Today I’m going to talk about masturbating and how it affects your body and especially
your mind.
Lots of Questions About Masturbation
Because of my YouTube channel and the hundreds of millions of views, in addition to my social
media channels, I’ve had a LOT of guys ask me about masturbation.
And it’s daily and it doesn’t seem to ever stop.
And because of this, I’ve done a lot of videos about this topic and I’ll give you
the links to them at the end of this video
However, I figured with all these videos about masturbation would be enough…
But the questions keep coming and at times, I find them somewhat silly.
“How often can I masturbate, I don’t want to do it incorrectly”
“Will it make me lose muscle” “Is it going to shrink my penis if I do
it daily” “Will it stop me from growing”
“How quickly can I have an orgasm without it affecting my health”
“Will I get cancer or some other health problem”
“Can i masturbate AND still have sex” And on and on and on
I think to myself, “why is he asking me this?
Is he being serious?”
And then, I stop and go back in time when I was young.
“Masturbation, Blindness & Hair Palms”!
The silly things we used to be told, such as “maturbating will make you go blind”
or “give you hairy palms” and other stupid things that a young, impressional boy may
believe.
And as you may know, most guys are NOT good at communicating.
And when it comes to masturbating, this is something we never talked about growing up.
Thus, why so many are confused and lost.
It was something we all did, but never spoke about it out loud.
It was a taboo topic.
NO Talk About Sex In My Home Growing Up
For example, in my own home, we NEVER spoke about anything sexual.
It was 3 boys, me and my two older brothers… and there was never any talk about women.
It was odd.
But, my dad is really old school and super strict.
I remember this one time the entire family -- mom, dad and my brothers and I -- were
all watching something on TV or a rented movie or something.
It was like Game of Thrones type of movie and some renaissance girl took her top off
and exposed her breasts briefly.
Within seconds my dad says to me, “son, it’s time for bed”.
Mind you, it was like 8 pm.
I think I was in my very early teens and since my brother's were much older than me, 12 and
15 years - my dad was talking directly to ME
I thought, “what the hell, I’ve seen plenty of tits in my time…”
Well, you know - like in Playboy and stuff.
But, that was that - I got up and went to my bedroom and there was never any talk about
it, ever.
Thus, I got the point - no talk about sexual stuff, ever!!!... and certainly not about
masturbation.
“Wet Dreams” & Nocturnal Emissions
Another time I remember speaking to one of my best friends, Greg, about this topic when
we were in our late 20;s and he said, “yeah, growing up my mom told me to never masturbate
or else I’ll go to hell and that I’m a bad person…
And so, I never masturbated growing up”.
I then said, “But how?
… Men produce hundreds of millions of sperm daily, it has to come out - especially with
the crazy testosterone levels of a teenage boy”
Greg replied, “I didn’t know - I guess this is why I had wet dreams every single
night.
And in the morning, I’d get up early and wash my sheets or underwear, so my mom wouldn’t
find out”
He didn’t want his mom to think less of him.
This is all because he was ashamed or embarrassed or felt guilt and didn’t know any better.
The Masturbation “Confusion” Continue...
Unfortunately the problems still exists, decades later.
Even with the internet, guys are still very confused about the topic of masturbating.
However, I DO think that the situation has gotten worse because of all the porn readily
available online.
To a super horny young man, he can’t help himself.
The porn can be addictive.
By the way, this isn’t just men - women are watching a ton of porn as well.
And these days, it’s a lot more hardcore and graphic, compared to when I was young.
When, all we had was Playboy and maybe, Penthouse.
Porn, Masturbation & Addiction
PORN, at a young age, DOES change how the mind perceives sex, himself and women.
It rewires things in the brain.
It’s addictive due to the Dopamine stimulation, just like cocaine.
So, for a lot of guys, porn has become a bit of an addiction.
It gets in the way of productivity, closeness with other people and sexual connections in
relationships.
Something To Think About
Anyway, I’m going to end today’s topic with some things to think about, IF you’re
concerned or confused about masturbation
It’s totally natural - so, don’t feel guilty, or ashamed or think there’s something
wrong with you.
There is no specific right or wrong way or how much or how often.
You’re not going to go blind, get hairy palms, get cancer, not grow taller or have
other physical problems.
You’re not going to hell either and God isn’t going to hate you or whatever.
He’s got bigger problems to deal with.
However, you also cannot let masturbation control you.
You can’t let IT and porn control your actions and/or get in the way of relationships or
getting stuff done during the day.
This I see is the biggest problem with masturbation, especially compounded with porn - the addictive
aspects of it.
Not because your PHYSICALLY horny, but something PSYCHOLOGICALLY is happening.
That’s not natural, normal or healthy.
It’s more of a mental addiction, rather than physical.
Even though masturbation is a physical act, NOT mental!
Anyway, that’s it for today.
Make sure you scroll down below, to the description area and watch my other masturbation related
videos to help give you more clarity, so you can feel more confident.