
it casual.
Do you think there are other cool girls out there outside the workplace?
Sorry, what was that?
Do you think that there are other women out there outside the workplace who are cool and
interesting and pretty and fun?
Um, yeah there is and I have done some approaching but it's just um about this girl.
But of course I probably need to keep looking.
Why is it worth the risk?
Right.
Why is it worth...
I know what you're gonna say.
But my question is why is it worth the risk when there are other women out there?
I get it.
It's easy.
It's right there.
That's why people go for women in the workplace.
Because it's right there.
It's inches away from them.
But it's a very high risk.
If you guys, first of all, there's a risk of sexual harassment.
There's a risk of if you guys even get together and then you break up, you're going to have
to spend eight hours a day... or four hours a day, if you work part time, whatever with
this person that you broke up with.
Your life is going to be miserable.
There's nothing to gain from dating someone in the workplace.
And there's and I know there's an argument out there that says, but lots of people do
it.
And how am I supposed to meet women?
Because there's so many women here.
It's so easy.
It's right there and other people do it.
Doesn't make it right.
Tyler you're 20, you're young my friend.
Are you in school?
Yes, sir.
Okay, focus on your school.
Focus on your schoolwork.
Do your job.
Focus on that.
When you graduate and you're focused on your school, get a great job, and then come back
to the whole dating scene where you're going to be doing a bunch of approaching.
I don't know if you're going to listen to me or not.
You may take this advice, you may not but just understand, the risk is higher than you
think.
It's not worth it in the end.
It's not.
Plus you're young.
Sure.
I'm not trying to be negative year.
But just I'm 34.
I have some years on you from experience and I know from statistics, most relationships
don't work out.
You got to think that even the ones that get to marriage 50%, at least in America, which
you are in, 50% end in divorce.
You can imagine how many relationships even get to that point.
I'm not saying don't get into a relationship.
By all means, I'm very into that concept.
That's why I do what I do.
But just know that because it's so slim, it's probably not going to work out with her anyways.
So even that is another argument for you to be able to go for someone else in a safer
environment.
True.
That's my answer my friend.
Okay.
Sure.
Yeah, that's great.
Thank you.
I appreciate that.
Thanks Tyler.
Thanks for calling my man.
Thank you.
Yeah.
Thank you for everything you do.
I've been watching you for a while and just keep doing what you're doing.
I appreciate that.
You're very welcome.
Thank you.
Okay, have a good one.
Bye.