I want to share with you some thoughts I've been having lately about modern women and their
appreciation for men or I should say their lack of appreciation for men. And the reason why I wanted
to do this video is to build you up a little bit and try to make you understand how powerful
you really are. One of the things, the biggest thing that comes to mind when I say that women
don't understand a man's struggles or don't appreciate men enough, is the idea behind
rejection. This is how it works in society. Men are the ones that have to go and approach women.
They are the ones that have to assert themselves. They're the ones that have to start conversations,
they are the ones expected to ask the girl out,
and they're expected because this is what women want. I'm not complaining about that fact.
In fact, that is what I teach here on the channel and teaching you to be confident enough to go up
to women start conversation and assert yourself and be proactive in the dating process so you can
build attraction and have the dating life that you want. However, because this is the case,
men have to go out and get rejected over and over again. The problem is, I don't think
that women these days understand that struggle. I think right now there's so much discussion on what
men are doing wrong. And I get it, there are a few guys out there, a few terrible men who've done
some terrible things in Hollywood and other areas. But I think that that has created some sort of
bias against men because we're only hearing about all the bad things about them.
We don't hear enough good things about them and then we don't understand, or I should say
women are not understanding the struggles that we go through and what we have to make ourselves
more attractive and put ourselves out there and like I said, go through this whole rejection that
most women will never have to go through. And I remember I was talking about this on TikTok and
there were some females commenting on my TikTok and saying well men don't have to go through
how women having to get lead on by men. A lot of women get lead on by men and then crush them.
And you know what, I get it. I understand that that does happen. But let me tell you something
that also happens to men. Now men are getting lead on and they still have to suffer going
through all that rejection because a woman won't put herself out there. Again, I'm not complaining
about this because this is the situation. This is what has to happen and I'm not trying to have a
fight about who has it worse. All I'm saying is, men have it hard and I don't think that women
appreciate that enough. Now again, I'm only talking about this in the dating attraction
and love space. I'm not talking about this when it comes to equal opportunities in employment or
anything like that. I'm just talking about in the dating world. And I have to say, and I will
fight tooth and nail to say that men absolutely have it harder. Again,
not complaining here. I'm just stating reality, stating facts. And you know that, you're a man,
you're watching this, you understand that. But I'm stating these facts
for the reason to say that I believe that you, my friend, have to be proud of yourself
for what you have to go through as a man in the dating world. I even think it was a Chris Rock
video that I saw where he says that children, women and animals are loved unconditionally,
but men they have to prove themselves. I don't know how much truth there is to that, but there's
definitely a little bit of truth there. That hit me somewhere. I was like oh wow yeah that
seems right. You even watch the movie Titanic and it's like "women and children first". It's just,
I'm not saying that they're worse than men. I'm saying here that feels like men are disregarded in
that way. Like a man is not special, unless he has to prove himself. But I'm telling you, my friend,
you are special, you are awesome, and the things that you have to put up with
when it comes to the dating game, it's not easy. Be proud of yourself. Make this video give
yourself a little bit of boost of self-esteem. If you're that guy who's going out there,
putting himself out there and trying to make something of himself, trying to get the best that
he can in the world with whatever it is you're trying to do, and especially with the dating game,
be proud of yourself because this isn't easy. But also, I don't want you to be on the other end of
the spectrum where you're complaining so much that you go to MGTOW, men going their own way who just
say I'm defeated, this is too hard, I'm not going to do it. That is the weak loser mentality. You
are not a loser, you are a winner. Because you still want what's best for yourself,
you're not going to drown yourself in sorrow, you're not going to drown yourself in this just
being miserable all the time and complaining all the time, which I know this video sounds
like it's a big complaint, but really it's supposed to be the opposite. To build you up,
to not knock you down. I want you to share this with some friends who might need this because
this is something that is important to remember. That you are a man and you're doing good things in
the world. I'm talking to those guys out there who are good men, who are decent human beings,
who are just trying to get another woman that he wants, that he's attracted to,
and do good things on this earth. Don't let anyone bring you down. Even though right now
it's a little bit tough in this world to be a guy. I've said my piece. I want to hear from you.
Leave a comment down below. Press that like button if this resonated with you, if this is
motivational to you. Let me hear your thoughts and your comments. I'll talk to you there.