how can the girl get the kiss out of you
i'm sweating here
hi i'm carla from venezuela i'm leon from germany
i'm gabriela and i'm from chile i'm jinho and i'm from korea
obviously say hi hug and kiss like one time one time only one time that's it
well with latin everyone knows it's always a kiss on the cheek first date would be like
a little usually in my country the guy comes and pick her up and we go usually for a
restaurant or something like i'm not your dog so you cannot take me out gonna walk in korea
i would say you know like the safest bet would be to start off with uh coffee dates you know
dinner might mean a little more and obviously after eating we can go for drinks and dancing
because dancing is a huge part of my culture and if you don't know how to dance then probably
the date is not going to happen she has a whole plan already. It's usually the guy that comes up
with a plan oh that sounds nice there's not much planning going on you kind of meet in a corner
somewhere in chile and say well i guess where do we go from here it's not good ladies it's not
good oh korean men would get into trouble for that that's a big huge no-no. Usually you just meet at
the place to be honest and we don't really have in mind what we do we can go to a restaurant to a bar
and if we're up for dancing if you find a german that can dance without alcohol or being super
drunk you can be happy to dance let's go venezuela i would probably not accept like me going by
myself to a place no i wouldn't accept it no take note of that we are very touchy very romantic
so if you don't look at me in the eyes when i'm talking if you don't like try to see my hair how
beautiful i am you need to compliment me my makeup because i took a lot of hours to come here okay
thunder was so fitting though to what she said like that bad bad especially if you like each
other you're like right up against each other from the start you know there's always the tricks you
want to sit down and be like oh and a lot of like playing dumb and coy just kind of making it get
even closer and closer and closer in the shortest amount of time possible especially if you like
each other if we go dancing obviously we're going to be touching each other you know by not touching
you don't dance like in a group or something we're like no no we don't dance like that
like you need to do that must be like south side yeah yeah together lastly just don't do any sexual
any sexual stuff no i don't think i will i have to say anything anymore am i allowed to say my oh my
god so like the distance i have with gabriella would be a little too intimate on a first date
he's freaking out that takes a slight step back here and there you know but then you know like
as you're walking there's gonna be like a little touches definitely and you know it's gonna be like
i definitely agree we should look at the eyes that's really important so for example we do
shears it's very important germany to look in the eyes otherwise it's called seven years bad sex
that's like rule in germany so i agree with that i don't think we are overly touchy that would be
something probably a bit uncomfortable for us if a guy was immediately putting his arm around me
right away that's not what we're into we do like a lot of the kind of like slover and seduction stuff
but there will be a lot of like constant touching walking together something like we do want to do a
lot of kind of like i think especially considering that a german would date a latina for example
and you take charge of like you know we dance and you're really easy going about it you can easily
take and convince the german to do the same it's just not that we would initiate it kissing at the
beginning halfway through at the end if we're into it like it's gonna happen just endless kissing
that has never happened to me on my first day of my first date so yeah we're very different i would
say maybe like on a third third even if you're really into her first date second date it doesn't
have any if i like the person i'm gonna do it in the second and the first one in the second if like
when i feel it it's not a must but i think a first date is definitely possible it's not a big deal
yeah yeah for sure there's always the the question of doubt like whether she's into me as well you
know what you sort of don't really know on a first date what would a girl have to do to let you know
she's interested so that you want to reciprocate uh um how can the girl get the kiss out of you
oh god i'm sweating here when that person is driving me back to my home because obviously
you know they need to drive me back then in the car that's probably going to happen
and you know after the dance you know you're dropping me up in my house then and
it sounds like an already written story like you expect a guy to drive you home okay in this moment
yes i have to do that moment because yeah we wish chilean men would and they're not going to like
me saying this but they try to kind of go half and half dutch however that's not my preference
so my opinion and what i heard from other people i think you would definitely pay a drink that's
like a form of being a gentleman what's the word for it um chivalrous if it comes to a
point where you feel like okay i'm just exposing that i'm the guy and i have more money and have
more power that's something weird to us so i think if it's some act of kindness we do
it or the whole dinner not necessarily it also depends on how the date went if it was
horrible and if you both don't like each other then we probably just split anyways
so what do you say like the bill comes and it's 200 dollars what do you say no you and me i don't
think i have a choice i could even see a german girl being offended if you are too pushy and or
i have to pay you'll be like okay that's kind of patriarchal or sexist or something like that
you know my answer do you guys have sex on a first date if we want to yeah we're into it
we're probably having sex halfway through oh oh my
what about it tell me you go first uh yeah for sure if it responds
if it happens it happens you know after the kiss when you're leaving me my house then you
know i can say you wanna go inside with me and then it can happen so the typical movie thing
right like is that what it means i think girls don't like men being touchy at all like
um that could actually be a blindness physical intimacy doesn't usually happen that early and
how do korean men feel about that like are you okay with that is that at your comfort level
but in general but in general i think i mean it's just like widely accepted quickly do the guys
accept it do they want it or uh you know or they want more touchy-touchy again i'm vigorous but we
don't expect it we are not mad if it doesn't work out and i think there's a fair point for
saying we delay it for a bit and wait for the second third days because otherwise
maybe there's already some attachment because people get more attached after the first time
but we wouldn't say okay we don't have sex for sure it depends on the vibe and how how
physical you are how good is the connection in your kiss and all of that kind of stuff yes
yes yes i've never uh met a woman from latin america it's full of energy it
seems like you know it's wild passionate crazy euphoria that's what i was trying
in comparison i feel like we're a little more reserved which i find it boring and you see many
couples from northern europe and latin america and it really often works out because i think the
values are similar from germany and latin america because you believe in long-term family honesty
and trust and all of that but the temperament is very different so germans are a little bit more
reserved they are like they need someone to push them to be more emotional to open up from what i
heard at least you can confirm that or not we're toxic yes we are i definitely would in fact um
we're saying that in chilean culture especially the women there's a huge fascination for korean
men like we're really into it i think it's because it's the opposite i think it's because it's very
gentlemanly and gentle now of course some of that distance may not work for us but as we are finding
out they might not want so much distance i know in venezuela we are very superficial and i don't know
why this is part big part of the culture that you need to like make your race better so like if you
are dating somebody that is whiter than you or like has blue eyes it is you know you think the
same way about latinas latina you made it if i bring you home and you have blue eyes my mommy
will be like i'm so proud of you like it doesn't matter where like where you believes like if you
want to marry me it doesn't matter but you're good looking so my mom is recording yes you made it
hahaha