Then Mr. Western loop or whatever over here. Actually,
technically it's not a band. It's a sprout. (mocking crowd member)
This clip and imagine that you're the guy in the crowd and the bully with the
microphone is just some guy.
Maybe you're in a group of five or six and you say what the guy in the crowd
does and his name is Andrew Scholz. He says, what? He says to you,
what would you do to come back from him cracking and making funny.
I want you to really think about that and then I'm going to pop back on
afterwards and we're going to analyze this and I'm a teach you what you could
say to a bully like this or anyone trying to put you down to put them in their
place. When you're really on the hook, like this guy in the crowd,
God damn time. You could see the whole city skyline from that one thing. Yeah.
[inaudible] I'm trying to be pretended to Sidney's lamp.
You think? I don't know. You could see the skyline buddy. Let's look at
this girl.
You can see all the buildings in the reflective
[inaudible]. Then mr Western loop road ever over here. Actually,
technically it's not a pain. It's a sprout,
so don't think that just because this guy has the microphone that this is any
different than any other social interaction in a group.
Even if this guy didn't have a mic, you could be doing the exact same thing,
so he calls him out for basically being dumb and not seeing what was really
going on in the social interaction.
Basically saying he couldn't see that he was flirting.
He wasn't that interested in what those girls were saying and this guy took it
very seriously saying he's a dope and couldn't read social cues,
but here's the thing.
He's actually using a twist on a technique that I teach in the Quicken,
witty comeback bootcamp called the derogatory nickname.
Now that he's got him pinned as that dope that couldn't read the social cues and
he's the guides that's thinking about things really logically,
he's going to go back over and over and hit the guy with it again.
Most people confuse us. Thanks.
No. Now, one
of the things to learn about his delivery that's so good is that's really nasty
when you find success. A guy,
clearly he didn't sell like he was a super jovial guy. He's a very serious guy,
making a comment, trying to contribute.
So he calls him out for basically being an idiot.
But look how hard he's laughing at it. That really it.
If you were somebody who tried to deliver that same joke but wasn't laughing,
which is very serious about it, like you know,
emulating the same thing but not joking, then it's not seen as funny.
Just seen as nasty. Like nobody likes to be around people that are nasty,
but this guy's laughing. He's having a good time with it.
So that makes it all framed in a way that's lighthearted.
So people watching this see him as high status because not only is he the
authority making fun of somebody else,
calling somebody else out for not seeing social cues,
but he's having a great time. He's got a great mood,
which sucks people in people want to be part of a good energy.
Oh, you got to keep you around this block for no reason.
You're like, damn girl, those heels must be tough to walk in. Those are wedges
once, let's say he's not on stage and this is just a, let's say you're at a bar,
okay,
let's say he's at a bar flirting with some girls and maybe this guy is friends
with those girls or some guy that wants to talk to those girls as well.
Any time this guy says anything,
what if this guy at this point says something that's actually kind of cool or
logical, right? Or say it's a different interaction. He says something cool,
logical.
All this guy has to do is get in that voice and call it out again and again
until the guy leaves.
The guy realizes anything I say is going to make me look more stupid.
I'm just going to leave at this point. It's a very, very Ty,
I was coaching my program only use this and clearly this is a standup comedian.
He's known for Crowdwork. He does this on stage all the time,
but only use this when someone's being really nasty.
Let's say you are at out at a restaurant with your buddy and you're talking to
some women and some other guy comes up and tries to join your group.
Don't just immediately blow him out of the water with something super rude like
this.
There's a lot of other more low key ways that you can keep your status and keep
the group engaged and get the guy out of there without blowing him out of the
water like something like this. But this is a great example to walk.
That's not exactly
a fertilizer pump. That might be a pop.
Where are you from, miss? What's your background? Why are you tan looking?
You're Cuban. Oh, that's what's up, man. That's what's up.
Technically she shouldn't be here. So
if you are that guy in the crowd and this guy was talking to you like this,
or let's say more realistically, you're just out.
Maybe you said a happy hour and some guy's drunk and he's coming at you like
this. He catches you with something like this. You said stupid.
What would you do to defend yourself?
I've got another YouTube video I'll walk you through.
How to come up with Quicken,
witty things to say when people try to talk down to you,
or maybe it's just at the workplace,
or maybe your friends or family always make you look stupid.
You just kind of stand there and you can't think of anything quick to say to put
them in place.
That's a real problem because people learn to know you as an easy target,
and so they naturally make funny anytime they get a chance.
Whereas you can crack people a few times these quick comebacks,
they're no longer gonna make fun of you because they don't want to get made fun
of by you because they know you've got a sharp comeback. So you can touch her.
Click right here and I'll walk you through that and that YouTube video here now.
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