The definition of a victim is when someone says to you: Why are you so unhappy?
And you say: I am this way because of that person, or that thing,
that circumstance. Which is really saying: I'm allowing my outer world to
control my feelings and my thoughts.
And so, then the moment you say:
Hey, this person or this circumstance is making me feel this way,
then you're a victim to those circumstances!
So then, there's nothing wrong with that.
It's just how we live in our humanity.
So as an example,
the more altered you feel emotionally inside of you because of
some condition in your outer world,
let's say something causes you to feel angry or something
causes you to feel sad,
the moment you stop feeling like Laura and you start feeling altered,
the change in your internal state causes you to pay attention to
what's happening in your outer world.
And so, you narrow your focus on the cause. Now, the problem with that
is that the problems and circumstances in our life that are causing us
to feel the most emotions,
we re putting most of our attention on. And where you place your
attention is where you place your energy!
So in a sense, you're giving your power away to that person or that
circumstance.
So then, now your energy is commingled with the person that you dislike,
with your enemy, with your boss, with your co-worker, with your ex,
because that's where all of your attention is.
So then, when you're living in survival, then you're saying:
Well, that person who's betraying me, or that person that's making me
feel unhappy,
I got to be prepared
when it happens again. So, we start anticipating subconsciously
that it's going to happen again.
So we live in this constant state of vigilance, this constant state of
survival! And in survival,
it's not a time to create!
If you're being chased by a predator, is not a time to sit down on the ground,
go within, close your eyes, you would be vulnerable.
It's not a time to learn.
It's not a time to open your heart.
It's not a time to go within.
It's a time to run to fight and to hide.
And so, the primitive nature in us in survival, which again 70%
of the time we're living in that state of emergency.
And in emergency
it's not a time for growth.
It's not a time to create.
It's not a time for repair.
It's time for emergency.
So then, think about this.
So then, if you're waking up every single day and you're living
in this constant state, then for the most part then you're not going
to want to believe that your thoughts have anything to do with
your future.
In fact, getting a person to sit down and close their eyes,
who's fearful, who's anxious, who's worried,
who's depressed,
that takes an enormous amount of effort.
But if they understand the theory and the technology then, then all
of a sudden, if they start applying themselves and going within,
and every time they start noticing a thought that's connected to a person
or to an emotion, and they stop and they settle their body back down
into the present moment, the act of
doing that is a victory!
Most people say: I didn't, I can't focus. No, you became aware
that you lost the present moment, and you return back to the present moment,
every time you do that -
you're telling the body
it's no longer the mind - that you're the mind. And there's a liberation
of energy.
The body is releasing energy.
Then the body says: Well, you normally wake up
at 8 o'clock,
you get in traffic. And now all of a sudden, you start getting angry in traffic.
And now you're sitting there with your eyes closed, and the
body is going: You're off schedule.
You usually feel angry at this time!
So, the body
starts craving anger.
And so, what it does is it sends signals to the brain of all the past
things in your life
you can get angry about.
And now, the moment you realize that your brain is doing that, just for the
addiction of that emotion, and where you place your attention is where
you place your energy,
if you put your attention on that emotion, you're siphoning energy out
of the present moment into the past. You become aware of that, you return
back to the present moment.
And you tell the body then it's no longer the mind.
You settle it down.
That's another victory.
Then the body says: Well, I want to get up.
I got emails to check.
I got to take a shower.
I got phone calls to make, I got texts to return, and it wants to get up.
And you wanted it to sit down, and you realize that when it's on a
program and starts to do that, and you settle it back down into
the present moment,
it's another victory!
That means then - your will is getting greater than the program!
And David is slaying Goliath. And the act of doing this over time, sooner or
later, the body
is just the animal. It's just a servant. Sooner or later,
if you're training an animal to sit, sooner or later
it's going to learn how to sit. And the body finally
surrenders to another mind. And that is the moment the person
starts freeing themselves.
So then, once they get beyond their body, their identity, the people in
their life, the things they own, the place they live and time itself,
when they become pure consciousness,
now it's time to begin to connect to that resource or that field!
And being able to understand how to do that
allows them all of a sudden to create more from holism, from oneness,
instead of duality, polarity or separation.
And because the hormones of stress heighten the senses and we become
materialists, which means then - there's me here.
And there's you there.
And if you look different than me, I'm going to feel more separate.
Then there's me here.
And then there's my dreams way over there, way out there. Because that's
how I see them.
At a distance. I gotta drag my body through space and it's going
to take time for me to get my new house, my new career, my new
relationship, because I'm matter trying to influence matter.
So then, in the quantum though,
when you start connecting to this field, you experience less
separation and more wholeness!
And now when you create from the field, all you have to do is
change your energy.
And so, when you do that properly, you no longer play by the rules of
Newtonian physics.
In fact, you do the opposite. You start drawing experiences to you!
Because now you are the vortex. We could say: You collapse time and
space, or the experience is drawn to you.
Now all of a sudden the game changes. Because the synchronicities,
the coincidences, the serendipities, the opportunities start showing up
in your life. And you're now the vortex, you're the center of that.
When that starts to occur and you start correlating what you
were doing inside of you that produced that experience outside of you,
you're going to pay attention to what you did and you're going to
do it again!
And sooner or later,
you're going to start believing more that you are the creator of your
life, and less the victim of your life.
Now, here's the caveat.
You can have a great meditation, feel all holy, feel all spiritual,
feel all connected,
and then the moment you open your eyes, you return back to the program.
You start getting angry.
You start getting frustrated.
You start getting impatient.
The moment you do that, you just disconnected from the energy of your future.
And you're back to the energy of your past.
And don't expect anything to change in your life!
That in fact, the whole purpose of this work is to change the brain
and body.
So that when you get up from your meditation, that you can maintain
that modified state of mind and body your entire day.
And if you can, get ready! Because weird and wonderful things are going
to begin to happen in your life.
So, you got to be able to sustain that state with your eyes open.
As well as you did and reaching there with your eyes closed. And it's a
practice! And even Einstein said it's a vibrational
Universe.
I mean, when there's a vibrational match between you and some
experience that exists in the quantum field, get ready!
Because you're drawing experiences to you. And then all of a sudden,
you have to keep re-defining abundance.
I mean, my definition of abundance today is very different than it was
just a year ago.
Because so many people think abundance is about money, but abundance
is having more than you need.
Like having way more than you need.
So now, I have my, all my needs are met. And then
then when you have that experience, then what is your next definition
of abundance?
If you truly believe then, that's abundance.
Is there another level? But you would never know that. Until you've had
the experience
of abundance to that point.
So then all of a sudden, our definitions begin to change. Same thing
with health. You see all these people, they come in and they think that
they just want to get their body healthy. But what they're really
doing is getting their mind healthy. They're changing their energy,
their having all these other things going on. And they reach a point
where they're so happy with themselves,
they're so in love with life, they're in such a state of grace and
gratitude that they could care less if they have the disease!
Because they're so happy
within.
That's the moment disease goes away, because they're no longer the same
personality.
They're somebody else! The disease exists in the other person, because
they're thinking differently.
They're acting differently.
They're feeling differently.
And how you think, how you act and how you feel is called your
personality! And your personality creates your personal reality.
Change your personality - you change your personal reality!
Most people are trying to create a new personal reality as the same
personality, and it doesn't work.
You literally have to become someone else!
So teaching
people how to do that, and then strengthening their belief in
themselves, because when you believe in yourself - you believe in
possibilities!
When you believe in possibilities, you believe in yourself. So, so many
people close the door to possibilities. Because they're viewing their
future through the lens of the past.
Why? The brain is a record of the past.
It's an artifact of everything you've learned and experienced to this moment.
It's wired to the past! And feelings and emotions are the
end product of past experiences.
So, most people wake up in the morning,
they start thinking about their problems.
Those problems are memories that are etched in their brain that are
connected to certain people and things at certain times and places.
The moment
they start remembering their problems,
they're already thinking in the past. Every one of those problems has
an emotion associated to them.
So, they start feeling discouraged.
They start feeling unhappy.
They start feeling like a failure. And the moment they feel those emotions,
now the body's in the past.
Why?
Because thoughts are the language of the brain and feelings are the
language of the body!
And how you think and how you feel creates your state of being.
So, in a sense, most people wake up and their entire state of being is
in the past.
So, how can they see a new possibility when they're viewing their
future through the lens of the past?
So then I say: If you're not being defined by a vision of the future,
then all you're left with is the memories of the past. And you will be
predictable in your life.
So people love to wait for trauma, or crisis, or disease, or diagnosis, or loss,
or something to go wrong in their life where they just reached their
lowest point,
where they say:
I gotta change and I got to stop thinking this way.
What I've been thinking about?
How I've been acting, how I've been feeling? And the act of
observing yourself by observation begins to disentangle you from
the program. Because now you're the consciousness observing the program.
And you begin to objectify your subject self!
That's lighting a match in a dark place.
And most people would rather turn on the TV, they'd rather get on their
cell phone, they'd rather get on the internet.
They would rather something outside of them change how they feel
inside of them.
And this work is about regulating it without anything
outside of you.
Because when you do that, now you're free! You don't need a person.
You don't need a drug.
You don't need a thing, you don't need a shopping spree, a football game.
You don't need any of those things.
You can do it by yourself.
And that's when we begin to develop this thing called "unconditional love"!
Because our students, we've measured their neurotransmitters,
oxytocin levels. And many of our students go up hundreds of times.
Oxytocin is the love chemical. And oxytocin signals nitric oxide.
And nitric oxide signals a chemical called "derived endothelial relaxing factor".
Which is a big word for causing your heart
to literally swell. Causes the arteries in your heart to get more
oxygen, more nutrients, more blood.
It's not something mystical.
It's very physiological.
It's just like when you're sexually aroused,
blood flows there. The same thing is happening.
But only it's happening in your heart. And you feel, with a different
consciousness,
so much love.
This is where our creative center starts.
This is the beginning of our Divinity.
This is our connection.
This is the union of polarity, the union of opposites.
This is Oneness
and where wholeness begins!
This is where we should be creating from.
So if you can't get energy here, and you can feel a love for your
future, it means then on some level you're more addicted to the
emotions of the past.
So then, this is really fundamental. Because when people start to make
those changes, they start getting happy for no reason.
And all the things that they thought they wanted, you know,
the career, the relationship, all those things,
they no longer want them. Because they feel so whole they feel like
they already have them.
And so, if your oxytocin levels are up 200 times, you're so in
love with life, you feel so amazing, that you wouldn't
start judging another person. Because if you did, you'd lose the feeling.
And people start figuring out:
I'm just going to stop judging.
Hey, that person
that betrayed me 10 years ago,
I feel so whole
I'm gonna let them go!
I got to take my attention off them, because you feel so great
you don't really care about them any longer. And that's forgiveness!
But you're not trying to do it.
You're not trying to be spiritual.
You're not trying to be a forgiving.
It's the side effect of a shift in consciousness. And when energy makes
it to the heart, it goes right to the brain.
We've measured that enough times. And it resets the person's baseline
for fear and anxiety.
It begins to change the survival centers in the brain, and the person
is no longer
so vigilant, looking around in their outer world of what's going to
change and try to control and predict it.
They're more relaxed into to the present moment.
And of course now, things are happening around them.
So the work then becomes instrumental.
Not just because we want people to make those significant changes, but
we also want them to reap the benefits of their own efforts.
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