Hey there.
Adam LoDolce from sexyconfidence.com where I help the 21st century woman create a love
life she absolutely freaking loves.
In this video right now, I'm going to be talking about the three signs that a guy wants a serious
relationship with you.
Keep watching.
Dating has changed a whole lot over the past hundred years.
A hundred years ago, it was generally either nothing or I am seriously interested in marrying
you.
There was nothing in between.
In 1917, there weren't too many casual late-night booty calls.
In 1917, there weren't too many guys who just text you but not follow-up.
In 1917, there certainly weren't any I'm going to meet you on Tinder, have sex with you,
then never talk to you ever again, because Tinder didn't exist back then.
Back then, it was a lot easier for a woman to know if a guy was serious.
Generally, if he was pursuing you, he was generally courting you for marriage.
"Madam, would you care to go on a date with me?"
"Perhaps, but you must first write a letter to my father asking him for permission."
"Of course, I understand.
Of course."
It was a tad bit more formal back then than it is now.
Although, I think relationships are much healthier now and give women total freedom to do what
it is that they want with their love lives, relationships have also become just a little
bit messy.
Now, it's so important for a woman to be able to decipher if a man's intentions are relationship
focused or just sex focused.
Here are three signs that a guy really is interested in something a lot more serious
than just casual.
Number one is he wants to get to know you the person, not you your body.
Now we have a client that's in my platinum coaching program and she had a lot of challenges.
She was seeing this guy and they had just amazing sexual chemistry.
They were seeing each other for a while, but she found that over the three-month period
this dude didn't no anything about her.
She had a hobby and she's really into horseback riding, and of course, he never asked anything
about it.
He didn't know that she even did it.
He didn't know anything about her off relationship with her mom.
Shoot, this guy didn't even know really what she did for a living.
You'd think that after three months, this guy would be trying to get to know her, but
he wasn't.
Now, she just justified it in her mind.
She thought he's busy, he's got a lot going on in his life, so maybe that's why he's not
asking much.
The reality is if he's not trying to learn more about you, then reality is he just doesn't
care.
I know that's the harsh reality of this, but it's so important for you to be able to decipher
the guys who are actually interested in getting to know you the person, rather than you just
in the bedroom.
Number two is he uses the "R" word, relationships.
Back many years ago when I was single and not looking for a serious relationship, I
would avoid the "R" word at all possible costs.
"I just think relationships are so great."
"Uh, so, I don't know if you heard, but Donald Trump is now president."
When men are in that stage in their life, they are going to avoid any chance of having
the talk and they will avoid that "R" word.
On the other hand, when men are actually looking for a serious relationship and they're open
to it, they'll talk about relationships in a positive way.
Number three is he stops trying to live the single guy lifestyle and he's willing to grow
up a little bit.
If you find that during the week, he's willing to spend time with you during the weekday,
but on the weekend he's going out and getting wasted with his single buddies at the bar,
then you know what?
He's probably still getting out there a little bit.
A guy who really does want a serious relationship is willing to commit his life to that woman.
He's not teetering on the edge of being the single guy having fun going out, or being
in that relationship.
He's got to really be willing to put that aside and invest more of his time, both during
the week and on the weekends.
He's going to want to spend that time with you rather than always going out there and
spending time with his single buddies and doing what it is that single guys do.
Now I want to hear from you.
Have you ever dated a guy who really wasn't interested in a relationship, but you kept
seeing him?
Let us know in the comments.
I'd love to hear your story.
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Bye-bye.