hello today we're going to answer
another great question from a lovely
remaining stamp and Sam right i know
that my resume and cover letter are good
i keep getting job interviews but never
seem to be able to get a job offer
I always call afterwards and Oscar
feedback we always tell me the same
thing it's always somethin like you were
great you interview very well and we
love you but we went with someone who
have more experience what is really
wrong with me
how can i find out what i'm doing wrong
if no one will be honestly sound great
question Sam this is something that we
all have wondered at one time or another
in our lives so don't worry girl you're
not alone on this one
in this video we're going to go through
three things you can do right away to
figure out what you're doing and how you
can finally get the job offers you
deserve so stay tuned
first of all before we dive in I want to
say it's great that you're getting
interviews at all
lots of people have a problem where they
can get interviews so you're already
ahead of the game they're so good for
you
let's dip dive into those things you can
do right away number one asked for it in
a few different ways so I know you
mentioned that you're asking for
feedback and that's great
there's a few different ways in which
you can ask for feedback and get some
different results for example could ask
if I could have done one thing
differently to change the outcome of
your decision
what would that have it second example
what specific experience or
characteristic to the successful
candidate have that I can work on in the
future
example 3 is there a single thing that I
could work on to have a better chance
when i apply next time for example a
certification experience of a specific
type in a specific area industry
depending on what it is and what you've
already heard from them and what applies
at the time by asking for feedback in
more specific and targeted ways it makes
it easier for them to answer and it
pushes them a little bit to give you
some more concrete instead of their
usual non-answer which believe me really
drives me nuts to number to put yourself
under the microscope so don't be afraid
to do this film a video of yourself when
interviewing and watch it back now I
know this is super weird
trust me when I first started making
these videos i was totally weirded out
by seeing myself on camera is still out
i often pretend that it's someone else
and watching but this can really help
you tremendously i had people do this
and they have seen the light that they
never would have seen before so for
example maybe you're smiling too much
this happen where my client's she
realized when she video of herself that
she was smiling too much and that she
looked really funny and so she decided
that that was something that you could
work on so when you start smiling a bit
less and start to be a little bit more
natural then that can definitely change
the results
perhaps you're rambling maybe you're
using real
like too much who knows what it could be
this could help you figure it out number
three recruit people who will tell it to
you straight
so you probably have lots of people in
your life that you can count on to be
honest with you ask a trusted friend
mentor colleague to do a mock interview
with you and let them know the dilemma
facing you can record this interview or
just ask them for their honest opinion
tell them what they might be looking for
and ask them to give you the honest
truth
number four maybe it's not you have you
ever considered the fact that depending
on how many interviews you've been on
really could be that you're not the
issue i really believe that those who
get you deserve you and those who don't
can leave you alone anyway you know it's
frustrating but if you're not getting
higher
it's worth considering the possibility
that none of those jobs are right for
you and that the right job just hasn't
come along yet perhaps you're applying
to the wrong type of companies that
aren't a good fit for your personality
if I was interviewing for government
jobs for example i'm pretty sure that I
would be a good fit and I probably
wouldn't get any job offers so don't
beat yourself up
find out if there's something to improve
by using the tips i mentioned in this
video and if you discover nothing for
doing all those things then it's
possible that it's just not you i want
to stress
don't give up everybody is playing the
same game and you can play again
tomorrow
look at it another way number five it's
not a failure
it's just a test I love this example so
if the child was trying to walk and he
kept falling down and he falls down say
50 times does he throw in the towel and
say well this is too hard i guess
walking is just not for me or does he
keep trying you use something to go on
to the next time
or he figures out that his life was in
the wrong position he shifts the balance
of his feet there are a thousand
different tweaks he can make and he
inevitably gets better and better and
better every time so my point here is
don't give up if it was easy everyone
would do it
and there we have it five things you can
do if you're getting interviews but no
job offers feel free to click the thumbs
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doing that may have been preventing you
from getting a job or moving forward in
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and i know you have what it takes and
I've got you covered
thank you so much for watching I'll see
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