Matt: You've got our phone number now what do you do? Well, in this video I'll break
down exactly what to text a girl to get a date fast because I typically send
only three to five messages to get a date and I'll even give you those exact
messages in just a second the key is that you have to stand out from all the
other guys that are texting her because if she's an attractive woman
then she's getting bombarded by messages from guys every single day so I'm gonna
show you exactly how to stand out. My name is Matt Artisan, international dating
coach. Anchor: He has mastered the art of seduction. Narrator: Many boot camps encourage men to be assertive.
Matt: We've done all the testing you know what works. Now I'm about to give you the
exact texting sequence that I use to get a date with a girl but first I want to
give you a free texting cheat sheet that you can download and use right now for
free after years of sending thousands of text
messages I compiled a list of 20 of my best texts that I personally use in
there you'll discover my simple texting sequence to get the date fast you'll
discover the single biggest mistake that most guys make when texting that kills
attraction and is the reason that most girls stop responding inside I'll even
show you what's a text her to turn her on so just click the link down in the
description to download those texts right now just follow the link and I'll
send it straight to your email okay now let me help you with your texting I'm
gonna give you five texting tips and examples and number five is the exact
texting sequence that I use to get a date first I want to clear one thing up
right now texting is a lot easier when you had a solid interaction in person if
there wasn't any attraction or connection when you first met her
there's not much you can do through texting to fix that assuming that you
had a great face-to-face interaction or maybe you got her phone number off of
tinder or Bumble tip number one has to do with timing timing is really really
important don't text too soon or too late
yeah well the twos enough not to look anxious yeah choose enough not to look
anxious but I think three days is kind of money yeah but you know why maybe
I'll wait three weeks don't wait that long if you need a girl
at a bar text her the next day in the afternoon because the longer you wait
the memories that she have has of you start to fade and remember women are
getting bombarded by guys messaging them from tinder or just randomly on social
media and if you wait too long she might already be into another guy I only text
her the same night if I think there's a chance that she might come over maybe
after she drops off her friends and I'm just gonna text her what I'm doing for
example when to go grab pizza to kill the hangover or milkshakes at 2:00 a.m.
Rock and if she replies and says something like
I wish I could have a milkshake then of course I'm going to invite her this
works well because sometimes she just needs to get away from her friends then
she's totally willing to come meet up with you later alone now if you meet a
girl during the daytime don't wait more than three or four hours to send your
first text unless you had a really great interaction and maybe there's a little
bit longer than normal then you still might be on her mind the next day but I
typically only wait three or four hours to send my first text if I met her
during the daytime now what about replying to her texts how
long should you wait to reply back well the key here is to be random don't
always text her back right away but don't always wait too long either don't
just stop whatever you're doing to check your phone and text your back in fact
keep your phone on silent and only check it a few times throughout the day this
way sometimes you're gonna text your back right away because you happen to be
looking at your phone or she just sent you a message right before you look at
it most of the time it's gonna be a few hours but sometimes it might be the
longer than that maybe the whole day or not till the next day because you're a
busy guy that keeps things a lot more random and it prevents you from
overthinking things or playing games just be a busy guy live a cool and
interesting life and texter randomly because a girl that you just met
shouldn't be the most important thing in your life by the way make sure to
subscribe to this channel for more dating tips because I want to help you
attract your dream woman next don't over text when I'm coaching guys and I check
their texting interactions I usually see 20 or 30 texts back and forth without
them ever asking or going for the date don't do that
remember the goal of texting is to get the date like I said before I go through
the date usually within 5 texts because why do more work than what is necessary
plus if you're texting her all the time it shows her that you're not a busy guy
and that you don't really have a lot going on in your life and women like
guys that have other things going on in their life other than them and keep your
text short and sweet before you send it out look it over one time and see if
there's any unnecessary words and delete them don't send 3 or 4 sentences when
you could have said the exact same thing with just one sentence next I
you to be slightly more playful in your text here's why because when she sees
that you're a fun playful guy she'll realize that going on a date with you is
gonna be interesting and fun instead of boring but if you're sending her a bunch
of boring text like hey what's up or hey what are you doing then she's gonna
assume that you're gonna ask her a bunch of boring questions on the date so just
make things a little bit more interesting than the average guy instead
of saying hey what's up or hey what are you doing
say what kinda trouble are you getting into this weekend just adding the word
trouble makes it a little bit more interesting another example instead of
sending a ping text like hey you could send hey you just popped into my head
what kind of weird voodoo magic are you using a text like that can actually make
her smile which causes her to associate positive emotions with you whereas a
text like hey doesn't do anything and remember there's a lot more examples in
the free texting cheat sheet next text like a man what I mean by that is cut
out unnecessary questions now of course you do want to ask her questions by the
way I like to ask interesting questions like if you could have any superpower
what would you have or if you could travel anywhere in the world where would
you go that can create some fun back and forth what I mean is that you want to
avoid questions that imply that you're not sure if she actually likes you or
not or that you're unsure if she actually wants to hang out with you
instead of texting wanna hang out sometime
which implies that you don't know if she wants to hang out with you text her a
command statement that assumes she wants to hang out with you something like hey
let's meet up Saturday night I know this great place this shows her that you
assume that she's attracted to you and wants to see you again which is
basically showing confidence and it's also good to be specific as to when and
where you want to hang out instead of just saying hey let's hang out sometime
send hey let's hang out tomorrow night I have a really fun idea or you could tell
her what the fun idea is and tell her the exact location cancel all plans
tomorrow night I know a great band that's playing at Crazy Charlie's let's
go it's gonna be fun it's specific and it's a command instead of a question now
I want to give you the exact texting sequence from start to finish
I use when I get a girl's number and then go for a date first when I get her
number I usually text her something that
includes a callback something that relates or calls back to the initial
interaction that we had if it was at night then it's usually something fun
that we joked about or something maybe that I teased her about for example
maybe we did a fun marriage roleplay and then the next day in the afternoon I
text her hey wifey I cheated on you with the housekeeper don't be mad if we met
during the daytime which is not as playful of an environment compared to a
bar I might recall maybe her reaction to my approach especially since women don't
get approached nearly as much during the daytime something like so crazy meeting
you today it was cute how you dropped your phone when I said hi or maybe she
didn't drop her phone but she just seemed a little nervous then I might say
so what expected running into you earlier it was cute how nervous you got
when I said hi notice also how I didn't use the word nice because nice is so
overused instead I use the word unexpected or so crazy or so random
meeting you and then after she replies send a fun yet challenging text
something like make it or break it question would you rather be poor and
traveled the world or be rich but could never leave your city I like that one
because I like to travel and I like women that like to travel so I encourage
you to pick something based on equality that you wanted a woman but don't make
it too complicated don't ask her about her hopes and dreams and passions in
life because that's just too intense and too personal keep it fun and save those
kind of questions for the date by the way you should be qualifying women in
your initial interactions with them as well because a woman wants a man that
she has to work for a little bit that she has to win over that she has to
chase she doesn't want a man who just Falls for her for no reason other than
it looks and I like the make-it-or-break-it part because that's
what makes it actually sound like a challenge there's other ways of course
for example if you like adventurous women you could text her tell me this
are you adventurous it's short and sweet and it causes her to invest just a
little bit and it creates the frame that you are screening her that your test
her to see if she meets your standards then after she replies there might be
some fun back and forth there's a lot of examples remember how to keep it fun and
flirty in the texting cheat sheet make sure to get that and then just find out
when she's free find out what her schedule is like just text her waiting
you're free this week or if you want to be a little bit more fun and playful you
could add in besides missing me in doodling hearts on a piece of paper
what are you doing this weekend and then just go for the date if for example she
said she's free on Sunday then just text her okay listen I have a super fun idea
keep Sunday night open I like that because it gets her wondering what the
super fun idea is right it sounds like a surprise and of course some girls will
just go for that others will want to know what the fun idea is in which I
usually just text something like cool or that you probably haven't been to first
meet me at handlebar be there at 8 p.m. try it out man because it works really
well it's simple and it's not gamey or gimmicky remember women want a man with
a plan who go for what they want and for more text that you can use remember to
download the free texting cheat sheet with 20 proven texts for getting the
date and making her want you in there I'll show you what to text her if she's
not responding and I'll even show you what to text her to turn her on so just
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attract your dream woman my name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man, and i'll
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